Anxiety & Depression In Practice!

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Almost sure the hubby would have accepted the Jacket/Waistcoat!!!

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Not the likes of ME…?

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Am up 4 any lifestyle changes…

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DEADication 4 the JOB We Love!!!

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Nuh mattA how hArd U wuk/try 2 ELEVATE Urself!!! Dere’s got 2 b sum BadMindedBasketCaseJudas MurdAFuckA tryIN 2 drAg U bAck dung 2 dere grovellIN LevHELLL….

Analysis 18/9/2018: What more fact does the EAT need? That’s why LondonEAT@hmcts.gsi.gov.uk and www.justice.gov.uk/tribunals/employment-appeals/ will be hearing from me whenever I find more fact to show why the ET Laws are to be reviewed and updated in line with other Rules of Law. UNISON is responsible for continuing discrimination against vulnerable employees. I did warn http://unison.org.uk/ that I will get justice for what they done to me.

 

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when you listen to this song you’ll probably think I went mad lol !! Hope it cheers you up Mervelee.

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Covering My Back From Terrorism!

There were British Values, Modern Slavery, Counter Terrorism & Security Acts in place when I write this letter to http://www.leyf.org.uk. Not to mention the Equality Act 2010 and Disability Discrimination Act.
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New Cross Community Nursery
77 Amerham Road
London
SE14 6QQ
8th September 2015

Re: Third Party Instructions
FAO: Manager #MarionBreslin#Deputy1Louise#Deputy2Emma

I Mervelee Ionie Myers would like to bring to your attention some of the pressing matters that are causing me concerns and thereby exacerbating my #diagnosed CHRONIC ANXIETY. Since some of these issues have arisen around the time when I was in a month of my 6 months #sanction. When 1 of my colleagues went and made #allegations on the 1st of July 2015 that I was not attending to a child who was crying to Emma. Emma in turn told me she had to be advised by her supervisor the area manager #HildaMiller how to deal with the matter because she is new and in training. Although I acted as if I did not know who the person was who made the allegations was, because I did not hear her and hearsay cannot go to the court. However I can assume who the person is based on the adults who were in the room at the time, who left and entered as well.

I have since noticed that I am been given instructions by way of a #3rdParty on important Matters to do with work. However I was not unduly bothered before because I now, know not to override my authority in any of these matters. Since I resumed work after the 2 months Medical #Suspension on the 2nd June 2015, I’ve informed the 2 Deputies about my CRB/DBS expiring in July. I kept on and on expecting to be contacted by Central Office to get it done. During my 1st #supervision on Friday 28th August with Marion the manager I informed her about it for the first time. She told me she’d contact CO and after a week I put my request in writing #ensuring I am adhering to Ofsted & LEYF Nurseries Welfare Requirements for safeguarding children in line with Suitability and Disqualification Checks.

That’s why I felt #demoralised today when after I worked carrying out normal day-to-day activities from the start of my shift at 8.00 am – 2.50. Then when 1 of my colleagues mentioned that a child needs changing and I offered I was hit like a bolt of #lightning out of the blue. #Criscella told me I could not change the child’s nappy, she has to do it. When I enquired why, I was told that I don’t have a CRB. Emma informed Criscella yesterday that I was not allowed to do nappy. I can reassure you that I am not raising concerns because I have nothing better to do with my time. However because of the SANCTION I have on my RECORDS resulting from what was done to me at BIB over a prolonged period of time. I prefer that if Manager/Deputy have any concerns about my work and me on a whole they should go about dealing with the matter in a #professional manner.

I just cannot handle another #episode like what happened at BIB. And I can assure you that I will not be sitting back #idly on my laurels and go back to BIB experiences over my dead body. Yesterday at the end of her shift Emma came down and said that all I need to do about my Hospital Appointment is to change shift with Criscella. She kept on rambling on about #mistakesbeing made, etc… Later when Criscella asked me about the matter I explained as best as I could. My arguments on this issue, where information is being passed to me by the 3rd Party who is Criscella is I am not being #dismissive of authority. But I think it would have been more professional if Emma could have told me at the same time she #addressed the Hospital Appointment that I should not change the children until my CRB came through.

