So #lovenabrown and Devon Morgan do they know #SimonL who commented on my LinkedIn “The Death of Loved Ones”? Refer to Mama Funeral https://fb.watch/c5NapiTXb-/ and Wikipedia will forward into 2022. We hope you enjoy looking back and sharing your memories on Facebook, from the most recent to those long ago.
On this day
5 years ago
Mervelee Ratty Nembhard is remembering those who are no longer with us with Ervin Nembhard and
6 others
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July 19, 2017 ·
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Dealing with Death of Loved Ones
Mervelee Tomlinson
Carer at Carer at Home
In the space of 7 months I have made 2 trips to my beloved country Jamaica for 2 momentous and poignant occasions in my life. I travelled to Jamaica on the 22.12.13, Valdin Legister, my son’s birthday to attend his wedding on New Years Day 01.01.14. I was privileged to spend 4 weeks establishing links with my elderly mum whose health was in steady decline. Mum who had Dementia did not recognised her only daughter, Mervelee Ratty Nembhard but I was blessed in a variety of ways. Because my son was living at home with mum, he had become one of the familiar persons who represented consistency and continuity in her life. In a sense he had taken my place in mum’s heart whilst I was away from the roost.
During my 4 weeks at home I was empowered to get some more insights into the aging processes that are parts of the transitions from birth to death. If I am lucky I might encounter some of the changes I have witnessed throughout my life as a parent, informal and formal carer. If I live to be anywhere near to my mum’s age of 90 years old, I will be blessed with wisdom beyond my age. Now I can honestly say I totally understand the age old adage that my older folks used “once a man twice a child…” Mum went back to being a child who needed attention 24/7 near the end of her life here on earth. I also got a clearer picture of the person I will morph into as I get older, because I am now proud to be compared to my mother, @www.MerveleeConsultancy.uk.
I am saying this because at one stage, I’d be mortified if anyone had the gall to compare me to mum and my grandma. But as the years went by and I decided to delve into my family history, I was dumbfounded to make some discoveries. Whilst in Jamaica I took the opportunity to put some of my studies at Lambeth College and the The Open University that I had done about the young and elderly to good use. I pondered to mum’s every needs, applying techniques to revise her memories despite her dementia. I sang with her, talked about her loved ones who had gone on before and did all in my power to preserve her dignity. It was truly amazing to witness mum being so humble and grateful whenever anyone did her a good turn.
This reminded me so much of some of the vulnerable children with whom I worked over the years. The vulnerable children and adults are relying on the practitioners and other health care professionals to provide for their diverse and complex needs, Disabilities. I felt a sense of purpose when I can implement early intervention strategies from studies and trainings to meet the needs of any vulnerable human being. I must confess that I had a few eye opening experiences being with mum, before heading back to the United Kingdom where duty call. That meant I could not stay with mum to celebrate her 90th birthday, but I left with the convictions that I would not be seeing her alive again.
Back in the UK I was kept up to date with her progress as per usual. Then after doing Cancer Research UK Race for Life in honour of my brother who died of Colon Cancer in 2008, on the 30th May in Clapham. I had this strange feelings before going to bed and I just could not stop crying. I can say as part of my beliefs that my loved ones who had gone on before had reached out to prepare me about mum’s passing in advance. In the middle of the night I was woken up by the telephone call I was dreading and was in tuned to the time when mum drew her last breathe. After getting the news I spent the following weeks making preparations for going home to bury mum. This was one of the hardest couple of weeks I had encountered, but I took things in my stride and carried on at Luton Street LEYF Nurseries.
I drafted the Eulogy and remembrance since I am the one responsible for documenting the family history during those couple of weeks. I continued working as hard as ever, burning the candle at both ends to meet my targeted outcomes. I went back to Jamaica to bury mum, but decided with my siblings that this was a time for the family to celebrate a life well spent. I got home and took part in the preparations, said I was not going to cry, but on the day of the funeral it was a different story completely. I left home in good spirit, walked up to the casket, looked at mum lying there so quiet and life less, touched her face and hands. I guess that’s when the reality that mum was gone hit home and I could not stop the tears from flowing. So I cried and paced up and down until there were no more tears.
I have been dealing with the death of my loved ones from I was in my teens with the murder of 2 uncles in their homes from both parents, 2 years apart. The gruesome death of my grandma’s only son totally destroyed her and she never recovered. She died 2 years later, a month after the death of my dad in 1980. This meant my family had to deal with death 2 folds over a period of time. Then in 1994 I lost my brother at the tender age of 37 years old and strangely enough he was present when our uncle was brutally murdered and escaped with a few bruises. I lost another brother to Cancer in 2008 after a short illness, he was only 56 years old. That was the time when King’s College Hospital NHS Foundation Trust colluded with UNISON and London Borough of Southwark SEND Section to discriminate against me.
When I challenged the social injustices and inequalities, they got Capsticks, Wimbledon to act unprofessionally. A miscarriage of justice was the outcome of the Employment Tribunals London South case I brought against the former employers. I told Dr Maria Hudson of the Policy Studies Institute in 2010, when she interviewed me that I would clear my name and exonerate myself. Because I was to face blacklisting and networking which further exacerbate my Hidden Disability and trigger the Mental Health Conditions that I write about, which MQ: Transforming mental health is using as part of their campaign. After getting counseeling at the Maudsley Hospital, on the advise of the Occupational Health Doctor that #LEYF send me to after the Medical Suspension.
I was told to seek Cognitive Behavioural Therapy – CBT to find out why I react to certain issues the way I do. I realised that my MOTHER, must have suffered from Mental Health Conditions because of her own experiences. The other family I had lost were not that significant, because I knew absolutely nothing about the intricacies of death, at the time. Listening to current debates about euthanasia, the treatment of the vulnerable and the Bill being debated in Parliament… I can’t help but reflect on some of my own experiences throughout the times when my dad and grandma were sick. Dad was sick for over a decade before he died and in the end needed care around the clock.
