Mama Lou Legacies Must Be Preserved For The Future Generation July 2019

Dealing with Death of Loved Ones. Updated 3 June 2019

It is 5+ years since I returned from Jamaica after burying my mother. What I have been through these past years have taught me many things that have left me reticent about how I am able to go about doing the things I am passionate about. That’s why I have invested in https://https://fight4justiceadvocacy.business.site to get some sense of purpose for my life. Because www.leyf.org.uk  colluded with the www.gov.uk to ruin my career and destroying my life. And that’s another reason I will be naming all those involved in the hate crime in https://www.gov.uk/employment-tribunal-decisions/ms-m-myers-v-london-early-years-foundation-2300047-2016 which made me a target for the terrorist in the MURDER COUNTRY after my mother passed away with dementia. And why I decided to become a www.dementiafriends.org.uk to learn more and provide support.    1. 1st LinkedIn Publication 19th July 2017 Dealing with Death of Loved Ones updated – 2. 18 Agenda For Meeting With The Police 17 June 2019 (Autosaved) 3. 18 June 2019 Conclusion of Meeting at Southwark Police Station

 Mervelee Tomlinson aka Mervelee Myers & Mervelee Ratty Nembhard

Carer at Carer at Home.

In the space of 7 months, I have made 2 trips to my beloved country Jamaica for 2 momentous and poignant occasions in my life. I traveled to Jamaica on the 22.12.13, my son’s birthday to attend his wedding on new years day 01.01.14. I was privileged to spend 4 weeks establishing links with my elderly mum whose health was in steady decline. Mum who had dementia did not recognise her only daughter, but I was blessed in a variety of ways. Because my son was living at home with mum, he had become one of the familiar persons who represented consistency and continuity in her life. In a sense, he had taken my place in mum’s heart whilst I was away from the roost. I am no stranger to controversy as I have been defending myself and others from I was a child. So when I had to call on support www.icsouthlondon.co.uk was there for me in 2004.

During my 4 weeks at home, I was empowered to get some more insights into the aging processes that are parts of the transitions from birth to death. If I am lucky I might encounter some of the changes I have witnessed throughout my life as a parent, informal and formal carer. If I live to be anywhere near to my mum’s age of 90 years old, I will be blessed with wisdom beyond my age. Now I can honestly say I totally understand the age-old adage that my older folks used “once a man twice a child…” Mum went back to being a child who needed attention 24/7 near the end of her life here on earth. I also got a clearer picture of the person I will morph into as I get older. I am now proud to be compared to my mother www.ancestrydna.co.uk/privacy since I want to know my history better.

I am saying this because, at one stage, I’d be mortified if anyone had the gall to compare me to mum and my grandma. But as the years went by and I decided to delve into my family history, I was dumbfounded to make some discoveries. Whilst in Jamaica I took the opportunity to put some of my studies acc-gen@open.ac.uk that I had done about the young and elderly to good use. I pandered to mums every needs applying techniques www.open.ac.uk/ceremonies to revive her memories despite her dementia. I sang with her, talked about her loved ones who had gone on before and did all in my power to preserve her dignity. It was truly amazing to witness mum being so humble and grateful whenever anyone did her a good turn.

This reminded me so much of some of the vulnerable children with whom I worked over the years www.ofsted.gov.uk. The vulnerable children and adults are relying on the practitioners and other health care professionals to provide for their diverse and complex needs www.alzheimers.org.uk/getinvolved.  I felt a sense of purpose when I can implement early intervention strategies from studies and training to meet the needs of any vulnerable human being. I must confess that I had a few eye-opening experiences being with mum, before heading back to the UK where duty calls. That meant I could not stay with mum to celebrate her 90th birthday, but I left with the convictions that I would not be seeing her alive again.

Back in the UK, I was kept up to date with her progress as per usual. Then after doing Race for Life www.cruk.org in honour of my brother who died of Cancer in 2008, on the 30th May in Clapham. I had these strange feelings before going to bed and I just could not stop crying. I can say as part of my beliefs that my loved ones who had gone on before had reached out to prepare me about mum’s passing in advance. In the middle of the night, I was woken up by the telephone call I was dreading and was in tuned to the time when mum drew her last breathe. After getting the news I spent the following weeks making preparations for going home to bury mum. This was one of the hardest couples of weeks I had encountered, but I took things in my stride and carried on.

I drafted the eulogy and remembrance since I am the one responsible for documenting the family history during those couple of weeks. I continued working as hard as ever, burning the candle at both ends to meet my targeted outcomes. I went back to Jamaica to bury mum but decided with my siblings that this was a time for the family to celebrate a life well spent. I got home and took part in the preparations, said I was not going to cry, but on the day of the funeral it was a different story completely. I left home in good spirit, walked up to the casket, looked at mum lying there so quiet and lifeless, and touched her face and hands. I guess that’s when the reality that mum was gone hit home and I could not stop the tears from flowing. So I cried and paced up and down until there were no more tears. In hindsight, I guess dad’s long illness with www.parkinsons.org.uk which robbed me of my father at such an early age might have been uppermost in my mind.

I have been dealing with the death of my loved ones from I was in my teens with the murder of 2 uncles in their homes from both parents, 2 years apart. The gruesome death of my grandma’s only son totally destroyed her and she never recovered. She died 2 years later, a month after the death of my dad in 1980. From complications inclusive of www.diabestes.org.uk. This meant my family had to deal with death 2 folds over a period of time. Then in 1994, I lost my brother at the tender age of 37 years old. Strangely enough, he was present when our uncle was brutally murdered and escaped with a few bruises. I lost another brother to Cancer in 2008 after a short illness, he was only 56 years old. That’s why I am more than happy to be accepted as a www.volunteer.macmillan.org.uk. The other family I had lost were not that significant, because I knew absolutely nothing about the intricacies of death.

Listening to current debates about euthanasia, the treatment of the vulnerable and the Bill being debated in Parliament… https://petition.parliament.uk/help/standards don’t have a clue about life in general. Parliament across the world is run by zombies and yes wo/men in some countries. I can’t help but reflect on some of my own experiences throughout the times when my dad and grandma were sick. Dad was sick for over a decade before he died and in the end, needed care around the clock. To compound matters, gran took sick and mum had to care for both, with help from her children. I recalled once hearing my brother saying that if it was left to him alone, he would give dad something for him to sleep. Although I was not home during my brother’s brief illness before his death, I have cause to believe he might have hastened his life.

All he did to hasten his life was to eat the things that the doctor told him that was not good for his health. I came to this conclusion after going back home and being given certain information and knowing what his thoughts were about suffering. I know I could not take that pathway if any of my loved ones or myself ever end up like my dad, because of my knowledge, values, and beliefs. But this will not take away from the fact that I can understand why some would decide to go that route. I have seen so much suffering in my lifetime www.slam-iapt.nhs.uk/southwark. I wished there was some way for people to avoid the indignity of depending on anyone else for their every need. Before I reached maturity and gain the knowledge I remonstrated with a God who would allow my dad to suffer so much. I was advised by www.healthmanltd.com to seek Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) to find out why I react to certain situations the way I do.

Suffice it to say that I am wiser about such matters and even though I have mellowed, I wish people did not have to suffer like my dad and become like my mum in the last lap of her journey. Although I knew mum would die of old age it was still hard to accept losing a loved one, in particular, my mother. She was the centre of our life because of the sacrifices she had made for her family when her husband took sick and died years later. I am proud to say that because I had dedicated my life to educating myself as an older www.ageuk.org.uk/update student. Because I never had the opportunity when younger. I was instrumental in diagnosing mum’s condition. Passing information to my family to help them provide mum with the care that she would not otherwise have gotten.

When I was still in Jamaica nothing was known about some of the conditions which affected the disabled and elderly. Therefore when these disabled and sick elderly people behaved a certain way, they were stereotyped and classed as mad, miserable or labeled with a variety of undignified names. In this age of enlightenment, I am glad to say that studying empowered me to address some of the imbalances which made my mum’s later days on this earth a more bearable time for her and her family. I am no prophet and will not claim to be brighter than anyone else. But I am proud of the way I have empowered www.aoug.org.uk/awards myself to enable me to cope with the challenges of life. By these tokens I am better equipped to handle my personal and professional life.

There are 2 things that are certain in the trilogy of humankind – birth and death, and after death the resurrection. I am praying even though I am not much of a Christian like my Father and Mother before me. But I wish I don’t have to suffer the indignity of having to rely on others to care for me like my parents before me. I guess this is why I take my health so important and have been making lifestyle changes www.heal-d.co.uk to keep healthy as long as is reasonably possible. These changes were put in place since I was diagnosed with a variety of illnesses, some of which is heredity. I intend to keep in tip-top shape for as long as I can. However there are certain matters over which we mere humans do not have the final say, so I am more than happy to leave such matters in the hands of the Almighty Father who knows everything best.

Mum has gone on to rest from her hard labours and toil and I am sure all my family is in agreement that mum is better off resting instead of staying on this earth suffering and having no memories of her family. I am more than confident mum has been reunited with all her loved ones who have gone on before? She has done a wonderful job throughout her time and I am more than grateful for the mother God gave me for the 55 years she spent here with me. My cyber footprints are to be found all over https://www.google.com and elsewhere.

Mervelee Tomlinson

Carer at Carer at Home

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Simon L

Billing Resolutions Manager at E.ON

What I’ve learned is that in the “Trilogy of Life”, one thing is uncertain and one thing is sure: life and death, respectively. May your lost loved ones rest in peace, Mervelee. This is just one of the persons I meet over the years because of the type of personality I possess. Therefore we connected on https://www.facebook.com and https://www.linkedin.com and in other spaces. However, since the death of my mother and what http://www.justice.gov.uk/tribunals/employment/claims/responding have done to me second time around, I prefer to stay my distance from most of those I know. I will keep my own counsel about how I move forward as of now.