Louise told me in the morning that she Emailed CO to get the matter of my CRB sorted and later she phoned down to #enquire about my email address. Up until that time nothing was said to be about not changing the children or anything else for that matter to do with the #expired CRB. The way I see things happening recently makes me feeling as if I am being #stalked because once more I see some staff #preying on me like what was happening at BIB. Last week I got in 15 minutes early and was waiting to sign in. Emma asked if I could start 10 minutes early because she needed to show the Apprentice round. I was still waiting to sign in when Emma insisted that I go ahead and she’d sign me in so I asked her to sign me out for the day before because I remembered when I got through the gate. She told me she’d done it yesterday.

I was in the Baby Room when Marion comes to the door and asked if I’d sign in. I explained about Emma asking me to start early and she’d sign me in. Marion wasn’t satisfied with my answer so I had to #defend myself saying I was not at fault, I was only #obeying the instructions given to me by the Deputy Emma and expected her to be responsible and accountable in doing her part. Marion then take a different tact asking if I’d come in before or after the #Apprentice. I was the last person to come in and no one else had gone through the gate. Marion claimed the gate was left unlocked. I can #swear on my Dead Parents Graves that the gate was not left unlocked because of my Obsessive Compulsives Disorder (OCD). When Emma comes back from the office I asked if she’d signed me in and she said she #forgot.

I told her because she forgot, Marion was #picking on me. Emma said Marion was picking on me because I left the gate opened and not because she’d not sign me in. Well I did not bother to stretch the argument. Since I am the one who has been #proactive acting professionally ensuring I abide by OFSTED Welfare Requirements & LEYF Safeguarding Policy and Procedures because no one bothered to act on the fact I’d informed them from as far back as 2nd June 2015 that my CRB would expire in July. I am hereby requesting that I be not put into any #compromising situations during the tenure of the rest of my employment. Until my CRB comes through I will not be changing any nappy as Emma told Criscella to relay to me yesterday. I will not be left on my own with any child/children. And I’d appreciate it if information sharing can be relayed to me other than Criscella as 3rd Party.

From past experiences I know that 3rd Party sharing of information can turn out like CHINESE WHISPERS. Where by the time it reaches to me, it is taken out of all #context and loses its content entirely. As of now I’d like to be spoken to verbally by the Manager/Deputies, emails – addresses that I supplied, text messages – Mobile # supplied, Messages on my Home Telephone # supplied, or letter to my Home Address that I will remind you: 16 Alma Grove Bermondsey London SE1 5PY and not 16A – 16B that it has been #changed to recently.

If it is of any #relevance I’ve recently being married to my Long Term Partner Mr Arnold TOMLINSON. But I am still using MERVELEE IONIE MYERS because that’s the name on my Paper works. Apart from the #trumped up allegations that they cooked up in BIB resulting in the Sanctions on my Records/File that seem to have #dropped off the face of the Earth, I know of no other reasons why I can’t work with Vulnerable Children and Adults.

Prepared by: Mervelee Myers FD (Open)
Early Years Practitioner
Date: 8th September 2015.

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Mervelee Ratty Nembhard Can Facebook understand my Fight4justice yet? Now what’s wrong with that stupid #CliffReid? Tell him I aint looking nobody to fight my corners, I am capable enough to do it myself.

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I am back where I was a couple months ago because of some #spineless unscrupulous People who have taken out their stomachs & stuffed it with straws. Since I don’t intend to go down without a fight I will be enlisting support from the Public to stop them destroying my HUSBAND & I in their campaign of destructions. I will be going Public defending myself & using every piece of Documentations in my possession to help me take back control of my life. My survival depends on anyone out in the public domain with any amount of humanity, a conscience & beliefs in a true & living GOD to come to my rescue. Now I have my Fight4justice.

If everyone who knows me on Social Media, Facebook, and LinkedIn can join me in defending myself I’d be eternally grateful. I’d like to get out of the clutches of these Evil People if someone could think of my plight and #offer me a JOB. The money is not the most important thing, as long as I am earning enough to tide me over and keep me #occupied I can manage. Working is what keep me going and I am dedicated, passionate, reliable, trustworthy and a believer in giving the best of me to any causes that promote #inclusion for all.

If everyone of my Facebook friends can #share my story and spread the word about my Plight. Then this will stop them in their track of destroying another Human Being who they keep in their vice grips because of the fact I was #blacklisted and #networking against for standing up for my rights not to be discriminated against. I have decided to stop running as was necessary for securing my #sanity. All my life I have being kept underfoot because of my disabilities, like they have done to me & numerous others.