To compound matters, gran took sick and mum had to care for both, with help from her children. I recalled once hearing my brother saying that if it was left to him alone, he would give dad something for him to sleep. Although I was not home during my brother’s brief illness before his death, I have cause to believe he might have hastened his life. All he did to hasten his life was to eat the things that the doctor told him that were not good for his health. I came to this conclusion after going back home and being given certain information and knowing what his thoughts were about suffering.
I know I could not take that pathway if any of my loved ones or myself ever end up like my dad, because of my knowledge, values and beliefs. But this will not take away from the fact that I can understand why some would decide to go that route. I have seen so much suffering in my life time, that I wished there was some way for people to avoid the indignity of depending on anyone else for their every needs. Before I reached maturity and gain knowledge I remonstrated with a God who would allow my dad to suffer so much.
Suffice it to say that I am wiser about such matters and even though I have mellowed, I wish people did not have to suffer like my dad, and become like my mum in her last lap of her journey. Although I knew mum would die of old age it was still hard to accept losing a loved one, in particular my mother. She was the centre of our life because of the sacrifices she had made for her family when her husband took sick and died years later. I am proud to say that because I had dedicated my life to educating myself as an older student because I never had the opportunity when younger. I was instrumental in diagnosing mum’s condition, passing information to my family to help them provide mum with care that she would not otherwise have gotten.
When I was still in Jamaica nothing was known about some of the Health Conditions which affected the disabled and elderly. Therefore when these disabled and sick elderly people behaved a certain way, they were stereotyped and classed as mad, miserable or labelled with a variety of undignified names. In this age of enlightenment I am glad to say that studying empowered me to address some of the imbalances which made my mum’s later days on this earth a more bearable time for her and her family. I am no prophet and will not claim to be brighter than anyone else, but I am proud of the way I have empowered myself to enable me to cope with the challenges of life.
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Subject: Join South London and Maudsley’s – Strategy event Tues 26 April 6-8pm
Invitation to join us at:
Aiming High: Changing Lives – Strategy Even
Six months on: What we have done and what comes next
Following over 1,700 interactions with staff, service users, carers, partners, families and community organisations – we launched our new Trust strategy ‘Aiming High; Changing Lives, 2021-2026’.
We made a commitment to hold regular six-monthly events led by the Chair and Chief Executive, this is to continue talking and acting on how we are making progress to achieve our five Strategic Ambitions:
1. Building a culture of trust together –
2. Outstanding mental health care
3. A catalyst for change
4. Partner in prevention
5. Towards an effective and sustainable organisation
At this first event we will:
1. Share progress on the strategy since its launch in September 2021
2. Continue to co-produce the qualitative (personal experience) measures for the Trust Strategy, to monitor its success
3. Share ways to get involved in reviewing and setting Trust priorities for 2023-2024
4. Have a question and answer session on the strategy with our panel
Date: Tuesday 26 April 2022
Time: 6pm – 8pm
Location: Online via Microsoft Teams
Register: via Eventbrite here
Once registered, the event link will be emailed to you.
Do share this information through your networks and we look forward to welcoming you on the day!
#HelpShapeOurStrategy #PartnershipEvents
Feel free to contact me if you have any questions.
Best wishes,
Anisa Singh
Engagement Support Officer – Planning and Equality Team
South London and Maudsley NHS Foundation Trust
Trust Headquarters | Maudsley Hospital | Denmark Hill | London | SE5 8AZ
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South London and Maudsley NHS Foundation Trust provides the widest range of NHS mental health services in the UK. We work closely with the Institute of Psychiatry, Psychology and Neuroscience, King’s College London. We are supported by Maudsley Charity. We are part of King’s Health Partners Academic Health Sciences Centre. Whilst it suits me to email now, I do not expect a response or action outside of your own usual working hours Hi Mervelee Myers, We just need to confirm your email address to sign in. This link will work only once then will expire.
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Elder abuse (also called “elder mistreatment“, “senior abuse“, “abuse in later life“, “abuse of older adults“, “abuse of older women“, and “abuse of older men“) is “a single, or repeated act, or lack of appropriate action, occurring within any relationship where there is an expectation of trust, which causes harm or distress to an older person.”[1] This definition has been adopted by of the World Health Organization (WHO) from a definition put forward by Action on Elder Abuse in the UK. Laws protecting the elderly from abuse are similar to and related to laws protecting dependent adults from abuse.
Mervelee Myers Shares Information About How My Husband is Traumatized 2015 to date
It includes harms by people the older person knows, or has a relationship with, such as a spouse, partner, or family member; a friend or neighbor; or people that the older person relies on for services. Many forms of elder abuse are recognized as types of domestic violence or family violence since they are committed by family members. Paid caregivers have also been known to prey on their elderly patients.
MM Updates About Those Responsible For Discrimination Against Us
Refer to Directorate of Professional Standards Our Decision About Your Complaint MOPAC ComplaintReviews@mopac.london.gov.uk and read Mrs. Gloria Cameron’s CASE DISMISSED published by HANSIB info@hansibpublications.com and www.hansibspublications.com for why nothing has changed and https://www.policeconduct.gov.uk can get away with attempts on my life from they came to my home on the 30/10/2017 to section me on a malicious report by a scammer. With my online profile and “Defensive Practice” those responsible should be drawn and quartered like in olden days. If in doubt refer to my https://www.facebook.com/public/Mervelee-Myers for verification about the extent of elder abuse by the HMCTS and CJS and CPS against me and my husband.
While a variety of circumstances are considered elder abuse, it does not include general criminal activity against older persons, such as home break-ins, “muggings” in the street, or “distraction burglary,” where a stranger distracts an older person at the doorstep while another person enters the property to steal.
MM Updates 2022
Refer to my YouTube for evidence of the extent of elder abuse I captured and put in the public domain. But the authorities failing to act but turns up at my home to put their agenda into place whenever I call for support. There is a LIVE of the www.met.police.uk who visited my home on the 26/3/2022. Dates are important to how I document my https://fight4justiceadvocacy.business.site to safeguard me and my husband.