Life is just too short to spend all this time living with regrets. I will count my blessings and move on. But at the same time, I will continue with my Figh4justice until the end. There is no way those who colluded to make my life the living hell it was the past 5 years are getting away. Unless my Mother was not Perline Louise Nembhard of Chambers and Saunders and Crooks clans from Westmoreland, Jamaica.

 

Facebook Abusing Their Power 28/6/2019

This is Facebook that helped LEYF Nurseries #LEYF to #ruin 22 years of my #career and the LEYF Careers after graduating from Lambeth College with a Student of the Year certificate 1998-1999. And as an For members of the OU- Open university graduate in May 2009 www.acc-gen@open.ac.uk and www.open.ac.uk/ceremonies. Who did the interview with WCS the same month before going home to celebrate my Family Reunion in the Summer and starting work with Westminster Children Society now LEYF the #terrorcell of the Early Years Sector.

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This is Facebook for Windows that give LEYF #access to my account from the 18 September 2015 to terrorise me. This ended with the second nervous breakdown in a toxic workplace after I was passed #fit to return to work like what happened at King’s College Hospital after the death of my brother with colon cancer. I could not attend his funeral the same way I missed that of my other brother who #died in #jail. But we decided what was best and I #promised to support my #nieice through schooling. 1. Depression 14th July 2016 2. Letter to LEYF Solicitors 15th October 2015 8.9.2017 3. Employment Tribunals Additional Witness Statements 18.1.2017 4. DWP What is a nervous breakdown 3.4.2018

This is Facebook Login Alerts that terrorize me from the time I was celebrating my son Kevin Murray creating history in Townhead & Adjacent Districts Of Westmoreland Group on the 28 November 2016. Facebook allowed #trolls to make my life a living hell in addition to the #labels that caused the meltdowns from the time LEYF tampered with my data and get Bates,Wells & Braithwaite to trigger my traumas. Then Voice: The Union for Education Professionals did what UNISON done before. I was targeted by Capsticks Solicitors of Wimbledon. But I was participant in research recommended to Acas by the Policy Studies Institute. 1. A Daughter Tribute To Her Mother 5 Years After The Final Goodbye 16th January 2019 2. KD Murray 40 Years 9.8.2017 3. Naheel BrownLegister 5.5.2017 4. Adrina Legister Gift of a Granddaughter 4 May 2019

When Facebook Marketplace Community decide to address my #grievance then they can talk to me. They have taken my intellectual property like #juneosullivan and others from 1997 when I started studying and profited from them. 1. DWP Universal Credit EAT Conspiracy Theory 6th April 2018 2. DWP Housing Benefits Decisions 13th August 2017 3. Small Claims Court Telephone Mediation Services 7th April 2019 Mrs Mervelee Myers v Ms Winsome Duncan 4. Winsome Duncan Threats 31st October 2017

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Responding To Ratna Khanam Of IOPC

Dear Mrs. Myers

I am a Casework Manager for the Independent Office for Police Conduct. I am writing to introduce myself and to let you know that I have been allocated your appeal against the Metropolitan Police Service of your complaint investigation.

I have started reading through the background papers that are associated with your case. My role in the appeal process is to review the local investigation that has been conducted by the police into your complaint, and not to re-investigate it. I will not be conducting any form of investigation.

I aim to complete my assessment within the next 7 working days. Please note that once my assessment is complete, I am not permitted to change my decision. If you have any questions or require more information please email me using the details provided below.

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Casework Manager / Rheolydd Gwaith Achos

Independent Office for Police Conduct (IOPC)

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Let me go through this paragraph at a time. Because I no longer have the #inclination or any more time to #waste with anyone about the #discrimination that impacted on me and taken away 5 years of my 60 years so far.

I am happy that finally, www.policeconduct.gov.uk can find the time to allocate me a Casework Manager. Just wondering if this has anything to do with the #incidents at Southwark Police Station yesterday, by any chance? How many #appeals have I had to go through and is this just another form of discrimination where my trauma is exacerbated and triggered using my sensitive data about my disabilities?

Finally, someone is reading through the background papers. What the hell took the IOPC so long? You know what I am damn tired of been fed information that is not #relevant. For example, stop wasting my time telling me what you will not be doing. How does that have any bearings on the case?

This damn thing started on the 30/10/2017 and it’s only now after I decided that enough is enough and gone public hat the IOPC is ready to act. What guarantee do I have to know if you are #capable to #complete the #assessment within the next 7 working days? It’s none of my business what your #remit on this case is. I couldn’t care less about what you are permitted or not to do. Therefore you can chop and change as much as you wish. That’s what the Police involved in this matter have been doing from Winsome Duncan: Author, Artist & Book Confidence Coach decided to put her #terrorist plot into place and get the Police to carry it out for her. After what happened yesterday at Southwark Police Station, I am at a loss to understand what questions I would have that would get a satisfactory answer from anyone involved in this case. Or what information that is available for the Police to give me.

Since I have provided all the relevant information, I have no other invested interest except leaving you to get on with your job. I have other things to do as a result of Police #negligence to have time to waste. I have lost 5 years of my life already. I can’t afford to lose another minute.

Kindest regards.

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Celebrating The War Veterans 6 June 2019

I wanted to update this post from 2015 to reflect my https://fight4justiceadvocacy.business.site and where I am at in my recovery from www.leyf.org.uk. But since it seems as if https://www.facebook.com is still intent on making me out to be what is at https://www.gov.uk/employment-tribunal-decisions/ms-m-myers-v-london-early-years-foundation-2300047-2016, I will hold my peace for now. I just do not have any more time to waste with haters and terrorists. Let me end by saying I believe my healing is almost completed. I walked pass BIB today and my anger has gone. 
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Lest We Forget 7th November 2015. Updated #6th June 2019 in honour of Townhead & Adjacent Districts Of Westmoreland as the world celebrating the D-Day Landing. Without further ado, I #refuse to let Facebook run me #ragged like those young soldiers who #sacrifice their lives for #freedom on the #6thJune1944.

As a child growing up in Jamaica, we always celebrated “POPPY DAY” ON THE 11TH November. And although I do not have much memory of this “Remembrance Sunday was celebrated with much zeal to honour those who fought in the “World Wars” and I guess that’s all I can tell anyone about the history of the celebrations back then. That’s why I am going to continue praising the “power of knowledge” and the impact of me “enhancing knowledge has had on my life” from I came to the UK. Fast forward to 23 years ago when I first came to the UK and I am telling anyone that my knowledge was so limited that I can claim I was very ignorant. I am big enough to chat my chat about myself and I refuse to take back any of my chats. Because contrary to what some of those “ignorant detractors” would like to make me out to be, I always was the same person I am today and was yesterday. If in doubt see me at https://www.google.com.

Therefore I won’t let any of their “negative discourses” cause me to wonder if I am not the genuine person who left Jamaica 23+ years (27 years) ago to make the most of the opportunities that I was gifted with. So lest I forget where I am coming from, I am going to continue living my life from the values and beliefs that my parents brought me up with and don’t let anyone tells me I am not genuine. Of course, I have to accept my faults and failures as the cussing “bad wuds” (words) and all those other things I do to help me be me, the person who I am. As we are about to celebrate another “Remembrance Sunday” and since I have plenty of time on my hands. l think I am entitled to use that time wisely to tell the story of those Jamaican who made valuable contributions to the “World Wars” in their own inimitable fashions. Today the 6th June 2019 is the 75th year since the D-Day Landing in 1944. Of course, there is Social Media and the World Wide Web to provide us with enhancing knowledge like I did when I enrolled acc-gen@open.ac.uk and became a graduate www.open.ac.uk/ceremonies just before my 50th birthday.

Now I have to start with the only Jamaican person I knew who fought in the “Battlefields to help secure our Freedom” not to be discriminated against in no shape nor form. Mr. Reziel (and anyone is entitled to correct me if I spelled the name wrong) aka “MASSY WELCH” was the closest person I’ll ever come to know who was directly connected to and involved in the “World Wars” and I learned the information from the TV. Therefore here is the proof that every single thing has uses in life. It is down to us the individual to use whatever media for good and not evil/bad. Knowing how much “my parents revered their family ties” I owe it to my mother’s memory to tell the story as little as I know it, about one of her family not related by blood. Although mama is only related to Mr. Welch by way of marriage, she was very proud of her links to every single one no matter their status in life.

So let me clarify that mama prided herself on being the cousin of “Mrs. URA HEWLING-WELCH” and might give me a sign if I don’t let that knowledge be known. Where I come from in Westmoreland Jamaica, everyone was related in some shape or form. Therefore I am taking “bragging rights” to pay homage to mama’s cousin Ms. Ura’s husband Massy Welch, who was a colourful character and figure in our “community of Townhead Westmoreland” Jamaica. It would be amiss of me if I did not mention “Caney, Hewling Town” that was the birthplace of mama and where my sister – Yvonne, mama’s other daughter and her dad – Claudius were buried. Caney was packed with the history of my parents’, family and who is who in the community.

Before I go any further let me salute mama’s cousin Ms. Ura and Massy Welch’s offspring and hope they approve of my little story? Those that I have to make mention of are Loy aka Patrice Scott, Lennon aka Kirk Tallah Welch, Kim aka Heidi McGann and Pam from Mother Hinds clan. Now I set out try and do justice to a story that is close to my heart, especially because of what I’ve had to endure at the hands of some “Racist, Bully, Low Life Thugs” this past year. This is even more harrowing for me because all this started not long after coming back from Jamaica where I’d gone to put mama to rest with all my “loved ones who’d gone on before” and others I trusted gave their approvals and joined in to make my life a living hell.