PLEASE LOOK INTO UR CONSCIENCE AS U CONSIDER MY PLIGHT. I AM DEPENDING ON U ALL! I am prepared to go down fighting and refused to become a VICTIM like they once made me years ago. Refer to Dr Maria Hudson for the Policy Studies Institute research that was recommended to Acas. These people are wicked & there are more persons out there who are being affected by them but are cowering in fright. Refer to #JyotiSharma review and others on LEYF Nurseries website. Maybe this is the time to come forward & be counted. People are coming forward, but only as much as they can escape the Modern Slavery Practices at www.leyf.org.uk. That’s why I am challenging the United Kingdom government of Theresa May to launch an inquiry into the Early Years Sector.

Whilst they are concentrating their energies on Destroying me & the #principles I stand for, they are losing sight of the bigger picture. They are breaching every laws in the UK & Europe but hiding under the umbrella of their authority because they have friends in high places. Let me list some of those friends in high places as Bates Wells Braithwaite, the union still taking my fee, Voice: the union for education professionals. The Employment TribunalDepartment for Work and Pensions – DWP and HMRC. The Metropolitan Police ServiceNursery World MagazineConnex EducationHCT Group and Community Playthings UK. Have no fear the like of Winsome Duncan: Author, Artist & Book Confidence Coach and others with criminal tendencies to be terrorism will be named. And I have to go back to UNISONCapsticks, Wimbledon and London Borough of Southwark SEND Section.

When I started working in Early Years I recognised 1 reputable organisation in the news lately, because I done training with them. But where are they now? Their demise came about because they lost sight of the bigger picture & all sense of their humanity in promoting equal rights & justice for all. The Baby was thrown out with the bath water whilst they were busy joining the cliques of officialdom and not paying attention to those they trample on to get to the top to be with the in-crowd.

I’ll be back & if I have to start naming NAMES I will! Because no one is going to Victimise me & treating me like a #JimmySaville character. Oh yes I am not always seen with a Fake Smile plastered across my face, but that don’t give any one the rights to judge me for that. I always say there are some jobs I’d not apply for if certain criteria had to be fulfilled. I do what I am PASSIONATE about.

Already I am back getting the SHAKES, not sleeping nor eating properly. Just imagine the impact on my Health Conditions? I’ve never experienced a #Hypo, but I am not far from one now. And I have to get on with carrying out day-to-day activities so they don’t say I am #incompetent at my job. Now I will be watching to see who will be rallying to my CRY of support!

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Mervelee Ratty Nembhard No 1 should have to be going through what I’ve been experiencing since I came back from JA after burying my MOTHER & asked to be transferred to another setting closer to home. Since then my life has been turned into a Living Hell and the things that caused the #Trauma is the fact that People who I thought were supporting me after 5+ years of distinctive services of contributions had in fact Conspired & Colluded to bring down to where I am t today. Well by the time I am finished I will be asking for answers to why they acted in a certain manners towards me & not #flagged up the concerns they claimed they had about me. I’d like to know why there is no Records of my existence with them. And more pertinent why they allowed me to be in breach of Government Laws & Legislations. Then asking me to bring my Personal Records that I got from another organisation to copy to keep on their file. Am I the only person without a Valid Record?

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Mervelee Ratty Nembhard For any1 with any iota of sense & rationale pertaining to the laws & legislations of the land they can see that I am adhering to the laws. I’ll leave the relevant authority to decide who is in breaches.

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Mervelee Ratty Nembhard Please take note of the date on this because I’ve got all my Copies from I started working & adhering to the laws. Maybe now they can answer why it is now September & I informed them on my return after Medical Suspension that theirs was expiring in July. If I am that person that they are portraying to be some1 who I don’t identify with. Why did the Occupational Health Doctor declared me fit & why are the Reasonable Adjustments agreed at my Return to Work Meeting not in place?

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Mervelee Ratty Nembhard Whilst they were paying me to stay home on Medical Suspension & trying their utmost to destroy me, I was spending my time studying The Equality Act, 2010 & seeking Legal Advice about my situation. So now I know lots of Pertinent information off the back of my hand. So to all the II who don’t know them bed head from the bed foot, they can start take notes.

The 2nd Union Rep AG who accompanied me to the Disciplinary Appeal told me he is a Christian. I gave him a copy of my Report & since he must have gone thru it with a fine toothpick, he’d know where I am coming from. Because he told me that being a Christian meeting me 4 the 1st time, he could hear the passion when I talk about what I care about. Now they did not give him my file that I sent to them & which DM had used to represent me at the 1st Disciplinary Hearing. Oh I am taking my time & collecting myself because like 1 evil woman that I read about in the Sunday Express today, I am started writing a Book, but now I have to devote myself to another 1.