The abuse of elders by caregivers is a worldwide issue. In 2002, WHO brought international attention to the issue of elder abuse.[2] Over the years, government agencies and community professional groups, worldwide, have specified elder abuse as a social problem.[3] In 2006 the International Network for Prevention of Elder Abuse (INPEA) designated June 15 as World Elder Abuse Awareness Day (WEAAD), and an increasing number of events are held across the globe on this day to raise awareness of elder abuse and highlight ways to challenge such abuse.[4]
Although there are common themes of elder abuse across nations, there are also unique manifestations based upon history, culture, economic strength, and societal perceptions of older people within nations themselves. The fundamental common denominator is the use of power and control by one individual to affect the well-being and status of another older individual.
There are several types of abuse of older people that are generally recognized as being elder abuse, including:[5][6][7]
Physical: e.g. hitting, punching, slapping, burning, pushing, kicking, restraining, false imprisonment/confinement, or giving excessive or improper medication as well as withholding treatment and medication. MM Updates 2022 in Relation to my participation in Dr. Maria Hudson’s “The Experience of Multiple Discrimination” www.acas.org.uk/researchpapers will share how physical abuse was used against me by my former employers in public places at the www.nurseryworldshow.com/london in 2018 by a white girl wearing LEYF shirt. There are photos on social media.
Psychological/Emotional: e.g. humiliating a person. A common theme is a perpetrator who identifies something that matters to an older person and then uses it to coerce an older person into a particular action. It may take verbal forms such as yelling, name-calling, ridiculing, constantly criticizing, accusations, blaming, or nonverbal forms such as ignoring, silence, shunning or withdrawing affection. MM Updates 2022 Refer to me calling out for support and the visit to my home on the 26/3/2022 is an example of the ill-treatment of the www.met.police.uk against me from 30/10/2017 to date. Evidence at YouTube. The ill-treatment affecting my husband and me.
Elder financial abuse: also known as financial exploitation, involving misappropriation of financial resources by family members, caregivers, or strangers, or the use of financial means to control the person or facilitate other types of abuse. Also, failure to pay financial support to impoverished elders in jurisdictions which have filial responsibility laws, such as France, Germany, and most of the United States. MM Updates 2022 Refer to www.icsouthlondon.co.uk from 2014 when I was defrauded and begged the South London Press to share my story. Refer to David Lammy MP Review of Racial Bias and BAME representation in the Criminal Justice System for why https://www.ryanclement.com can be bragging about his invitation to HOC about Windrush Generation. When he came to my home to take my husband’s money to represent me at the EAT. The www.moneyclaim.gov.uk passed the judgement for me to be paid Instead www.courtenforcementserviceltd.co.uk failed to collect my money. Am a victim of the CLCC colluding with https://www.39essex.com/barrister/samantha-jones to issue me with ECRO.
Sexual: e.g. forcing a person to take part in any sexual activity without his or her consent, including forcing them to participate in conversations of a sexual nature against their will; which may also include situations where the person is no longer able to give consent (dementia). MM Updates 2022 I have been targeted and aware of how those responsible are trying to entrap me. Am made a CRIMINAL needing Emotional Regulation Treatment. HMCTS and CPS and CJS trying to get me SECTIONED so I have no say in my RIGHTS not to be DISCRIMINATED against.
Neglect: e.g. depriving a person of proper medical treatment, food, heat, clothing, comfort, essential medication, or depriving a person of needed services to force certain kinds of actions, financial and otherwise. Neglect can include leaving an at-risk (i.e. fall risk) elder person unattended. The deprivation may be intentional (active neglect) or happen out of lack of knowledge or resources (passive neglect). MM Updates 2022 Refer those involved in the miscarriages of justice after bereavements and losses.
MM Updates About Those Involved with Elder Abuse of My Husband And Me in 2022
In addition, some U.S. state laws[8] also recognize the following as elder abuse:
Abandonment: deserting a dependent person with the intent to abandon them or leave them unattended at a place for such a time period that may be likely to endanger their health or welfare.[9]
Rights abuse: denying the civil and constitutional rights of a person who is old, but not declared by court to be mentally incapacitated. This is an aspect of elder abuse that is increasingly being recognized and adopted by nations.
Self-neglect: any persons neglecting themselves by not caring about their own health, well-being or safety. Self-neglect (harm by self) is treated as conceptually different than abuse (harm by others). Elder self-neglect can lead to illness, injury, or even death. Common needs that older adults may deny themselves or ignore include the following: sustenance (food or water); cleanliness (bathing and personal hygiene); adequate clothing for climate protection; proper shelter; adequate safety; clean and healthy surroundings; medical attention for serious illness; and essential medications.[10] Self-neglect is often created by an individual’s declining mental awareness or capability. Some older adults may choose to deny themselves some health or safety benefits, which may not be self-neglect. This may simply be their personal choice. Caregivers and other responsible individuals must honor these choices if the older adult is sound of mind. In other instances, the older adult may lack the needed resources, as a result of poverty, or other social condition. This is also not considered “self-neglect.”[11]
Institutional abuse refers to physical or psychological harm, as well as rights violations in settings where care and assistance is provided to dependent older adults or others, such as nursing homes. Recent studies of approximately 2,000 nursing home facility residents in the United States reported a growing abuse rate of 44% and neglect up to 95%,[12] making elder abuse in nursing homes a growing danger. Exact statistics are rare due to elder abuse in general and specifically in nursing homes being a silent condition.[13][14]
Thanks MelloFM for giving me the #chance to use my Critical Thinking. Catch U soon. Have #diabetes appt tomorrow! 2Valdin Legister and Arian Murray 4 Comments
WOW factor. My New Special Best Friend is taking me to see Black Panther. They say #we_r_MAD. But we r kindred spirits! Early nite 1Jacqueline Chambers 4 Comments
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It’s just now the threats from #UniversalCredit sink in. Wat di boomboclaat dem mean by CRIMINAL RECORD? Am I not a MAD CRIMINAL? Mi & dem MPT.