If I never took the final steps to put an end to my suffering, I might not be here now writing this story in memory of those veterans who make such great sacrifices for us to be here today as free people. I just know enough about the World Wars I supposed to get by in life and back then apart from celebrating “Poppy Day” I doubt very much that it was important for me to learn about the “nitty gritty” of History, Geography or any other subject for that matter because I was not a teacher and probably had a one track mind. Knowing about the history of the World Wars were not that important to me and many more like me. As long as we wear our Poppy to “celebrate the bravery of those men and women who fought and gave their lives to protect our rights to live in a free society” I’d done my bit.

This was enough for me until another year when the usual fuss was made about important dates in the annals of history and I leave well enough alone. Knowing what I know now I blame the powers that and hold them responsible and accountable for shortchanging us of our education. Because I believe it was downright remiss of them not to have taught us about the feats of the local heroes, living amongst us like Mr. Welch, who played such important roles in shaping the world history. It took me coming here to live in the UK when I was already in my 30’s and watching a programme on TV – Ground Force to identify one of the locals from my community to learn that he was a “War Veteran” who sacrificed his life for Queen and country.

Mr. Welch was living in the community where I was born, bred and lived until I immigrated to the UK, yet I knew absolutely about his feats fighting in the World Wars. I believe it was a dying shame and someone done Mr. Welch and all of us pupils a great disservice for not documenting his life story as part of the curriculum for us to have learned in school. I was living at 17 Denchworth House, Stockwell, London SW9 OBN which is closer to Brixton. As I recall now the TV was on in the background and I swear I wasn’t watching, but identified the voice and turned to look and saw this tall man I recognized to be Mr. Welch. So I stopped to pay attention to the programme. Allan Titchmarsh, Charlie Dimmock, and Tommy Walsh were doing Ground Force from Curphy Place Mandeville Manchester Jamaica.

The Ground Force Team were in Jamaica refurbishing Curphy Place that is home to the “War Veterans and Retired Soldiers” in Jamaica. What struck me about the programme was the subject that Mr. Welch was talking about, his fear of lizards and how he was squeamish about the lizards that were not even near him. I was not aware either that Mr. Welch had retired to the Home because I was no longer in Jamaica. And at the time was not taking as many interests in what was going on at home like I am doing now. My information about Mr Welch being a “War Veteran” came about from me watching one of my favourite programmes on the TV. And some organisations in Great Britain was investing in ensuring those who made sacrifices on behalf of others were duly rewarded when they needed the assistance most.

In the “prime of their life” when some of them were suffering ill health or age was taking its toll on how they were able to fend for themselves, they were provided with the assistance they needed. It was only years later when I got hooked into enhancing knowledge via studies and through my work that I began to learn about the roles played by some of our pioneers like “Mary Seacole” when we celebrate “Black History Month”. That I felt a sense of great loss for some missed opportunities that we were denied as students. I feel we were cheated and short-changed as students in Jamaica, because in God’s name why we were not taught the history of the local heroes like Mr. Welch who lived amongst us in our community. Mr. Welch’s wife was the “Head Teacher” of the Primary School and the family lived in the cottage that was part of the school compound.

And I can’t help now but fume at the waste of some of my precious time being taught about some obscure persons who we could only learn about from textbooks and try to visualize who they were and what part they played in our life and history. Yet our very own “national treasure who was a hero in his own rights” and was there in person to share his stories with us was not given the opportunity. Not only did we not get to hear first-hand out of the “horse’s mouth” about life on the front line, but we did not get to celebrate their lives and give them the accolades they rightfully deserved. I don’t believe in waiting until a person has died to celebrate their achievements. You might now ask why I then only write about people when they are dead, but if you check you will see that is not really the truth and I can only document stories when I get hold of them.

I am full of good intentions, have started many stories only for something or other to crap up to get me off my track. I, therefore, have to set myself targets and meet deadlines in order that I can bring these stories to public attention. Even when I have time on my hands something always come between me and what I really want to be doing to hinder my progress. As they say, time waits for no one and one has to make the most of the time we are given before it is too late and we live in regrets for not accomplishing some of what really matters in life. When I watched that TV programme all those years ago, I never really thirst for knowledge as I later aspired to. I am using my God-given talents to make the most of my creativity as some of my research empowered me to go on to achieve so much that give me so much satisfaction and pleasures in life.

I think I have mellowed with the years and I am better off as I can use my knowledge and expertise not only to benefit myself but to enrich the lives of others. That’s why I’ve resolved to do something about addressing the imbalance that was created that caused us not to learn about our local hero, one of our very own who fought in the World Wars to give us access to freedom. I am proud to say my navel string was buried at Townhead where I was born nearly 60 years ago. I was and is pleased/proud as punch when I discovered all those years ago that Mr. Welch a community member was a local hero. I recall telling my (breda – brother) Balis about seeing him on the TV when I spoke to him. I am sure every person in the little pockets of nook and cranny in the communities would like to know about the local heroes who live amongst them.

And probably would have liked to hear Mr. Welch told his story to the students and his fellow citizens about his experiences. I know without a doubt that was one of the best ways for those stories to have come alive, instead of us only reading about them in textbooks. As I said each time I did my research and start my projects to write about the life of other greats before they die the “devil always put a spanner in the spokes” to thwart me but I am vowing to get my own back. During the time when “I was walking away from diabetes” I was walking along the New Kent Road when I spotted a “commemorative plaque dedicated to the Commonwealth men and women who fought in the World Wars” and documented it for future reference. Already a pattern was forming in my mind about the possibilities that might come up for me to use those photographs.

And I also remembered the programme on the TV about Mr. Welch. That’s why tonight I am sat at the computer after a tiring day trying to set myself a deadline to finish this story to get it published for tomorrow’ “Remembrance Sunday celebrations” when I can pat myself on the back. Saying I am doing my bit in rewriting history for the future generations of Jamaicans whose parents and grandparents were deprived of being taught the history of persons like Mr. Welch. Including some of the greatest Jamaican who played their parts big or small in shaping the world in which we live. I hope the finished product will be as pleasing to others as I have the pleasure of doing my research and writing it. First and foremost this story is in honour of Massy Welch and all those great Jamaican men and women who made valuable contributions to Jamaica in particular and the world in general.

I am sorry that my generation was not taught our history to know about the sacrifices you made to make this world a better place for us to enjoy living in. Because of your unfailing dedicated services to securing our freedom, we are living in a society where we can avail ourselves of the rights that we are entitled to. That’s only one of the reasons I am vowing to fight to the death in exposing those evil people who are hell-bent on exploiting the vulnerable in society. Trying to enslave us like in the Slavery Days 200+ years ago. Just so that they can claim superior statuses over us. These people have been caught napping on the job, whilst they are found wanting to abuse their power of authority. They think nothing of hiding under the umbrella of their organization discriminatory practice, criterion, and provision to “rule and divide” as they use dirty tricks against us.

They write their Contract with the fine prints that are full of bureaucratic red tape and rhetoric that are meant to achieve unrealistic managerial targets at the expense of the service users and those of us have to work under Slavery. They begin to see others who are not slaves to Contract that say are there in place to breach current laws and legislation. That provide substandard services as threats to their incompetence of delivering inappropriate practice. So they will try and destroy us at whatever to silence us from disagreeing with and challenging them about what is wrong. On the 11.11.2015 I swear to almighty, ever loving, ever faithful, eternal God that I will not sit idly by and let any of those evil, small-minded, racist bullying thugs get away with what they did before.

These culprits who are the lowest of the low rattlesnakes who made my life a living hell get away with what they are doing to me. In 2003 – 2008 some other unscrupulous pen pushers, done the same thing to me and got away with it because everyone will rather turn a blind eye than deal with the issues at hand. Then, later on, they pretended as if they were not warned about situations that are caused by concerns. This time I am fighting to the bitter end to stop these ones in their track. I know God is giving me the strength and wisdom to carry on to unveil them so they dare not (“tek libatty – liberty wid – with) any of God’s anointed chosen children again” and they will think seriously of how they have lighted and ruined the lives of innocent people for their own selfish gains and bloated egos.

By the time I am finished, I give my solemn promise to all of my fellow human who has managed to escape, are forced to stick around like I did hope they would see sense. Or suffering in silence because they are gagged and when they are “frustrated and provoked into cutting the navel string” and run for their lives. They are encumbered by the negative discourses and literature they write about us called reference” that means you can no longer find employment. But woe betides those who make judgments about others before even trying to see what is happening because they will eventually do the same. I won’t even touch on those who set out to exploit others like me. When the evil prejudiced hypocrites that enslaved us paid them “blood money and have them in their pockets”. So they think they must join the bandwagons of “direct discriminations”.

But fear not I have them in my sights as I collect my paper trails of evidence. Then because they are “weak exploitative cowards” they might end up putting the chains that they used to enslave us around their corrupted necks. Some of them can give the bad treatments, but can’t take it and crumble at the first hurdle. God could have made the earth in 1 day and take off the rest of the time to go brag and boasts about His achievements. But He painstakingly worked diligently 6 days like a slave, ensuring every little detail were done to perfection and rested on the 7th day like an architect and celebrated His handy work. So all those who they made scapegoats and victims without a chance to restore their good name and character that they destroy with lying discourses.
Please, you can rest assured that despite my ordeals over the past year, I am on the case and God is going to give them their just rewards. Because everyone will be paid for the work they have done on this earth that God made for us all to enjoy, not just the chosen few. As Bob Marley sang “Emancipate yourselves from mental Slavery… None but ourselves can free our Minds…” all of us have a calling in life even thou we might not find out what it is until a certain period throughout life’s journey. My writing is not to fool or pull the wool over the eyes of anyone. I have been writing from my childhood. I credit myself for researching, hearing a story and being able to relate it to my own experiences. Then deciding that sharing my experiences via my creativity and talents might just be the catalyst in helping another person realise that there is light at the end of the darkened tunnel.