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Mervelee Ratty Nembhard I am working, breaking down barriers!
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I still have to get on with my life through the STRUGGLES of Victimisation that I am facing. So I am off to do my shopping & go do my Volunteering because maybe this is the only options I have left to save myself from those Unscrupulous BASTARDS & BITCHES who are intent on Destroying me. They could not get me out with their CONTRACT, etc, etc… So now they are resorting to ruining my Health & Frustrating me to Quit under the Pressures that are once more taking the tolls on me.

This is how they Divide & Rule. I still can’t come to terms that sum can use the ambiance presented at a Wedding to continue their Campaign of Hate that started when I stood up & refused to be Victimised because I was eating a Ripe Banana so as not to become sick. I have every piece of Report contained in that Investigation carried out after the trumped up Allegations when they exhausted all that was written in their CONTRACT to get me on breaches. Then they got the institution in their pockets to advise me not to APPEAL.

But I did appeal… Remember I know exactly what they are up to & I will be putting everything in the PUBLIC Domain so people with a Conscience can split the differences & come to a verdict on why I am been treated like a Common Criminal & my Health ruined in the hope of destroying me. I am getting out with my Life in tact, but U won’t be damaging my good name & character any further if I have anything to say about the matter. Only God is going to solve this matter for me & I know He will. It’s only because right now I am thinking of the injustices involved!

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Fight4justice   Fight4justice Let LEYF Nurseries – #LEYF, the Employment TribunalDaily ExpressFacebook, et al stay there in their stupor and thinking my Fight4justice is not going to prove them to be terrorists?
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Facebook Double Standards!

I don’t know what games Facebook playing?

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This is how desperate Facebook is becoming in their #extortions#radicalisations and #terrorism. So Facebook have close my account so none of my postings can be seen. Excepting messages from Facebook for me to spend money. I have not worked since I was forced to resign my job at www.leyf.org.uk. Facebook is responsible for giving LEYF access to my account from about the 18/9/2015 to date, to help with the discrimination that led to my nervous breakdown.  Now Facebook must really think I am stupid after the way they have ganged up with LEYF Nurseries – #LEYF. The solicitors  Bates Wells Braithwaite, www.bwbllp.com, got Facebook Legal Team to contact me. After the reserve judgement was posted online.

The Employment tribunals, http://www.justice.gov.uk/tribunals/employment/claims/responding to continue perpetuating the hate crimes that see me still unable to get a job. Because the ET have presided over another miscarriages of justice. Despite Dr Maria Hudson 2012 Research Paper Ref: 01/12. This was recommended to http://www.acas.org.uk/researchpapers to ACAS. The is the case of   Winsome Duncan: Author, Artist & Book Confidence Coach, www.peachespublications.co.uk which have to be dealt with separately. But Facebook done nothing about my concerns when she removed me as adminstrator on my business that I paid her to help me set up online.

The  Metropolitan Police Service, www.southwark.gov.uk/community-safety/prevent-it-report-it is guilty of Hate Crimes on many grounds. The Department for Work and Pensions – DWP , www.southwark.gov.uk/benifitscontact is responsible for discrimination. They have breached the GDPR by threatening me with Criminal Record and denying me access to the Universal Credit Journal. As for the  HMRC, I don’t have a clue what they are doing or what purpose they serve? I have my Fight4justice campaigns for those intent on #hatecrimes.

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Mervelee Myers Analysis 9/9/2019: I have been writing messages in my posts informing Facebook that I am not in a position to advertise and boost posts. Due to the fact I have not worked since I was forced to resign with a nervous breakdown on the 27/9/2015. I feel that Facebook have stopped showing my posts and targetting me to spend money I don’t have. In the false hope that this can benefit me?

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Mervelee Myers 9/9/2018: As for as I am concerned, this is bribery and I think it should be classed as grooming and radicalisation by Facebook on a vulnerable person. Facebook has been involved in the discrimination against me that results in my nervous breakdown, by giving LEYF access to my account on the 18/9/2015.

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I Learned Not To Trust The ET!