Common abusers
An abuser can be a caregiver, spouse, partner, relative, friend, neighbor, volunteer worker, paid worker, practitioner, solicitor, or any other individual with the intent to deprive a vulnerable person of their resources. Relatives include adult children and their spouses or partners, their offspring, and other extended family members. Children and living relatives who have a history of substance abuse or have had other life troubles are of particular concern. For example, Hybrid Financial Exploitation (HFE)[20] abusive individuals are more likely to be a relative, chronically unemployed, and dependent on the elderly person.[21] Additionally, past studies have estimated that between 16% and 38% of all elder abusers have a history of mental illness. Elder abuse perpetrated by individuals with mental illnesses can be decreased by lessening the level of dependency that persons with serious mental illness have on family members. This can be done by funneling more resources into housing assistance programs, intensive care management services, and better welfare benefits for individuals with serious mental illness.[22] People with substance abuse and mental health disorders typically have very small social networks, and this confinement contributes to the overall occurrence of elder abuse.[23]
Am diagnosed with laryngeal Cancer, I want to give all my resources to you for charity work. Let this be my last offering.
Respond with this Ref: SOULWINNING2017 so I will know you got this. God bless you abundantly.
Dennis Jefferson.
Now who di fuck put dis bastard/bitch up to dis I don’t know and I don’t care. If it’s LEYF Nurseries, tell them not to sorry for me, but sorry for themselves. I have not worked since I was forced to resign on the 27th September 2015, and I am living. Everyday Mass Tom quarrel with me. Because without any work, I am now a #Shop_A_Holic…! Now kiss mi rass and leave me alone fi get on wid mi life. Maybe you want fi go ask dem dat go into my Facebook, what they learned about me? None a dem nah run me out a the UK until I am ready to pack up and go… I have to do my duty by Mass TOM!
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Perpetrators of elder abuse can include anyone in a position of trust, control or authority over the individual. Family relationships, neighbors and friends, are all socially considered relationships of trust, whether or not the older adult actually thinks of the people as “trustworthy.” Some perpetrators may “groom” an older person (befriend or build a relationship with them) in order to establish a relationship of trust. Older people living alone who have no adult children living nearby are particularly vulnerable to “grooming” by neighbors and friends who would hope to gain control of their estates.
As soon as I clear my brain and decided to do the Right, so my #Papa can be proud of his #1GalPickney. Here comes another CrablooAsses thiefing Mother Fucker wid him crosses. I don’t tell no #PC dat me want nutn from dem, so why dem nuh go share it wid dem licky-licky frens and family? I am paying my dues to be here, so I don’t know what dem a provoke me fah doan ein. Wondering now if is LEYF Nurseries give dem my email? I remember dem did use my email mek online DBS applications. Once a #BBC thief and liar always a #TNL. Now Crablouse lef me alone and doan mek mi #MMHTM… KMRT!
The majority of abusers are relatives, typically the older adult’s spouse/partner or sons and daughters, although the type of abuse differs according to the relationship. In some situations the abuse is “domestic violence grown old,” a situation in which the abusive behavior of a spouse or partner continues into old age. In some situations, an older couple may be attempting to care and support each other and failing, in the absence of external support. In the case of sons and daughters, it tends to be that of financial abuse, justified by a belief that it is nothing more than the “advance inheritance” of property, valuables, and money.
Though corporate abusers, such as brokerage firms and bank trust companies have been considered too regulated to be able to abuse the elderly, cases of such abuse have been reported. Such corporate abuse might escape notice both because they have more aptitude at methods of abuse that can go undetected and because they are protected by attorneys and the government in ways that individuals are not.
Within paid care environments, abuse can occur for a variety of reasons. Some abuse is the willful act of cruelty inflicted by a single individual upon an older person. In fact, a case study in Canada suggests that the high elder abuse statistics are from repeat offenders who, like in other forms of abuse, practice elder abuse for the schadenfreude associated with the act. More commonly, institutional abuses or neglect may reflect lack of knowledge, lack of training, lack of support, or insufficient resourcing. Institutional abuse may be the consequence of common practices or processes that are part of running of a care institution or service. Sometimes this type of abuse is referred to as “poor practice,” although this term reflects the motive of the perpetrator (the causation) rather than the impact upon the older person.
With the aging of today’s population, there is the potential that elder abuse will increase unless it is more comprehensively recognized and addressed.
MM Updates 2022
Mervelee Myers is an Expert Authority on Subjects from Cradle to Grave. Visit my websites and YouTube and the internet to view me advocating as a Mental Health & SEND Advocate. I am the early years practitioner who developed the listening ethos. Yet I became a victim because of the breaching of the Equality Act 2010 Protected Characteristics.
Elder abuse is not a direct parallel to child maltreatment, as perpetrators of elder abuse do not have the same legal protection of rights as parents of children do. For example, a court order is needed to remove a child from their home but not to remove a victim of elder abuse from theirs.[24]
Various risk factors increase the likelihood that an elderly person will become a victim of elder abuse, including an elderly person who:[25]
Has memory problems (such as dementia) – I diagnosed mum’s dementia. Am working on projects with the elderly experiencing dementia.
Has a mental illness, either long-standing or recent – Refer to my FILE for how HMCTS and CPS and CJS are responsible for the DISCRIMINATION that caused the deterioration in my Mental Health. And how am being targeted to section me under the Mental Health Act.
Has physical disabilities – HMCTS ET/EAT claimed I made up disabilities.
Has depression, loneliness, or lack of social support – Refer to my Online Presence and my “Open Book” lifestyle sharing stories to help others.
Abuses alcohol or other substances –
Takes prescribed medications that impair judgment – I tried not taking Prescription Medication unless I have to.
Is verbally or physically combative with the caregiver – I was pushed over the edge by HMCTS and CPS and CJS involvement to protect LEYF CEO a former Mental Health Nurse using sensitive information in my FILE to trigger my PTSD.