Their situation is not unique only to themselves, so they can find the early/late interventions to help them overcome some of the adversities in their lives. That way I don’t have to resort to plagiarising the work of others like has been done to me all this time I’ve worked in the UK. Six years they used my hands to show God, then they decided they had enough of me because I serve my purpose and is too knowledgeable for them – the dunce bats. So now they have to destroy me to wipe out my contributions to building them up. Making them a beacon that others are proud to talk about more the better for working in partnerships as colleagues, parents or other professionals. I have to accolades presented to me by appreciative parents to tell different stories from the ones they are making up about me the past year.

So prejudiced others who they have cuckold into their corner, please take notes! One of the 1st thing coming to my mind when I see and hear Mr. Welch’s reaction to the little lizard, my own reaction was how can a big man like him who fought in the World War be scared/afraid of lizards. I was saying this on the basis of knowing him personally as he was a formidable presence in the community. Anyone reading this and knew him, knows about his physical attributes because “he was as tall as a coconut tree in the air” and as for his intellectual skills well you’d have to go find someone from the “Brissett and Henry rum bar debating society” to fill you in on those aspects of Mr. Welch’s knowledge. That’s why I still can’t get it or begin to understand why the powers that be did not make him part of our educational systems educating future generations of Jamaicans.

I am sure I would have benefitted enormously from having the first-hand knowledge about Mr. Welch from our textbooks and hearing him sharing his personal experiences of how he and his fellow brave men and woman from across the Commonwealth Nations made contributions to make us “free at lasts…” in the words of Marin Luther King. I must confess I know hardly anything about Mr. Welch, but now that I got a tiny glimpse of the great person who sacrificed his life. For the world to be a free place for us to live, I mourn the missed opportunities that were not afforded him and his comrades to document their contributions in the annals of history. Especially at this time when we are celebrating and honouring the memories of every great man and woman who have done even one little deed of bravery for others to be free of which Mr Welch played an important role.

Now because of my own personal experiences, I will have to explore a little bit why Mr. Welch might have developed a fear of those lizards that I thought should not be for a big man like him. Some of us have developed one phobia or another holding us captives over a lifetime. I certainly have my own phobias or as I won’t name them “My Hidden Disabilities” going back to childhood. Recently attending a lecture at my old Alma Mata – the Open University www.aoug.org.uk/awards re Neuroscience and the Law. I was dumbstruck by what I was hearing. The reasons being I could identify parallels to my life about some of the issues that were affecting my life for the past year. The more I listened the more it became clear that I had done the best thing I had ever done in my life before. When I took that final decision to save myself and husband from what was imposed on us.

I stopped worrying about how I was going to provide for my own basic needs of providing food, shelter, and clothing and thought instead of the slow death I was being forced to endure because my face no longer fit. I had to get out of a situation that enslaved me for 6 years and that was slowly killing me. I realised no job was worth losing your dignity, the self-esteem and confidence you struggled to gain and I had the courage to tell them to sod off and go stick their job… Someone else can join them to suffer like they made me suffer the past year. So most likely something might have affected Mr. Welch to cause him to develop a fear of those lizards, who knows? No doubt he might have been left with scars resulting from traumas, but he has taken those to the grave with him too.

Maybe he came back from the World Wars a changed man from the one who set out to defend his country and the Motherland as a young man with dreams, but they were not the realities he expected. This could no doubt have impacted on how he lived his life once returning to Civilian Life. Al things considered, many of us although not having fought in any World Wars, have had to take part in our own personal warfare on many battlefields as we fight our ways out of the “Prisoner Camps” that we are still being enslaved in by the inhumane cowards that are our employers, government, etc that ruled over us. They use the bureaucratic red tape and rhetoric entrenched in their laws and legislation that they construct and named CONTRACT to captivate us.

While they shackled us like when our fore parents journey through the “Middle Passage” and had to kick up rumpus to survive. In order to provide for our basic human needs of food, clothing, and shelter we are enslaved by their contracts of practice, criterion, and provision. These are placed around our bodies ensuring we fall prey to whatever they want us to do regardless of the consequences and impacts on fragile minds and bodies. Like the vulnerable individuals who were our fore parents. They have torn away from the certainty of consistency, familiarity and continuity of their family and homeland and thrust into an unknown world that did not always understand their need for understanding without first trying to change them to be someone they were not.

Because from day one the cards were stacked against us as a RACE. Some who think they are our superiors still think they have the power to hold us captives. As formidable individuals with strong survival instincts embedded in our DNA. Only the fittest of the fittest and wittiest of our Ancestors who see off their captors managed to use their survival instincts to stay alive despite the mistreatments. Like being packed like sardines in a tin for the Middle Passage journeys. If those experiences that Mr. Welch had gone through were documented who knows, maybe I could have benefitted from them. So I didn’t have to stay fighting some inhumane people for an entire year before the penny dropped and I was forced to run for my life.

There are Discriminations at all sections of an unjust society where dog eats dog for survival at the whims and fancies of some with their bloated egos. But fear not, I will be taking them down by the time I am finished if that is the last thing I do, with God’s help of course. And the prayers of those who know me for the person who I am warts and all. From what I know of Mr. Welch, he was one of those characters in the community who was an intellect, knowing his Bible back to front and used quotes from said Bible to back up his arguments. Like many of his generations, he was a “Rum Bar teacher/preacher” who shared his views with his peers. Now I am assuming that he might have related his experiences about being a World War Veteran, fighting on the battlefields, but I will never know now unless it is recorded somewhere.

Mass Astley Smith was responsible for telling me about the exploits of some of those who gathered in the “Brissett and Henry Rum Bars at the famous Townhead Cross Roads” but I am sure I never heard about Mr. Welch flying the flags for Hanover/Westmoreland Jamaica fighting in the World Wars. That’s why I am peeved that opportunities were lost to utilize Mr. Welch’s knowledge and expertise for the benefit of the future generation including yours truly. Being the husband of the “Head Mistress of the Primary School” I attended, living at the cottage, he was he would have been the right person to help with our education and he was within distance of a captivated audience. I know we would have benefitted no ends from hearing about the experiences of the local hero of Mr. Welch’s caliber.

I know what I am talking about because greatness is built into our DNA and I recall when Loy took on such a role training some of the future generations of athletes from Townhead Primary School when she was pregnant with her child Kim Welch. I hope no one is going to come and test me now saying I think I know everything but knows nothing after having me doing their work for 6 years and not even acknowledging my contributions. Then them and them feisty selves tell me I am not to say I work with them and spend the better part of a year hounding me out of my job destroying my health in the processes. But they can continue to try and underestimate me at their perils when they chose to dis me without a cause. They will (“haffi – have to) pay fi roast and boil and even bun up” to, for the hounding of the innocent person who tried to defend me and paid the price like I am doing.

Once again I am using my Continuing Personal Professional Plan (CPPDP) to share my vision, educate the masses to the perils and pitfalls they might have to confront and overcome throughout their lives. I tell the stories about local heroes like Mr. Welch who played integral parts in our lives, yet we were not made aware of it. That’s why I believe the story I heard from a Jamaican Englishman years ago about the indomitable spirits of our Ancestors. Who journeys the Middle Passage and survived so we can tell stories about them down the generations. The story goes, we Jamaican are the way we are because during the Middle Passage the Slaves, although packed like sardines in a tin, were still rebelling against the unfair treatments. Their captors did not know what to do with the strong-willed rebellious ones.

On reaching the shores of Jamaica, they throw the Rebellious Slaves overboard and went on their merry way. As Ms Louise Bennett would a did say (“If a lie dem – them a tell, a nuh – is not me say suh – so, a suh mi hear it…” And maybe (dat’s – that’s why mi) believe in Anansi Stories because only a Ginnal like Anansi could think on his feet and stay one step ahead of di bastards who set out to enslave and kill out wi roots. Because dem fear our talents and creativity to reinvent ourselves like Brer Anansi him/herself. I guess for the captors they solved the short term problems and thought that was the end of that lot, who didn’t put up with their captors bullying tactics keeping them subdued by use of enforced punishment. But they only started what was to become long term problems later.

I can imagine it was every man and woman for themselves being thrown overboard facing an uncertain death of drowning. But thanks to God those that survived and inhabited Jamaica did not suffer fools gladly and put up with their foolishness forever once they gave them the chance to make amends. Like I have done to these Racist Bullying Thugs that mistreated me for a 1+. My fore parents went on to become a thorn in their flesh producing our National Heroes and the Mr. Massy Welch’s, who fought our battles for us in the World Wars and later when leaving Jamaica again to seek their fortunes, making a better life for themselves and family. Considering their backgrounds I am certain our fore parents were a mix of proud people out of Africa who combined to make a fresh start in Jamaica and other parts of the world they were shipped to. As confirmed by www.ancestrydna.co.uk/faq.

With my limited knowledge about history, I refused to go down that road because history is well documented for those who want to know about their heritage, roots, and cultures. However, I will continue telling the stories from my perspectives as I come across the experiences of those who played important parts in my life and I make the comparisons between my life and theirs. Therefore I am using my personal experiences to highlight the plight that some of us are going through as we battle the Wars of Discriminations years after Slavery was Abolished that we face daily in a society that is sometimes only prepared to listen to those who can put a spin on things using the machinery associated with cronyism.

They, therefore, hide under the umbrella of big named brands, abusing their power of authority, discriminating against us, making us scapegoats and making us victims to suit their inflated egos. I am here exploding the myth that Discriminations from Slavery has been eradicated and does not exist in Civilised Society, but nothing could be further from the truth. I am one of the most qualified persons, dumped on the Unemployment rubbish heap because I fight for my values and beliefs and the principles I was brought up with by my parents. As well as making my implicit knowledge explicit and challenging social injustices and inequality. But as my granny and mother used to say “dog a sweat but long hair covers it” because it’s only since I have been talking about my experiences that I realized the corrupt system that vulnerable people are still forced to live under whilst pretending life is “coming up roses.