How I go about my Defensive Practice

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EMPLOYMENT TRIBUNALS Employment tribunals

Montague Court, 101 London Rd, West Croydon, Surrey, CR0 2RF
Office :0208 667 9131
Fax 0870 324 0174 
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John Fenton
The Personnel Consultancy Limited
23 Downs Road
Epsom
Surrey
KT18 5JF

Your Ref :

Date : 21 July 2016

Case Number: 2300047/2016

Claimant
Mrs M Myers
v Respondent
London Early Years Foundation (#LEYF)

NOTICE OF PRELIMINARY HEARING BY TELEPHONE
Employment Tribunals Rules of Procedure 2013

The #Regional Employment Judge has directed that there should be a preliminary hearing to:

(a) Consider whether to offer the parties a #judicial mediation with a view to #resolving the dispute between them;

(b) If so, to make appropriate arrangements for the conduct of the judicial mediation;

(c) To give any other directions for the #fair and expeditious disposal of the case.

The preliminary hearing will be conducted by a #Telephone Conference call at 11:00 am on Friday, 29 July 2016.

To take part you should telephone 0333 300 1440 on time and, when #prompted, enter access code 227136#.
15.2 Notice of hearing for telephone preliminary hearing

Please note that if you intend to dial into the preliminary hearing from a mobile phone #higher rates apply and you may wish to check the call rate with your #service provider first.

If you intend to refer to documents during the conference call, #copies must be sent to the Tribunal either in an envelope or under cover of a fax or e-mail header sheet marked “Urgent for Conference Hearing on Friday, 29 July 2016”.

The preliminary hearing has been given a time allocation of half an hour. If you feel that this is #insufficient, you must inform the Tribunal office in writing.

Signed,
JAMES DELERMAIN-NEAL
For the Tribunal office

cc ACAS
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Taurus: Things are unlikely to slip easily into place this morning, thoughts are jangled and support is thin on the ground. Rushing will only lead to loss. Matters clear by early afternoon and plans come together. Call to hear when to avoid a falling out.

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Mervelee Ratty Nembhard Let me continue to bring my evidence forward of how I have been let down by the Employment Tribunal Law for the 2nd time.

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When One Fails, I Try Another?

Here is another reason why Facebook trying to terrorise me!

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Winsome Duncan: Author, Artist & Book Confidence Coach Threats 31st October 2017

Since I am still waiting to have that #consultations with Joanna, I will wait until she has been in touch. In the meantime you can go ahead and do whatever you want to do.

Thanks very much, the Metropolitan Police Service and London Ambulance Service NHS Trust turned up at my house yesterday. They have seen my husband, who I am #carer for. The London Borough of Southwark Police mentioned your name Winsome and keeps telling me to stay away from you. So good luck, I am not #sectioned under the Mental Health Act as you expected and never will. London Early Years Foundation (LEYF Nurseries) did not managed to do it, and neither will you.

My #defensivepractice can be seen at MQ: Transforming mental health and other sites and social media platforms where I publish stories of my experiences living with my #hiddendisabilities from the time my father was struck down with Parkinson’s disease. I have since discovered that as a carrier of my father’s DNA, I do have #atypicalparkinsonism. I managed and control my disabilities, until #LEYF discrimination trigger my childhood traumas into PTSD.

But don’t worry I leave you to my GOD, and He will surely be putting out that “Little Light” of yours that you are using to #scam people. You are a Terrorist and a CYBER BULLY. You got access to Confidential Information about me via your Illegal Activities of SCAMMING. The net will close in on you soon, don’t worry.

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Mervelee

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From: Pearl Peaches
Sent: 30 October 2017 03:13
To: Mervelee Myers
Subject: Your book is on its way to you!!!

Dear Mervelee,

#proof copy of your book is on its way to you and will arrive in 7 – 10 working days for your viewing.

Once Joanna has proofed #read your book and you have received the final copy, it will be uploaded onto Amazon.com and this will bring our working relationship to an end.

May I remind you that you have signed an #agreement which states in clause 27:

27. In the event of agreement termination both parties will not slander each other on social media, word of mouth or by any other forms of communication.
Currently you are in breech of this. I do want my logo or brand associated with your book due future legal implications. This is your own independent publication. REMOVE any covers with my logo from your social media IMMEDIATELY.

If you continue to slander my name and brand, I will be forced to take the legal route of an injunction out against you. Like others in your past I will not tolerate your verbal abuse and defamatory comments, when all I have done is been supportive of your whole journey even during your meltdowns. The fact that you have disclosed things I’ve said to you in confidence has broken all trust and future working opportunities. I will make sure you are held accountable and you will be responsible for any more continuation of liable comments in social media.

You need to seek support for your #meltdown otherwise you will face being sectioned under the mental health act and i’m sure you don’t want to be away from your family.