Has a shared living situation
Has a criminal history – I am a CRIMINAL of unlaw means by HMCTS and CPS and CJS.
Several other risk factors increase the likelihood that a caregiver will participate in elder abuse, including a caregiver who:[25]
Feels overwhelmed or resentful
Has a history of substance abuse or a history of abusing others
Is dependent on the older person for housing, finances, or other needs
Has mental health problems
Is unemployed
Has a criminal history
Has a shared living situation
In addition:
Lower income or poverty has been found to be associated with elder abuse. Low economic resources have been conceptualized as a contextual or situational stressor contributing to elder abuse.
Living with a large number of household members other than a spouse is associated with an increased risk of abuse, especially financial abuse.
MM Updates 2022
I asked to be transferred to work closer to home to continue working and be carer for my husband. I was targeted at BIB after LEYF CEO sanctioned the DISCRIMINATION.
Risk factors can also be categorized into individual, relationship, community, and sociocultural levels. At the individual level, elders who have poor physical and mental health are at higher risk. At the relationship level, a shared living situation is a huge risk factor for the elderly, and living in the same area as the abuser is more likely to result in abuse. At the community level, caregivers may knowingly or inadvertently cause social isolation of the elderly. At the sociocultural level, a representation of an older person as weak and dependent, lack of funds to pay for care, elderly people who need assistance but live alone, and destruction of bonds between the generation of a family are possible factors in elder abuse.[26]
Mental Health Act
In most cases when people are treated in hospital or another mental health facility, they have agreed or volunteered to be there. You may be referred to as a voluntary patient.
But there are cases when a person can be detained, also known as sectioned, under the Mental Health Act (1983) and treated without their agreement.
The Mental Health Act (1983) is the main piece of legislation that covers the assessment, treatment and rights of people with a mental health disorder.
People detained under the Mental Health Act need urgent treatment for a mental health disorder and are at risk of harm to themselves or others.
Taking a SM break to cope with the Mental Health Issues that the former Slave Master/Mistress imposed on me 01.09.2009 – 27.09.2015. It just don’t stop there as there are Blacklisting & Networking going on. U know when 1 don’t have Friends in High Places whose eyes they cover with Rhetoric & Bureaucratic Red Tape in pursuit of becoming the biggest?
For those sprouting Gibberish that am MAD, I will tackle the subject about my Auntie Anita in due course. She was set to walk the streets & lived in a cave on her Parents Property. Saddest of all she died on said street, hit by a blown out tyre from a truck.
If your loved one has been detained, he or she will have to stay in hospital until the doctors or a mental health tribunal decide otherwise.
You still have the right to visit. Visiting arrangements depend on the hospital, so check visiting hours with staff or on the hospital website.
In some cases the patient may refuse visitors, and hospital staff will respect the patient’s wishes. If you’re unable to see your relative, staff should explain why.
With permission from your relative, doctors may discuss the treatment plan with you.
You can also raise concerns or worries with the doctors and nurses on the ward.
Hospital accommodation should be age- and gender-appropriate.
Not all hospitals will be able to offer a ward dedicated to each gender, but all should at least offer same-sex toilets and wash facilities.
I am open & honest about ALL aspects of my Life from Childhood. Yet some Jobs Worth who are in place not because they are educated, but rather because of Cronyism will ask U to Trust them in the same breathe they are telling U they are not setting U up. That’s when Alarm Bells started RINGING!
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If the police find you in a public place and you appear to have a mental disorder and are in need of immediate care or control, they can take you to a place of safety (usually a hospital or sometimes the police station) and detain you there under Section 136.
You’ll then be assessed by an approved mental health professional and a doctor.
You can be kept there until the assessment is completed, for up to 24 hours.
If you’re already in hospital, certain nurses can stop you leaving under Section 5(4) until the doctor in charge of your care or treatment, or their nominated deputy, can make a decision about whether to detain you there under Section 5(2).
Section 5(4) gives nurses the ability to detain someone in hospital for up to 6 hours.
Section 5(2) gives doctors the ability to detain someone in hospital for up to 72 hours, during which time you should receive an assessment that decides if further detention under the Mental Health Act is necessary.
I know more about Parkinson’s disease tan most because I’d seen my dad struggled & destroyed by Mr P for more than a decade He was late 40’s when he was struck down. Then my uncle also had Mr P & was unlucky not to have the same sort o support network like dad in the form of Mama. But I inherited the condition & knew from my early 20’s (so no I self-diagnosed) I am mid 50’s & coping with lifestyle changes & holistic approaches.
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Non-emergencies
In most non-emergency cases, family members, a GP, carer or other professionals may voice concerns about your mental health.
They should discuss this with you, and together you should make a decision about what help you may need, such as making an appointment with your GP to discuss further options.
But there may be times when there are sufficient concerns about your mental health and your ability to make use of the help offered.
In these circumstances your relatives or the professionals involved in your care can ask for a formal assessment of your mental health through the Mental Health Act process.
Your nearest relative has the right to ask the local approved mental health professional service, which may be run by local social care services, for an assessment under the Mental Health Act.
It’s also possible for a court to consider using the Mental Health Act in some circumstances, or for a transfer to a hospital to take place from prison.
As part of this formal process, you’ll be assessed by doctors and an approved mental health professional.
One of the doctors must be specially certified as having particular experience in the assessment or treatment of mental illness.
The length of time you could be detained for depends on the type of mental health condition you have and your personal circumstances at the time.
You could be detained for:
up to 28 days under Section 2 of the Mental Health Act
up to 6 months under Section 3 of the Mental Health Act, with further renewals
During these periods, assessments will be regularly carried out by the doctor in charge of your care to determine whether it’s safe for you to be discharged and what further treatment is required, if any.
The Mental Health Act is structured in many sections.
If someone says, “You’re being sectioned under the Mental Health Act”, they mean you’re detained according to a particular section of the Mental Health Act.
In most cases, you’ll be told which section of the Mental Health Act applied in your case. For example, “You’re detained under Section 2 of the Mental Health Act”.