Then they chat from the corner of their mouths what they seem to believe in their prejudicial minds about subjects like “MENTAL HEALTH Issues” that they have absolutely no knowledge about. I swear on the graves of my dead parents even though my papa did not like me cussing, that no one else is going to get away with trying to destroy me by blackening my good name and exemplary character that I developed all these years from my childhood like they did 2003 – 2008, over my dead body. When I stand up for my rights not to be discriminated against this time around I was labeled and targeted like they have done my fore parents. They tried to kill me off with a slow death over a period of a year like they did to the Slaves and what they are doing to the innocent vulnerable people in those war-torn countries.

I refused to get caught up in anyone’s Religion and Politics except my own, but like in Biblical days, these evil people held me captives over a year… My health is adversely affected, my life crumbled despite me giving up my RIGHTS in order that I could survive and provide for my basic needs. They stripped me of my dignity taking away what means the most in the world to me. Then despite me leaving to save my life, they turn around blocking every chance for me to recover. So who the bloody hell can now tell me to turn the other cheek because not even my papa who lived his life to the Bible teaching would have done. He stood up and told them what he thought of those who went too far, come out from amongst them and be separated. He found solace and comfort somewhere else where others respected him for who he was and not forcing their rhetoric down his throat.

I am getting my life back on track with support from professionals but there are vultures out there waiting to pounce to eat the flesh from my body. Therefore I refused to be exploited anymore and will not fall prey to them. So whilst I repair myself with professional support because I can no longer do it on my own. There are the traumas that although can be repaired and controlled can’t be cured. In the meantime, I have developed my own strategies to help me get back to optimum health. I am building up a Support Network so I never ever feel I am alone with my problems and can have others to turn to when I hit Crisis Point. In the meantime Memo to Exploiters: Sod off I don’t need any of you trying to make my situation worse. I am an honest God fearing person going through a period of upheavals in my life, but the detractors are responsible.

All those of you who are consciously or subconsciously prejudiced against people you are prepared to judge can go take a flying jump off somewhere. I am capable of writing my own stories thanks to the “Open University” and all the other people like teachers, in particular, Ms. UNA PERRY from my early years who influenced my life. I might have to accept that because of the prejudices of some who view my knowledge, values, and beliefs as threats to their incompetence, I may never work again. But I have no intention of giving up and in the long run, someone will have to pay.

Do I hear anyone raising questions starting the debates about Repatriations and Funding of Prisons in Jamaica? I am all for open debates as we enjoy Freedom of Speech unlike those who GAGGED me for exercising my Rights not to be Discriminated against. Then when they finished and couldn’t come up with any legal reasons to overcome me they lied again using their CONTRACT to threaten me and using illegal methods to try and frighten me into submission. But I will still survive to tell my story as I celebrate the life of one local hero from the place of my birth, Townhead, Mr. Massy Welch.

If wishing I knew before about your dedication and courage putting your life on the line to give me the freedom that I deserve was something I could backdated, I would gladly do so. But at the same time, I might have to argue, that I may not have been prepared and ready like I am now to write even this little story about your life. Coming to the UK has given me the opportunity to shape a life that was blighted and where I never had the self-confidence to change the deficits and limitations that blighted my life. But I am free at last and maybe my experiences over the past year are just another learning curve showing me the resilient person who I am.

Credit, of course, go to my parents and all the other persons who played their roles in my development, from childhood to where I am now. So I am privileged to use your story the little I know to make others aware of what I am going through. Proud to be a West- More- Light unearthing the story about the life and times of our worthy people for all to appreciate.

On Remembrance Sunday I join hands and heart to salute the memory of that great man who was Mr. Welch! Today 6th June 2019 I join in with the celebration for all those who sacrificed their lives and make sacrifices for our freedom.

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Mental Health Awareness Week Day 2 Compiled From MM FB Memories 14/5/19

We hope you enjoy looking back on your memories on Facebook, from the most recent memories to those long ago.    2012 – 2018.  Dostan, Naheel and 33 others
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They can do like LEYF Nurseries at Nursery World Magazine Show 2018. Idiots dey world fi real. Dem cawn shit fi bag me?  Share
Mi get rid a some a di angst b4 I face Ms Clarke 15/5/2018. TMF don’t respond to messages. Best behate dem, I’ll be?  Share
All U fucking Nosey Parkers, tralling thru my Facebook. Go on get Ur kicks, more coming… Perverts, badmind, grudeful loosas!  Joan Reid, Smith Stacey and 4 others.  2 Comments.  Share
Just some advice I learn at GDPR training. Private info in public domain, remains private. Don’t take my QA & use it for gratific.  Share
I will be at the Jobcentre Peckham to find out the intruders that breached the GDPR. Ms Clarke be ready for Mad MM.  Share
All idiots like LEYF Nurseriesthat think they can take my data to use illegally, think again. What was the Legitimate Interests?  Share
Any UK Parliamentdepartments dealing with me, have to show they have started the GDPR journey. No pussyfooting about.  Share
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The judgement online by the Employment Tribunal is in breach of the GDPR, Equality & Human Rights Acts. Idiots will be damn fools.  Share
When HMRC take data from Facebook, that was intrusive. Now the DWP telling me they going to use illegal means to get info abt me.  7 Comments.. Share
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LEYF Nurseries get away with intrusion into my Facebookfor illegal use of my data. My life is Open Book.

I Am Not Unduly Bothered By The Judicial Ombudsman Discrimination in 2019

This is the classic case of a tried and tested plan by Mervelee Myers of https://fight4justice.business.site to get justice for the 5+ years of discrimination at the hands of www.leyf.org.uk and cohorts. For making me a victim with the hate crime at https://www.gov.uk/employment-tribunal-decisions/ms-m-myers-v-london-early-years-foundation-2300047-2016. That’s why I have another Telephone Mediation lined up with www.peachespublications.co.uk. Because she was groomed by https://www.ryanclement.com/ to use my disabilities against me when she called the Police to my home to section me.

Now she is saying Mr. Clement told her not to take legal actions against me because I am Mentally Unstable. Well, Mr. Clement got his idea from the fact I show him www.hctgroup.org.uk, where I was part of statistics of 1 in 5 of all suicides, are associated with unemployment.  This was only the second time, as I was a participant in www.acas.org.uk/researchpapers in 2010. I have since been in more research at www.heal-d.co.uk and had counseling with www.slam-iapt.nhs/southwark. I was denied access to http://www.universal-credit.service.gov.uk/journal/add-journal-entry-write-content/SERVICE_ISSUES/ because I challenged the institutional discrimination when the DWP threatened me with a criminal record.

The following is my response to the Judicial Ombudsman. Let the systems and establishments and individuals understand that there is no way that the www.sra.org.uk can tell me it’s okay for www.personnelconsultancy.com and www.7br.co.uk can get away with the levels of depravity that they created during the case at the Employment Tribunal and Employment Appeal Tribunal.

Thanks for your response.

At this point, I am definitely not interested in whatever remit the Ombudsman thinks is for reconsideration.

I will refer you to data.access@justice.gsi.gov.uk for my Subject Access Request – Data Protection Act – 117119. That’s the fact that Judge Freer and the Panel perverted the course of justice with their hate crime in the Reserved Judgement. Then Judge Shanks continued with the institutional discrimination and hate crime by saying I made up my disabilities.

It didn’t stop there because Justice Simler who sent back my case to the EAT with caveats might want to consider her interview? Because she mentioned about the union overturning the Government Law. For your information that’s UNISON. Go do the research at www.acas.org.uk/researchpapers for the recommendations to ACAS.

That’s why I was referred to https://www.gov.uk/government/publications/record-retention-and-disposition-schedules by the Ministry of Justice.

But you might want to take onboard https://petition.parliament.uk/help#stndards. I can send a copy if you are too lazy to do the research? I am too old and set in my ways to be bothered about threats.

Kindest regards

Mervelee Myers.

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My Son Celebrates 23 Years Marriage, 26+ Destroy Life!

How Well Do You Know Your History 1959 – 2019? Linking Communities Across The World.

The Story Of Kevin’s 23 Years Of Marriage Must Be Told in 2019

 Daily Express Russell Grant Britain’s celebrity astrologer. Taurus Apr 21-May 21: A pleasing shortage of responsibility will give you more time to call your own. Make this a day to indulge your creative side. Painting, writing and photography are all favoured. Turn a deaf ear to relatives who mock your artistic pursuits. Evaluation: Here’s the reasons I started my website in May 2012. Because of the responsibilities involved with working to secure my PENSION for retirement, I missed out on lots. But since 27/3/2015 when I was targeted by the terrorist who are/was my former employers, I am getting the time to indulge in my creative side. Therefore, www.judicialombudsman.gov.uk better not believe they are going to be using caveats to stop me getting justice from the “Modern Slavery thriving in the UK”.  According to The Guardian Live https://www.theguardian.com/UK.

Inspired to Write My Stories After The Second Miscarriage of Justice By the ET & EAT in 2019

I am inspired to start telling my own stories as I know them, instead of allowing others to misrepresent the fact for their own selfish reasons. This came about after the awful experiences I have been having from the time I returned from burying my mother in July 2014, to what’s been happening to date. Opening the Sunday Express February 17, 2019 www.express is the final push that I needed to start writing my stories as I continue creating legacies for myself and family. Pages 4 – 5 of the Sunday Express carries the Coverage of Royal Cleric: Referendum bred racism By Adam Helliker. Picture Perfect: The Rev Rose Hudson-Wilkin poses for First Women, an exhibition of 100 portraits of leading 21st century women on display at Palace House, Newmarket, Suffolk.