I hope I’ve been clear in my communications and you will see I’m being #reasonable in completing your independent publications. I have noted your request of not wanting your book changed. Attached is your #typesetmanuscript.

Regards,

Winsome

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I honestly don’t know what this is about, but hey, what do I know?

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Dealing with Death of Loved Ones

Mervelee Tomlinson
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In the space of 7 months I have made 2 trips to my beloved country Jamaica for 2 momentous and #poignant occasions in my life. I travelled to Jamaica on the 22.12.13, my son’s birthday to attend his wedding on new years day 01.01.14. I was privileged to spend 4 weeks establishing links with my elderly mum whose health was in steady #decline. Mum who had #dementia did not recognised her only daughter, but I was blessed in a variety of ways. Because my son Valdin Legister was living at home with mum, he had become one of the familiar persons who represented #consistency and continuity in her life. In a sense he had taken my place in mum’s heart whilst I was away from the roost.

During my 4 weeks at home I was empowered to get some more insights into the #aging processes that are parts of the transitions from birth to death. If I am lucky I might encounter some of the changes I have witnessed throughout my life as a #parent, informal and formal #carer. If I live to be anywhere near to my mum’s age of 90 years old, I will be blessed with #wisdom beyond my age. Now I can honestly say I totally understand the age old adage that my older folks used “once a man twice a child…” Mum went back to being a child who needed attention 24/7 near the end of her life here on earth. I also got a clearer picture of the person I will morph into as I get older, because I am now proud to be #compared to my mother.

I am saying this because at one stage, I’d be #mortified if anyone had the gall to compare me to mum and my grandma. But as the years went by and I decided to delve into my family history, I was dumbfounded to make some discoveries. Whilst in Jamaica I took the opportunity to put some of my studies that I had done about the young and elderly to good use. I pondered to mums every needs applying techniques to revise her #memories despite her dementia. I #sang with her, #talked about her loved ones who had gone on before and did all in my power to preserve her #dignity. It was truly amazing to witness mum being so #humble and grateful whenever anyone did her a good turn.

This reminded me so much of some of the #vulnerable children with whom I worked over the years. The vulnerable children and adults are relying on the practitioners and other health care professionals to provide for their diverse and #complex needs. I felt a sense of purpose when I can implement early intervention strategies from studies and trainings to meet the needs of any vulnerable human being. I must confess that I had a few eye opening experiences being with mum, before heading back to the UK where duty call. That meant I could not stay with mum to celebrate her #90thbirthday, but I left with the #convictions that I would not be seeing her alive again.

Back in the UK I was kept up to date with her progress as per usual. Then after doing Cancer Research UK Race for Life in honour of my brother who died of #Cancer in 2008, on the 30th May in Clapham. I had this strange feelings before going to bed and I just could not stop crying. I can say as part of my beliefs that my loved ones who had gone on before had reached out to prepare me about mum’s passing in advance. In the middle of the night I was woken up by the telephone call I was dreading and was in tuned to the time when mum drew her #last breathe. After getting the news I spent the following weeks making preparations for going home to bury mum. This was one of the hardest couple of weeks I had encountered, but I took things in my stride and carried on.

#drafted the eulogy and remembrance since I am the one responsible for documenting the family history during those couple of weeks. I continued working as hard as ever, burning the candle at both ends to meet my targeted outcomes. I went back to Jamaica to bury mum, but decided with my siblings that this was a time for the family to celebrate a life well spent. I got home and took part in the preparations, said I was not going to cry, but on the day of the funeral it was a different story completely. I left home in good spirit, walked up to the casket, looked at mum lying there so quiet and life less, touched her face and hands. I guess that’s when the #reality that mum was gone hit home and I could not stop the tears from flowing. So I cried and paced up and down until there were no more tears.

I have been dealing with the death of my loved ones from I was in my teens with the #murder of 2 uncles in their homes from both parents, 2 years apart. The gruesome death of my grandma’s only son totally destroyed her and she never #recovered. She died 2 years later, a month after the death of my dad in 1980. This meant my family had to deal with death 2 folds over a period of time. Then in 1994 I lost my brother at the tender age of 37 years old and strangely enough he was #present when our uncle was brutally murdered and escaped with a few bruises. I lost another brother to Cancer in 2008 after a short illness, he was only #56years old. The other family I had lost were not that significant, because I knew absolutely nothing about the intricacies of death.