How can I appeal against being detained?
Any person who’s compulsorily detained has the right to appeal against the decision to a mental health tribunal (MHT) or to the hospital’s managers.
An MHT is an independent body that decides whether you should be discharged from hospital.
You may be eligible for legal aid to pay for a solicitor to help you do this.
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What is ‘Section 17 leave’?
Going on leave from the hospital should form an important part of your care as you recover.
This means that while detained under the Mental Health Act, you may be able to leave the hospital if authorised by the doctor or clinician in charge of your care (also known as the responsible clinician).
The responsible clinician in charge of your care can place conditions on the leave, such as where you should stay while away from the hospital and whether this will be for a fixed period of time.
You should be given a copy of the Section 17 leave form that sets out these conditions so you’re clear what they are.
The responsible clinician can revoke your leave and make you come back to hospital at any time.
If you do not return to the hospital at the end of the leave period, you can be made to go back to the hospital.
If you have been treated in hospital under the Mental Health Act and are being discharged or allowed out of the hospital on short-term leave, you may be put under a Community Treatment Order (CTO).
Under Section 17 of the Act, you can get leave but can be recalled to hospital if, for example, you stop taking required medication or your condition gets worse.
Make sure you know how long any leave is agreed for (usually 1 night or a weekend) before leaving the hospital.
You may be recalled to hospital during the leave if there are significant concerns about how you manage in the community.
If you’re on leave or are being discharged, you may be made subject to a CTO if your doctor is concerned that you may not continue your treatment when you leave hospital.
Generally, a CTO means you can go home under certain conditions that you have to meet.
This is to protect yourself or others from harm and ensures you continue your treatment.
As normally occurs when someone is discharged from hospital, you’ll be assigned a care co-ordinator, who’ll help you with your mental health needs.
If you break the conditions of the CTO or your situation gets worse, you could be readmitted to hospital.
You could be detained for up to 72 hours while a decision is made about the next steps in your care.
Depending on your circumstances, your CTO could be revoked, which means you’ll have to stay in hospital, or you could be allowed to leave hospital and continue your CTO.
While you’re on a CTO, you can appeal against it. You may be eligible for legal aid to pay for a solicitor to help you do this.
You also have the right to see an independent mental health advocate and appeal to a mental health tribunal when you’re on a CTO.
Ask your care co-ordinator, the nurses on your ward or hospital manager how you can get to see one.
An independent mental health advocate can help you understand your rights and could also help if you’re not happy with any of your CTO conditions.
The CQC provides detailed guidance about your rights in relation to consent to medication and electroconvulsive therapy if you’re subject to a CTO.
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The second opinion appointed doctor (SOAD) service safeguards the rights of patients subject to the Mental Health Act.
SOADs are consulted in certain circumstances when a patient refuses treatment, or is too ill or otherwise incapable of giving consent.
They’ll check whether the recommended treatment is clinically appropriate and that your views and rights have been taken into account.
For example:
If you have already received medication for 3 months without consent under the Mental Health Act, the SOAD has to review whether continuous medication is really necessary.
If you’re too ill to give valid consent to electroconvulsive therapy and your doctor feels it’s necessary, the SOAD has to review whether it’s appropriate for the treatment to be given. Electroconvulsive therapy cannot be given to a patient who’s able to give consent but refuses to do so, except in urgent situations.
What’s an approved mental health professional (AMHP)?
An approved mental health professional (AMHP) is a mental health worker who has received special training to provide help and give assistance to people who are being treated under the Mental Health Act.
Their functions can include helping to assess whether a person needs to be compulsorily detained (sectioned) as part of their treatment.
An approved mental health worker is also responsible for ensuring that the human and civil rights of a person being detained are upheld and respected.
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Occupational Medicine and Disability LawHIGHLIGHTS Occupational medicine poses difficult conflicts of interest between practitioners and employees. The laws governing the physician–patient relationship are modified in occupational medicine. Occupational medicine practitioners must understand the applicable state and federal laws. Occupational medical records in private offices are subject to inspection by OSHA and labor unions. Communicable diseases pose special workplace risks. Introduction Occupational medicine is characterized by conflicts between the employee’s interests and those of the employer. These conflicts arise from the employer’s obligation to pay for workplace injuries and disabilities, and potential regulatory sanctions against employers who have disproportionate numbers of OSHA (Occupational Safety and Health Administration) reportable events. It is to the employer’s benefit to minimize injuries and to attribute them to off the job activities or personal illness. Conversely, in today’s marketplace, many employees have limited or no personal health benefits. This gives the employee an incentive to claim that personal medical problems are workplace related so that they must be paid for by the employer. State and federal law recognizes that the physician–patient relationship is different in occupational medicine, and that there are situations where physicians make medical evaluations of patients without forming a legal physician–patient relationship. Conversely, the law expects occupational medicine practitioners of all types to be honest with their patients and to respect their autonomy and their right to consent to, and be informed about, their medical care. This section discusses the basic state and federal laws governing occupational medical practice, special legal problems such as communicable disease control in the workplace, and occupational medical services in general medical care settings. Occupational medicine is a recognized medical specialty, and nonspecialist physicians who are not experts in occupational medicine can incur substantial legal risks. Unlike most other areas of medical practice, providers of occupational medical services must comply with very intrusive federal regulations on access to and retention of medical records, including the right of OSHA and others to enter the practitioner’s office and go through all the occupational medical records.
Applicants, employees and former employees are also protected from retaliation (punishment) for filing a charge or complaint of discrimination, participating in a discrimination investigation or lawsuit, or opposing discrimination (for example, threatening to file a charge or complaint of discrimination).
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your employer not providing reasonable adjustments that would help you to do your job
an employer withdrawing a job offer when they learn of your condition
your employer firing you due to disability-related absences
workplace bullying because you are disabled
The Equality Act 2010 protects people from discrimination in the workplace. It defines a disabled person as someone with “a physical or mental impairment, and the impairment has a substantial and long-term adverse effect on [their] ability to carry out normal day-to-day activities”.