 Now Is The Appropriate Time To Take Back Control Of My Life After 2004 – 2019

I have been deliberating lately about how I am going to get out of this rut that I found myself in after the death of my mother. More so over the past week resulting from yet another rejection after trying to get back into society where I can be contributing to building communities Karra.Gentles@stgilestrust.org.uk. So today 18/2/2019 I was in for another bad experience from those who are set as my Jailers like the www.leyf.org.uk and cohorts. I will have to do a blog about that, but suffice it to say if did not resort to cursing. I probably would not survive the panic attack. And yes my cousin Myrna Nembhard cousin the Rev Joe Aldred and his followers have something to do with it. Shared a memory. 17 hrs · Oh my word, I wear this #outfit to #church today! 8 Years Ago. See Your Memorieschevron-right

 

Mervelee Ratty Nembhard is with Employment Appeal Tribunal and 2 others. February 23, 2011 · 

I grew up in a Christian home if anyone cares to believe…??? Yes there is a Serious Side to ME too, but I have to celebrate my www.ancestrydna.co.uk Multiple Identities….!!!! Here’s why I take exception to the Rev Joe Aldred patronising me. All he needs to do is act like a man. But some of them are so damned scared of their own shadow to take actions about the very matters that they are sharing on Facebook. And for whom they have their followers, who are unable to apply critical thinking to their debating. Before going any further let me point them to https://fight4justiceadvocacy.business.site. He and his followers are welcome to www.itv.co.uk for the write up of the Windrush 70 at Westminster Abbey on the 22/07/2018. I did not plan on stealing the limelight. But I have been getting others to help in giving me a voice www.icsouthlondon.co.uk/ from May 2004. Ironically I was going home for the christening of my Murray grandson when I was defrauded by the conspiracy of the Banking Institutions.

The Following Messages Are Rev Joe Aldred’s After His Followers Were Sanction To Do His Bidding.

Good morning Mervelee. I trust you are well. I am not comfortable with the way you are using my fb page to air your personal challenges. I hope you can tone this down or I will be forced to delete them. If you want to do personal campaigns then you should consider doing this on your own page. I hope you understand and can indeed tone the personal posts down.

Celebrating at Windrush 70 at Westminster Abbey on the 22 July 2018. My unique style resulted in me making the news in www.itv.co.uk coverage of the event. I have been using the media to support my “Personal Challenges”. In 2004 it was only www.icsouthlondon.co.uk which answered my appeal to help me tell my story by giving me a voice.

Hi Mervelee. Hope you’re well. I do not wish to have this conversation on my FB Page. As you know I have a lot of following on my page. Quite a few have mentioned your frequent posts and their personal nature. So these currently mentioning it are not the first. I am very accommodating but it is best that your posts are kept on your own Facebook page rather than inserted into other conversations on other people’s including mine. I tend to clean up my page and tags others have included me in. You are loved and much appreciated but a little toning down of your campaigns on my page will be appreciated. I also like my friends to be kind to each other – . 

Other comments are from the posts that I shared to my Facebook Page after stating the fact of why I was doing it.

Dawn Martin: I know that I should probably just ignore this comment, but why must you persist in repeatedly posting your story on Joe‘s Facebook posts where it has no context or bearing? 
This is not the first time that you’ve tried to hijack his posts to highlight your own situation and quite frankly I find it disrespectful. Joe is polite enough not to engage with you on this but you are using his Facebook profile to promote your own agenda. You need to stop.

4.  Hide or report this. Like Show more reactions.   Reply.   1dMandi Halpin Well said Dawn. MM Analysis 19/2/2019: Considering the spate of stories about Windrush Generation, I am just so appalled that another fellow West Indian can be so illiterate about such sensitive issues. I have been bombarded with messages about BBC Four – Soon Gone: A Windrush Chronicle, Series 1, Eunice 1949…  www.bbc.co.uk. There’s “Fighting for King and Empire” and you telling me that these “turncoats and big girls blouses” with their followers are accusing me of promoting my agenda?

2.  Hide or report this.  Like Show more reactions. Reply.   9h. Mervelee Ratty Nembhard Dawn Martin how about letting Joe Aldred address this matter himself? After that I will get back to you,   you #pompousbigot!!! Edit or delete this. Like Show more reactions.  Reply20mMervelee Ratty Nembhard Mandi Halpin So why couldn’t you have said your piece before you #idiot?

1. Edit or delete this. Like Show more reactions.  Reply19mMandi Halpin Please spell correctly. Learn how to use hashtags and why the question mark? MM Analysis: Another intellectual imbecile like those at LEYF, the Employment Tribunals, and the Government Departments. Just for emphasis, I was on the phone to another Jobsworth who ask me to spell every word from the address I gave her. Then have the gall to tell me she is not from my area, she don’t understand me. That leaves me to mention what my neighbour said to me about my husband. “What is he doing here, he has flat in Peckham?” He should go back to Peckham. I am reminded of this because Peckham is one of the words she asked me to spell. Yet she was on the system that brings up the address. Mandi Halpin: Not sure if you’re an idiot or not? Why like my comment above?

MM Analysis: These are the idiots that are followers of Rev Joe Aldred. No wonder the world is in such a mess. Hide or report this. Like Show more reactions.  Reply. 17m.  EditedMervelee Ratty Nembhard Here’s an example of why the Windrush stories will play on. MM Analysis: Refer to Jamaica-born Rose Hudson-Wilkin interview in the Daily Express. I am not one for using others for ulterior motives. But I discovered that her grandmother and my mum are related. Not sure if the family connections reached to me, as we used to say when mum talked about her posh families.  Edit or delete this. Like Show more reactions.  Reply17m.  Top of Form

Write a reply… Bottom of Form. Mervelee Ratty Nembhard Yes Sir, these are the #debates we should be having. I will share so I take it to my page. Thanks, much and send more my way, please. MM Analysis: The above as you can see is when I shared the post. It should be obvious to those making comments that I intended to take it to my FB to use it to advertise my cause. But their comments and that of the Rev Joe Aldred’s messages is evidence that either he or his followers read it. Edit or delete this. Like Show more reactions.  

Reply.  3d. Mervelee Ratty Nembhard Is Joe Aldred asking you to deliver his #message? Tell him he should wait until we meet up again to tell me himself. Guess you Dawn Martin is just another one who is using your Status of knowing Joe Aldred to alleviate yourself. Let me finish and I will write about the #hytpocrites hiding under Christianity. The same way how the bigots at  www.lef.org.uk do because they have friends in High Places. When you see me start shaking, I know my disabilities are triggered!!! Stupid woman get thee behind me. You are Satan in disguise…

Edit or delete this. Like Show more reactions. Reply8m. Dawn Martin Surely in the context of Root smiling and looking intensely at Gabriel it would be presumed to be a question about his sexuality and attraction to Gabriel (a grown man) as opposed to any preference for under aged boys? Any allusion on Gabriel’s part to paedophilia would make his position worse in my view as it would have no context. MM Analysis: This is evidence of people just jumping on bandwagons furthering their own agenda without have any knowledge about the topic debated. So is Dawn Martin and expert about the subjected debated? Bring it forward then, please.   3. Hide or report this.  Like Show more reactions.  Reply1d

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 · 5 Replies   2 hrs.   Heather Butcher Time and a place of all conversations play cricket man keep your mouth shut that’d his personal business and his problem. Hide or report this. Like Show more reactions.  Reply. 3d. Heather Butcher Little boys eh he he want a good talking to after the game with discipline if that’s the case it came out on the pitch so it will be delt with by all so wait both are now banned I take it his problem either way ….i  1.  Hide or report this.  Like Show more reactions. Reply. 3dPaul Phoenix Wonder you may… not cricket is it?..’m sure honored members of the select ‘all rounders club’ must have a word or two to say about tings. Hide or report this. Like Show more reactions.

 Reply.  · 3d. Michael Bennett In the overall scheme of the rough and tumble of test match sledging. I hope the authorities are consistent moving forward. I suspect they will not be. Hide or report this. Like Show more reactions.  Reply. 3d. Carl Smith Good question. 1. Hide or report this. Like Show more reactions. Reply.  3dOrlando Mcdonald A convenient ploy of privilege the power to twist the facts to suit the narrative and seize the initiative. Addressing the issue of paedophile within the context of the statement is not just reasonable it’s urgent spotlight on Root.

I Refuse To Allow Anyone To Cower Me Into Becoming a Voiceless Vulnerable Victim. I have been creating legacies since February 2010 on Social Media Platforms. I am not taking anyone’s space. I am taking this stance because I have arguments and points to prove. There was a time when if anyone wants to know a certain fact they would contact me directly. Or go to my pages on Facebook to get the information. I was asked questions like “how do you find the time?” LEYF even made mention of this in the write up from the meeting held at New Cross on the 18/9/2015. Documented in the data.access@justice.gsi.gov.uk because LEYF withheld my FILE claiming they have no data for me. When they were plotting to use my vulnerabilities against me before contacting Facebook. I am writing about my son’s 23 years of marriage because this must be celebrated for many reasons. But at the same time, I have suffered abuse as a result of me taking pride in my 2 son’s achievements over the years. One has to be in my shoes, living my experiences to understand what their continuing success means to me.

Using Social Media For The Creating Of Legacies

The following is how I use Facebook as an aide memoir over the years. Otherwise, I could not be creating the legacies.  FB 1: Oh, wow have to write about the #sanctity of #marriage for the 19th February. I only recall the fact because I attended church on Sunday and heard the notices. I could have been the grandma of Jihadi #bride… I would like any readers to take note of the conversation above to see if you can make sense of why I get annoyed when I believe others are targeting me. Please be aware that I was a participant in www.acas.org.uk/researchpapers because of discrimination. Which triggered my traumas into PTSD (PTSD) in the NHS workplace. Because my angst and triggers which exacerbated my disabilities started on a Facebook Forum in November 2016. During the Local Government Election campaign where my son was a candidate. I will waste no further time except to say that I am the one suffering to this day. But not only that I am facing exclusion for taking a stance not to be discriminated against. 