Listening to current debates about Euthanasia, the treatment of the vulnerable and the Bill being debated in Parliament… I can’t help but reflect on some of my own experiences throughout the times when my dad and grandma were sick. Dad was sick for over a decade before he died and in the end needed care around the clock. To compound matters, gran took sick and mum had to care for both, with help from her children. I recalled once hearing my brother saying that if it was left to him alone, he would give dad something for him to #sleep. Although I was not home during my brother’s brief illness before his death, I have cause to believe he might have #hastened his life.

All he did to hasten his life was to eat the things that the doctor told him that were not good for his health. I came to this conclusion after going back home and being given certain information and knowing what his thoughts were about #suffering. I know I could not take that pathway if any of my loved ones or myself ever end up like my dad, because of my knowledge, values and beliefs. But this will not take away from the fact that I can understand why some would decide to go that route. I have seen so much suffering in my life time, that I wished there was some way for people to avoid the #indignity of depending on anyone else for their every needs. Before I reached maturity and gain knowledge I remonstrated with a God who would allow my dad to suffer so much.

Suffice it to say that I am wiser about such matters and even though I have mellowed, I wish people did not have to suffer like my dad, and become like my mum in her last lap of her journey. Although I knew mum would die of old age it was still hard to accept losing a loved one, in particular my mother. She was the centre of our life because of the sacrifices she had made for her family when her husband took sick and died years later. I am proud to say that because I had dedicated my life to #educating myself as an older student because I never had the opportunity when younger. I was instrumental in diagnosing mum’s condition, passing information to my family to help them provide mum with care that she would not otherwise have gotten.

When I was still in Jamaica nothing was known about some of the conditions which affected the disabled and elderly. Therefore when these disabled and sick elderly people behaved a certain way, they were #stereotyped and classed as mad, miserable or labelled with a variety of undignified names. In this age of #enlightenment I am glad to say that studying empowered me to address some of the imbalances which made my mum’s later days on this earth a more bearable time for her and her family. I am no prophet and will not claim to be brighter than anyone else, but I am proud of the way I have empowered myself to enable me to cope with the challenges of life. By these tokens I am better equipped to handle my personal and professional life.

There are 2 things that are certain in the trilogy of human kind – birth and death, and after death the resurrection. I am praying even though I am not much of a Christian like my Father and Mother before me. But I wish I don’t have to suffer the indignity of having to rely on others to care for me like my parents before me. I guess this is why I take my health so important and have been making life style changes to keep healthy as long as is reasonably possible. These changes were put in place since I was diagnosed with a variety of illnesses, some of which are #heredity. I intend to keep in tip top shape for as long as I can. However there are certain matters over which we mere humans do not have the final say, so I am more than happy to leave such matters in the hands of the Almighty Father who knows everything best.

Mum has gone on to rest from her hard labours and toil and I am sure all my family are in agreement that mum is better off resting instead of staying on this earth suffering, and having no memories of her family. I am more than confident mum has been #reunited with all her loved ones who have gone on before? She has done a wonderful job throughout her time and I am more than #grateful for the mother God gave me for the 55 years she spent here with me.

Mervelee Tomlinson
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What I’ve learned is that, in the “Trilogy of Life”, one thing is uncertain and one thing is sure: life and death, respectively. May your lost loved ones rest in peace, Mervelee.

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In my times of struggling God always provide me with the inspirations I needed to get me through. So yesterday DEPRESSION have me in this vice like grip making 

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Mervelee Ratty Nembhard I just can’t wait for the 19th October 2018. Then I can put the Employment Appeals Tribunal behind me and get on with my life. In the meantime every time I come across the documents with the discrimination and how the Employment Tribunal Service presided over another miscarriages of justice. I am morified, so I come to Facebook for therapy.

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Seems as if Facebook don’t understand my dilemma? Therefore I will carry on with my tasks of clearing my name by continuing to share my writing about the discrimination that have impacted on my life here in the UK from 2004 in the toxic workplaces. And also my encounter with the establishments and systems and government departments. Not to mention my latest ordeals with www.leyf.org.uk and http://www.justice.gov.uk/tribunals/employment/claims/respondinghttp://www.justice.gov.uk/tribunals/employment/claims/responding.
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Me and my state of MIND

This time in 2015, I was in the ongoing #oppression from LEYF Nurseries – #LEYF as they set out their plots to destroy my life. As can be seen from my Facebook posts, I was always mindful of the contract I signed and very careful of what I write in the public domain that could compromise the job I know I was lucky to have gotten after taking a stance against discrimination when I was employed at King’s College Hospital. Resulting from the institutional discrimination which were both direct and indirect and in breach of the Disability Discrimination Act, I chose to be steadfast in keeping a #defensivepractice.