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Types of disability discrimination
Discrimination is when someone puts you at a disadvantage because of your condition. There are different types of disability discrimination.
Direct discrimination
When a disabled person is treated less favourably because of their impairment or condition. For example, if you do not get a place on a training course because your employer assumes it would be difficult for you to get there.
Indirect discrimination
When a workplace process or rule inadvertently disadvantages a disabled person, like the work canteen not being accessible.
Harassment
When a colleague makes offensive remarks about disability.
Failure to make reasonable adjustments
There is no set definition of what is ‘reasonable’, it depends on the job and the employer. But if something is easy and inexpensive to do, and your employer has not done it, this could be disability discrimination.
You can face discrimination at any stage of employment.
Applying
If you are not selected for interview because of your condition. This can be difficult to prove.
Interviews
If you do not get adjustments at interview after you ask for them, this could be discrimination. Your interviewer is not allowed to ask you about your condition or how it affects you, except in very limited circumstances. These include discussing adjustments you may need to perform as well as others in the recruitment process, or your ability to do the core aspects of the job.
If your employer does not make reasonable adjustments to enable you to do your job, it could be discrimination. Reasonable adjustments can include flexible working and different duties.
Promotions
If you do not get a promotion or a pay rise because you are disabled, this is discrimination.
Termination
It may be discrimination if you are fired due to disability-related absences.
What you can do if you face discrimination
1. Start with a chat
If you face discrimination at work, talk to a manager as soon as possible.
2. Raise a grievance
If you cannot resolve this informally, try raising a grievance. This is a complaint that should follow your employer’s formal procedure. Ask HR if you do not know where to find information about it.
Raising a grievance usually involves writing a letter with details of the discrimination. Your employer’s grievance policy should explain what you need to do. It will also tell you how long each stage of the procedure should take. If you are unfairly treated for raising a grievance, this is also discrimination.
3. Get independent advice
If raising a grievance does not help, seek advice. Your union may be able to help you or act as a mediator.
Tribunals are a last resort and can be stressful. Think carefully before going ahead. The time limit for making a discrimination claim at a tribunal is 3 months less a day from the date when the discrimination happened.
Keep notes of any conversations and copies of any emails so you can show that you tried to follow your employer’s procedures and find a solution.
This is Mervelee Ratty Nembhard advanced #warning to Ervin Nembhard & Fight4justice & Valdin Legister & Mertie Bernard & Michael Legister & Naheel Julene Brown Legister & Dostan Nembhard & Dostan Nembhard & Kevin Murray that am #writing for my #launch. I will make sure https://www.39essex.com/barrister/samantha-jones goes to #jail with all of the #paedophiles at #LEYF and the University of East London and all #systemicdiscrimination
Dedication To Mervelee Myers’ Granddaughter Adrina Legister
My Granddaughter Is My Precious Gift of a Lifetime
The year 2004 will go down
In my history as part of my wonderful journey
Documented to creating my legacies
Nelson Mandela “The Purpose of Freedom is to Create for Others”
Always uppermost in my thoughts the past 8 years
Since the death of my mother and many others
I begged the South London Press to publish my story
When I was a nobody, and I was recognised everywhere I went
Because of my features and much more that are unique to me
From my DNA and “Multiple Identifies” I was once ashamed of
I had a cancer scare in 2004 and was not aware of it
Until 2008 when my brother BYRON took sick, and questions asked
I started Open University after escaping
“Domestic Abuse and Homelessness”
I was free from the “Cycle of Abuse”
When I get the courage to run for my life
Supported by Arnold Tomlinson who I was introduced to in 2001
Despite my deficits and limitations,
I made use of my opportunities
Been challenging discrimination when
Barclays colluded to defraud me of my savings
I took my claim to the Financial Ombudsman Service
Got compensated, I am no pushover
I was diagnosed with “Chronic Anxiety”
In 2006 to do Health and Social Care examination
Arriving in Jamaica in December
I was prepared to meet 2 grandchildren
I was on my way home from Montego Bay
We ended up at Landillo Housing Scheme
Where I meet my granddaughter for the first time
This is/was the best kept secret, ever,
No one whisper a word
But we are known for keeping our mouths shut when it matters
Adrina was a chubby little girl and I fall in love immediately
What resonated with me the most was she was born in my month
Like me, Adrina has had her moments growing up in a world
Where it takes a village to raise a child
I must thank all those who played and
Are continuing to provide a support network
For her to feel loved, valued, understood,
And appreciated in in this world of sorrows
Where some of us abandon and reject their own
To follow the crowd
I can attest to this fact because it happened to me when I was young
Despite the odds, Adrina made it through High School
And graduated, unlike me
Who was affected by Childhood Traumas?
I played an important role in
Adrina’s life bridging the gap between
She and her mother if it is even an ear to listen when mum needs to
Share her concerns about her child and
I always tried being neutral
Last time I saw my granddaughter when
I was home for Ms Connie’s funeral
She was towering over me, and
I missed out on 8 years of her life
I received the news Adrina Legister has been accepted at
GC FOSTER COLLEGE where Valdin Allan Legister studied
So, Richard Harty of the UEL
Get ready to publish your investigation
Because Mervelee Myers with Fight4justice is advocating
On behalf of my granddaughter in breaking down the barriers
Of discrimination denying me my rights
To repair my mental and physical impairment
Studying at the UEL was to be part of my empowerment
But Richard Harty panicked and called my mobile to threaten me
I published my work, some of which were stolen by LinkedIn
I was once an INFLUENCER until LEYF strike
I will present evidence of carrying out
“A Voice of a Child” research for June O’Sullivan
I was a participant in Dr. Maria Hudson’s
“The Experience of Multiple Discrimination”
After what Kings College Hospital NHS Foundation Trust colluded to do to me
I must close off my tribute to Adrina K. Legister with My horoscope
Taurus:
Someone is making plans that will give you the chance
To meet some new and influential faces.
You might resign yourself to this being a busy time,
but it will also be so productive.