FB 2: I call a #spade what it is. Not a #shovel if I know it might be #hoe… Going to bed now. Exhausted… I will try and write my story in these that were FB posts. So I was sat indoors one day when in February 1996 when the telephone rang. It was Joy my best friend. She said to me, “Ratty if you stand up sit down”. I sit down and listened to what I was hearing. Of course, I was hearing the news before other members of my family in Jamaica. It was left to me to break it to them. After everything was said and done, I am not sure how long it took me. But I know it was my duty as a mother to take the reins of the matter in hand because of the emotional baggage involved. I sat down thinking carefully about what I was writing in that letter before posting it. If anyone wants to know the contents of the letter twenty-three (23) years on. They have to ask Kevin Murray. Let me reiterate that I was directed to https://www.gov.uk/government/publications/record-retention-record-and-disposition-achedules. Because London South ET no longer holds the personal data in respect of my case against Kings College Hospital NHS Foundation Trust.    

FB 3: I went to a funeral & Mama Stuffy #nose Dr. Family was there. She nuh blow and mi no cough. We #live & #die… If it was my younger son I’d written the letter to, I am positive he would still have it locked away. Because he has inherited the Hoarder’s trait from me, my mum and grandma. I was surprised to go home to find he’d saved every important document for me and family. That’s why I have the memorabilia’s to be creating the legacies on Social Media platforms. And I am upset and angry at the way I am been treated by https://www.facebook.com. Knowing this is not good for my emotional wellbeing www.slam-iapt.nhs/southwark, I have decided to secure my Mental Health and don’t let anyone else radicalise me. And use my disabilities against me as was done by https://www.rayanclement.com/. Who groomed www.peachespublications.co.uk to scam me?   

FB 4: Raymond Hall used to come to visit his #family out the Road. Then I hear he is Mama’s #1stCuz. I don’t like Stuffy Nosed Peeps… Being different and growing up with the disadvantages that affected my family when my father was stricken with Parkinson’s disease was not easy for me. I knew dad’s history, but mum wasn’t much of a talker. She laughed most of the time when she was not getting upset for one thing or another. I only realised mum might have experienced Mental Health Conditions after I was advised to seek Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) by www.healthmanltd.com. To find out why I behaved the way I do to certain situations. But strangely enough, I had started wondering about my mum’s behaviour when I developed the skills of photographing. I noticed mum’s reactions to her half thumb. Then I started looking at old photographs and realised I was onto something.     

FB 5: Relationship Quote: Cuz Lambert “Wey Aunt Elsie?” Mi to Lambert Thompson “A U #real Auntie or a so U call her?” Kannanapo, I didn’t know… I was brought up to respect everyone. So when I hear them calling him cousin Lambert, it’s only normal for me to do the same. It was a near shock finding out like that. I guess maybe that’s when I started paying attention to whatever they were saying. Because if I was doing so before, I would have been wiser.  That’s why when my elder brother told me the history of my mum’s family who was Land Barons I am not surprised. Because Mama used to talk about her rich Auntie. And I did meet mum’s Uncle who lived in the USA. He was an Adventist Minister. Then I heard that my grandpa was a twin. I am challenging https://www.strath.ac.uk/humanities/schoolofeducation/…/audiencewithjuneosullivan to review the Membership of June O’Sullivan MBE for obvious reasons. She is living a lie and abusing her powers of authority. 

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I informed Facebook that what they are doing is impacting on my disabilities. If there are any queries regarding my credibility please see https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pg102uOLUAY. Now Facebook is denying me access to the communities I created over the years. I became a participant with http://www.radar-cns-org/ because of the discrimination by LEYF and cohorts in the Government Departments, the establishments and systems. Since the death of my mother from dementia. I will not be manipulated, as this is exploitations. Choose Non-profit to Add Button. Epilepsy Foundation of AmericaEpilepsy SocietyCURE: Citizens United for Research in Epilepsy

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Mervelee Ratty Nembhard. 10 hrs · FB 6: It’s no coincidence that #Parkinson‘s & #Epilepsy are in my DNA. But they no longer hold that #fear for me. I can live with them… My life was totally changed with dad’s Parkinson’s disease that took away 10+ years of his life. As a result, I made many life-changing decisions as a result of the way I was affected. I am now comfortable with who I am and trying to live a fulfilling life, making changes to benefit me. I was featured in https://www.parkinsons.org.uk/get-involved/events. I am using Social Media for events such as http://www.justgiving.com/Mervelee-Myers. One of those faithful decisions meant I choose not to have any more children after the two (2) that were not planned for. That’s why I understand why my son might not have had more children. I respect their choice to make any decisions about their lives that will impact on how they live the most fulfilling lifestyle possible.

FB 7: Mi use to tek Mass Roland mek #pass. Now mi have my sister #Pinky fi chat bout… Many may not realise especially since I have my sons for 2 fathers. But the outcome of my life depended on different components. I don’t have to put in the Public Domain any information that’s not relevant. I don’t like people who go out of their ways to hurt others for matters over which they have no say or control over. Somethings are better left buried where they are. Because bringing them out in the public can do more damages than we realise. That’s why https://linkedin.com/in/june-o-sullivan-mbea9798ba/ will be named for using my intellectual property to gain recognition. By using her status to invite employees to join Social Media to contribute to her blog in 2012. Then ruining my career and destroying 26+ years of my life in the UK. I will end this by saying there was a time when Pinky and I hit it off. But Mama put a spoke in the spanner, saying we could not be together because we are family. We went our separate ways, but somehow there must have been some embers that were not lit left there smoldering. I’ll leave the rest for the future, comes what may.    

FB 8: Grandpa #twin sister is buried at Caney too… Have to do the #research. Some of Mama peeps were too posh for us. Relationship Quotes any1…? So now I know more about grandpa’s twin sister. But I am yet to know her name, therefore I am still learning my Family History. I know grandpa’s people came from Sterling, Grange Hill. I meet one of my grand uncle who lived in Massachusetts in the USA. He used to write and send parcels for mum. He reminds me of my brother Ashter. Mum told stories about her Auntie and how she wanted her to come and live with her. To teach her to bake, but grandpa would not allow it. Mama was the dutiful daughter who stuck with her parents. And might have missed many opportunities when she nursed her dad through Stomach Cancer www.cruk.org. Talking to Balis yesterday, I realised why he carried out his duty to mum. Until the day she died. Because dad asked him to on his death bed.  I made a promise to my brother BYRON on his death bed too. He died aged 56 from Colon Cancer. That’s when I was told about my grandpa by mum.     

FB 9: But my #sister was #Pinky because she was near to being #white. High colour #brown & tall like St Bess GanGan… I will have to go back to the subject of Pinky. Because I only learned yesterday that my sister was called Pinky. We, Balis and I were chatting about Mass Roland Henry and his family of course and about Pinky’s accident. And the death of Piny’s sister, Wanda. I never go to Jamaica and not visit Ms Bernice and Mass Roland back in the days. My creating legacies footprints are to be found at https://www.google.com from 2010.

FB 10: I am #right, GanGan did not come back out of her house after she poured #talcum powder on Uncle Terah… It was only after getting counseling that I realised the extent of the traumas that had affected my life from the time my dad was stricken with Parkinson’s disease. To compound matters, my Uncle Dudley was murdered (chopped up) in his yard, on a Sunday morning in 1976. At the time I was pregnant with my first child. Two (2) years later in 1978, my Uncle Terah was brutally murdered (shot) at his home. By gunmen who had their own motives. My brother Ashter was there and bear the brunt of been brutalised. That’s why it impacted on me how he was left to take the law into his own hands. He did what he thought he had to do and waited in the church for the Police. That’s why I was paranoid when I was hounded from the 23/7/2014 until I resigned with a nervous breakdown 27/9/2015. I am a participant in research for www.heal-d.co.uk at Kings College London too.   

FB 11: I was not the last to see Papa #alive. Balis was with him when he was #traveling home to glory… I can still recall some of the conversations with my brother Ashter when dad was ill for those years. I remember once Ashter said if it was me and Papa alone I would let him go to sleep. I only understand what he meant years later in this country. When I hear the debates about euthanasia. That’s why to this day I hold my brother’s memory sacred. I did not agree with what he’s done, but it’s after my own experiences two (2) times in the UK that I believe I understand what led him to act like that. My brother was the gentlest of souls, kind and generous and don’t hold grudges. But something caused him to snap that fateful day. When he thought that being out of the eyes of the public was the best thing for him and his state of mind. That’s why www.sra.org.uk/consumercomplaints will not get away with saying its okay for LEYF and cohorts to breach the Equality Act 2010.

FB 12: Mass Balis called. We chat & he helps me #clear up the Mad Head. Papa #died 1 Saturday morning. He did lose his vocals… I know when Balis and I chat we help each other to be creating the legacies. And I am more than grateful for having him as my elder sibling. He was well trained by Papa to know where his duty lies. Papa asked him to keep the family together and look after Maam-Jesse and he is still fulfilling his roles and responsibilities.  I am a carer and done training as a www.dementiafrineds.org.uk. I am actively involved with www.alzheimers.org.uk/getinvolved amongst other charities.

Creating the Legacies

I am continuing with my duty of creating the legacies especially since I was denied my entitlements of having a job. I told Dilys Epton when she visited me at HOC on the 27/3/2015 about my childhood of deprivations. Because of the circumstances of my family over which we have no control. I informed her that work keeps me going and that I had self-referred before when allegations were made against me. That’s why www.7br.co.uk and co will not be getting away with what they have done to me. I am holding Presidents_Office_Employment_E&Wales@hmcts.gsi.gov.uk responsible for negating their duty. I am waiting on www.barstandards.org.uk/complaints-and-professional-conduct/ to act. The Government https://petition.parliament.uk/help#standards will be held accountable for refusing to act on my concerns.