After the way I was stitched up by UNISONLondon Borough of Southwark, SEND Section, the Local Educational AuthorityOfstedCapsticks, WimbledonAcas and the Employment Tribunal Law. I always preferred to err on the side of caution. So despite being part of Policy Studies Institute research carried out by Dr Maria Hudson and recommended to #Acas. The recommendations were not implemented. Throughout my ordeals after representing myself at the Employment Tribunal Service and facing blacklisting and networking. The impacts on my emotional health and wellbeing did take their tolls and I experienced my first #nervousbreakdown after the death of my brother BYRON from #coloncancer. Just so #Facebook know that I have a diagnosis for #chronicanxiety from the Landor Road Surgery from the 18/7/2006 to do my examination in Health and Social Care Level 2 with the The Open University.

I will let the rest of this tell the story I want the world to know about why I have my Fight4justice campaign.

Folks I don’t want anyone to take this Personal, but just to forewarn you about the state of my mind. I hope this will eventually give you an insight into whom and what I am at the present time in my life. I am currently #suffering from DEPRESSION which I have been struggling to keep under control, and believe me it wont get the better of me. However I am putting MECHANISMS in place so that I can eventually get out of the #environment that is contributing to #exacerbating the condition. Therefore I am making plans to be out of the UK before my #60thBirthday if God decides to keep me on this earth until then.

I have some investments which are tied up over the next 4 years without me losing out on any premiums/benefits, so I will be around until then to collect them. The other investments I have I can always settle when am ready. Also I would love to be around for TOM if he should ever need my support. At present he does get on my #Nerves, but I have developed a thick skin and refused to let him dig too deep. At the same time he is a Tower of Strength and can be relied on like no one else at close range.

I have made the decision to do as much work as I can with the assistance of TOM, because I know this will go a long way at putting Mama’s heart at peace before God decides to remove her from amongst Us. This is the only reason that I am making the #sacrifices to work on the house. I have tied up most of my money for a period so I can earn some interests. TOM has decided to help, but I have to deal with the #nagging too. Some times I won’t be able to discuss any matters over the phone when he is around, but will instead use other mediums of #communications.

Seriously I don’t care about having much in life as long as I have a room to call my own. But it is my wish to know that there is a decent enough Family Home for the Family to have some sense of #security. I have seen my parents struggle to provide a roof over our heads, and I know it was one of ASHTER’S dreams to put up a decent house, so I will be proud to know that I can make those dreams become a #reality. All I am asking is that the hard earned money I sent is spent Wisely as TOM keeps harping on about how hard I have to work for the money. He comments every day about the money I #lent out, but I won’t be crying over any spilt milk. I am a person who believes in #Destiny. I always say I came to this country for a reason. Now I recognised that it is time for me to pack up and leave before I am beyond #repair.

There are forces intent on keeping me down, and am damned if I will let them get the better of me, so at the moment I am learning once more to kiss ass before I can kick it. But don’t worry am making my plans for when I am ready to leave. In the meantime I am just #humbling myself and walk with God. Yeah and don’t think that I have not been questioning this same God why Me & my FAMILY have to bear so many Crosses from the time my Papa was struck down with his illness.

All I am asking please take care of my INTERESTS as I want to do what I think is best for my #Mum who did so much for US as a Family. Now that am older and wiser I am able to #comprehend just how much she has done. May God continue to answer my prayers and keep her from too much pain and suffering? Chat later.

Ratty.

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Fight4justice Being able to write down my thoughts from the time my father was stricken with Parkinson’s must have been my saving grace to help me through the years of challenges and adversities that I was meant to face. I am positive that the resilience that my Primary School Teacher helped me to develop from a young age is also instrumental in my survival?

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Fight4justice Discovering that my mother might have experienced Mental Health Conditions which were similiar to mine and why we are the way we are does go a long way in reassuring me that there is hope for me yet in finding my purpose in life. That’s why I can turn See More

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This was an email sent to my family after coming back from my son’s wedding and realising how much my mother was affected by the dementia that robbed me of her. Mama had no memory of me until the day I was leaving her to return to the UK. By the time I returned to the UK, my life was in turmoil and I had to seek help from my GP. Since returning from burying my mother and experiencing discrimination, I doubt even my family knew how much I was affected, even though I tried telling them.
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