I am hoping my families and in particular, my sons will spare the time to read my writings. Because they need to know these facts. To stop history repeating itself in the future. It’s time for the family to break these cycles of detriments that are not good for anyone. I know my parents believed in the sanctity of marriage and have played their roles in leaving their legacies for us to continue laying foundations. I am accepting of every single person and the choices they make about their lives. Because I have my own views about how I want to live my life.

I refuse to interfere in the lives of others. But at the same time, I expect to be afforded some respects for the contributions I have been making to helping others to have positive outcomes in life. But the way I am getting treated by some of my family is the reasons that trolls, naysayers, bad minded and grudgeful people can stay one side and thinking they can take liberties with me. Then they try to use my sons as a weapon. I will tell them now, I am ready to separate myself from my sons if I am going to be hindrance into their making progress in their lives. Some people are treating me like I am not my son’s mother. But I have been living with rejections all my life. I am strong enough to take whatever it is life throws at me.

Maybe that’s why I am ending by saying what my aspirations are for the future. I don’t want to end up like my mum with a lonely life. She wanted companionship but was not able to get it from the person whom she cared about. That’s why in the end she forget about her only daughter. But not the man who captured her heart even before my dad was dead. Knowing of the relationship my parents shared, I am almost positive dad gave mum his blessings. Now I am crying because I am a cry baby. Because mum never got to share the kind of love she had with dad with Mass Victor aka Clement Baker. That’s why I know there are different levels of love to be shared amongst individuals.

I am grateful for all the love I have had. But at times I am wishing there is someone there just to hear me talk about my fears. And to reassure me that everything will be okay. Instead, I get the crap like what Rev Joe Aldred writes in his tirade. What the fuck does he know about love? The ball is in www.universalombudsman.gov.uk court. But I will not be waiting forever before they sort this matter out. I should have faced the 5+ years I was given as a life sentence after saying my final goodbyes to my mother. If I am not careful I ended living a lonely life of regrets because there are people who are prepared to judge me and destroy my life for no reasons whatsoever.   

An Encounter With Satan’s Hosts Of Demons 18/2/2019

Gabriel’s banter is clearly inappropriate on a cricket field, but isn’t it interesting that a question to a grown man, ‘Why are you smiling? Do you like boys?’ was interpreted by Root, the ICC authorities, pundits and many in wider society who applauded Root’s response, as a reference to being gay not as a reference to being a paedophile. I wonder why so?About this websiteBBC.CO.UKShannon Gabriel sorry for asking Joe Root if he ‘liked boys’West Indies bowler Shannon Gabriel claims he asked England’s Joe Root if he “liked boys” during the third Test but has apologised for his words.6Mike Royal and 5 others32 Comments3 SharesLikeShow more reactionsCommentShare

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My husband and his son at the bedside of his nephew. Saying their final goodbyes. I have been saying final goodbyes to my family from the 9th February 1980. To when I said my final goodbyes to my mother on the 22nd January 2014. When she came around from 4 weeks of dementia that causes her not to remember her only daughter. That’s why I am a www.dementiafriends.org.uk. And supports www.alzheimers.org.uk/getinvolved.

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Facebook Memories 18th February 2019. A message from Rev. Joe Aldred after reading the www.express.co.uk Royal Cleric: Referendum bred racism By Adam Helliker makes me want to rant and rave about the hypocrites. But I will not, as I have made pledges to go back to the time before my father was stricken with Parkinson’s disease and throw my life into turmoil. However, I will unpick the messages and point out the hypocrisy to anyone who might be interested in why Christians are sometimes given a bad reputation?

Joe Aldred: Good morning Mervelee. I trust you are well. MM Analysis 1: Can someone please explain why a person who professes to be clued in would be asking me such a question? JA: I am not comfortable with the way you are using my fb page to air your personal challenges. MM Analysis 2: As I have said in my message on the Facebook Page to Dawn Martin and his loyal followers. Why did Joe Aldred not contacted me before this? Others have done so. So am I to assume that as he chooses to describe my “Personal Challenges”. Has he finds it in his heart to stop long enough to find out the impact on me, why I might not be well?

JA: I hope you can tone this down or I will be forced to delete them. MM Analysis 3: For someone who is supposed to be an advocate of inclusion. I find it strange that Joe Aldred feels the need to be acting like some “big girl’s blouse“. If we had not met each other in person on a few occasions, I would be taking a totally different view on this. So Mr. Rev Joe Aldred go ahead and delete them, with my blessings. JA: If you want to do personal campaigns then you should consider doing this on your own page. MM Analysis 4: Let me direct you to https://fight4justiceadvocacy.business.site. Let me hope you will not be claiming that I take your photo down as well. Seeing that you don’t want anything to do with me. JA: I hope you understand and can indeed tone the personal posts down. MM Analysis 5: Now that you have the “guts” to come out and send me this message, I certainly will respect your wishes.

Windrush 70 at Westminster Abbey. Check www.itv.com for coverage. Let’s hope the Rev Joe Aldred is not going to ask me to remove my photos from Social Media platforms to suit his follower’s bloated egos? Maybe I should find time to go to Mays Ethnicity Website www.gov.uk to find out who I can find?

Rev Joe Aldred: Hi Mervelee. Hope you’re well. I do not wish to have this conversation on my FB Page. MM Analysis 1: Can Joe Aldred be more explicit about what conversation he is talking about, please? JA: As you know I have a lot of following on my page. MM Analysis 2: What did I tell you about these egotistical people? Have you stopped to look at the people who are your followers and what contributions they are making to your debate? If not go back to read www.express.co.uk. Royal Cleric: Referendum bred racism.

JA: Quite a few have mentioned your frequent posts and their personal nature. MM Analysis 3: Here we go again so let me direct you all to https://www.gov.uk/employment-tribunal-decisions/ms-m-myers-v-london-early-years-foundation-2300047-2016. Have any of those who mention my post actually know what they are about. But as a person who met me on a few occasion, has it ever crossed your mind to find out why I am using your FB to share my story?

JA: So these currently mentioning it are not the first. MM Analysis 4: Your statement here just proves my point. I will tell you that I am not surprised by any of this. For the reasons that whether we want to accept it or not discrimination is embedded in us. Because of our heritage. And the experiences from the Middle Passage. Don’t matter how we try to cover it up, it will come out.

JA: I am very accommodating but it is best that your posts are kept on your own Facebook page rather than inserted into other conversations on other people’s including mine. MM Analysis 5: I will leave you to stew in your ignorance, or you can study the General Data Protection Regulators (GDPR). Whilst you are at it you can educate your followers and do them a favour. JA: I tend to clean up my page and tags others have included me in. MM Analysis 6: By now I thought you and your followers would know the Rules Of Social Media?

JA: You are loved and much appreciated but a little toning down of your campaigns on my page will be appreciated. MM Analysis 7: Please stop patronising me. JA: I also like my friends to be kind to each other – MM Analysis 8: You must take responsibility and be accountable for all of this blowing out of proportion. I am sure by now, I don’t need to tell my why this is your own doing? But if you want I can do another blog about hypocrisy. 

After that you can keep up with my Fight4justice campaign and my progress with www.judicialombudsman.gov.uk. Going to write a celebration testimony for my son celebrating 23 years of married life on the 19th February 2019. At no stage in my life of struggles was giving up an option. Keep your platitude about love for your followers.

My Poem re Dis/Ability

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Mervelee Ratty Nembhard25 mins · 

I am a #writer 
I write stories about my experiences
The stories are scattered in cyberspace
So that one day they will be of benefit to others. 
Writing is also part of my early intervention strategies
And #therapy helping me to empower myself 
And providing a support network for others.

I am a #singer
I sing songs of praises
To help me when I am feeling down and out
With the emotions
Of sheer #frustrations
Because of the injustice
Of having to justify
Myself to others
Who is too lazy and ignorant?the To take the time to understand
That I am struggling with my deficits
The deficits and limitations of disabilities
That sometimes impede 
My creativity, talents, and passion to achieve.

I am a #visionary 
For whom giving up was never an option?
That’s why I am #possessed 
Like the demons that control my OCD
The OCD that controls the way I live
But yet others, because of prejudice
And #fear of the unknown 
Will see my trying to manage and controlling 
My disabilities as threats to their bigotry
The bigotry of discrimination
Cause them to be offended by my determination 
To live my life, full of hope and caution
That one day, there will be a breakthrough
When the studies of the sciences 
Will empower humankind to 
Be aware of how we treat each 
Other and show that we love and care
So take the time to #enhance knowledge
Because that’s how I manage 
To escape from the #traumas of childhood
To live a more fulfilling life

I am a #comedian
Who makes a fool of myself?
When I am feeling #lost and alone
Because I know I am not going to be down and out #forever
I will always #bounce back
With my knack for living life to the full
That’s why I am #compassionate
Using my writing to share experiences 
My singing to #soothe my heart with dream of hope
My vision to make my dreams #reality
My comedy to #entertain me and others
Because I want to give #hope to others, like me
That life is full of #blessings
But please stop treating me less than a person who is #enabled 
In spite of my disabilities

#Overcoming the Fear 
That’s why I am getting rid of the fear 
#Challenging those who discriminate with their lies
Whilst offending with their #confirmation biases and prejudice
In the hope that I will give in out of frustrations?
No, this is just the continuing of my Fight4justice campaign 
Started in the name of my family and friends who were/are treated unfairly?

Written by Mervelee Myers in honour of my grandparents, parents, brothers, uncles, aunties, et al who are no longer with us? Mervelee Ratty Nembhard
3rd January 2019.1 Comment

This Poem was written when I research Parkinson's disease. I discover that I have Atypical Parkinsonism.

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