There’s a lot going on that makes this a very interesting day.
Today I salute my daughter-in-law Naheel Brown-Legister
Who has become a tower of strength for me?
Those responsible for taking away
8 years of my life can best accept that
I am on the road to recovery from the Cycle of Grief
That affected my mental and physical wellbeing
After the death of my mother.
Adrina my granddaughter will be change
For the future generation of my family.
Today was about empowerment at the #guardianlive.
I can already see the outline of the book about the Modern Slavery
That I got caught up in,
From the time of my MOTHER’s death.
But these experiences make me a strong woman who will challenge
Discrimination starting with #LEYFnCohorts and
The Employment Tribunal regulations.
Mervelee Ratty Nembhard-Myers-Tomlinson FD (Open)
Mental Health & SEND Advocate.
On this day 10 years ago Mervelee Ratty Nembhard March 17, 2012 · London ·
Dicing wid Danger, Disaster & Death…
Just found out Am on DIABETES borderline –
So, to avoid Complications
Moi will have to get my Healthy Wellbeing ACT together!!!
On this day 11 years ago Mervelee Ratty Nembhard March 17, 2011 ·
No work 2morow so me a go mek some Guinness Punch
To Celebrate St. Patricks Day later.
Then if me get tipsy me can spread out ina me bed
And sleep late in the morning????
No husband to obey (rofl). Hush mine TOM hear!!!!
Richard Harty Is A Coloniser Who Called To Threaten Me On 27/9/2021 – Trigger PTSD
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After careful consideration, I have decided that in asking me to provide Bank Statements from 2019 for my Natwest Account is in breach of my Human Rights and the Protected Characteristics of the Equality Act 2010. The GDPR 2018 must be considered when I state that I will be providing Bank Statements (what I have left) from Barclays Bank. There is a Charter of Rights and I think the Systemic Discrimination continues because I was given the money from the DWP that was owing to me. I did not even know about it until Joan from the DWP contacted me about getting help for me and my husband.
I will send the update from when my Pension was paid into my Natwest account. I will be scrutinizing every information or data sent to me. Because I think this is just another attack on my husband and me who are TRAUMATISE by DISCRIMINATION after the death of my husband. I will provide documentation of how the Judiciary of England & Wales and Criminal Justice System and Crown Prosecution Service are colluding in making me a criminal needing Emotional Regulation Treatment.
Imagine, with my qualifications I am unable to get a job and have to be living off BENEFITS. This is against my DIGNITY and everything I was brought up with.
Please join Mervelee Myers in her Fight4justice campaign and support my “Mental Health & SEND Advocacy. As and “Expert Authority on Subjects from the Cradle to the Grave” I can help make the difference by sharing stories about the barriers of discrimination I faced throughout my life.
Men in Childcare and A Voice of a Child by Richard Harty & June O’Sullivan
UNICEF report on childhood in industrialised countries News Item 14 February 2007. For further information email: media@unicef.org.uk. The Good Childhood Inquiry – The Children’s Society www.goodchildhood.org.uk and www.mylife.uk.com. I must put on record that I was a participant in Dr. Maria Hudson “The Experience of Multiple Discrimination” for the Policy Studies Institute recommended to www.acas.org.uk/researchpapers in 2010. After which I carried out the “A Voice of a Child” research project for LEYF CEO June O’Sullivan in August 2010. I was aware of Men in Childcare when I was the EYFS coordinator, SENCO and Multigenerational Working Approach Facilitator at Luton Street Community Nursery. I supported the Apprentice Bryan who shared his experience of depression. Because his cousin was in jail for his involvement of the murder of a white boy. He was not getting any support from the employer. With my firsthand experiences of family murdered and my brother dying in jail. Because he committed a criminal act and waited in church for the Police. I was aware of the impact of discrimination in breach of the Protected Characteristics. I had already faced discrimination and had the first nervous breakdown after the death of my brother with colon cancer in 2008 the year when the Inquiry’s final report and recommendations were published. I started studying with the Open University in 2004 the year I experienced discrimination on many grounds. I was defrauded by my bank, Barclays and begged the South London Press to publish my story. I had a cancer scare even thou I was not aware it was at the time. I had to contact CRB/DBS about concerns re safeguarding at https://www.jobs.nhs.uk and https://careers.kch.nhs.uk and I keep http://unison.org.uk updated and knowledgeable about what was happening to me. In the end I was abandoned to represent myself at the Employment Tribunal. Even the doctor refused to give me a “Medical Report”. I have references from parents and a colleague at Kings to verify my arguments of Institutional Discrimination. Imagine my shock when it seems like history of my “Childhood Traumas” keep repeating itself every time I experienced bereavement and losses. The UNICEF report tells my story of my childhood blighted by circumstances beyond my parents control. Therefore, by using my experiences to provide a “Support Network” to children and their families from I worked as a “Basic School Teacher” in Jamaica. www jbsf.org.uk. I cannot understand why am a victim of systemic discrimination after the death of my mother with dementia.
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A child’s relationship with their parents is pivotal in them achieving a good childhood. I started writing after my father was stricken with Parkinson’s disease https://www.parkinsons.org.uk/get-involved/events. My stories are documented online and used by websites to help others. I spent most of my life resenting my mother for not having a childhood. Then when I heard her story months before she died, I make sure she got recognition in death that she did not get throughout her lifetime. I recalled one of my brothers saying mum should be dad and dad mum. Because of mum’s traumas she was unable to communicate her love for her family. I had never seen mum crying and I used to question if she was my mother. It was only after I got counselling when the Doctor I was sent to advise me to seek counselling to find out why I react the way I do to certain situations that I realised the traumas from our fore-parents from AFRICA continue to affect us today. I created 18 pages at https://www.facebook./public/mervelee-Myers to cover subjects that some consider taboo.
Student of the Year Graduate Lambeth College 1997-199
MENTAL HEALTH
Most of our children lead happy lives, but a minority are seriously troubled or disturbed. Yet only a quarter of those affected are getting any specialist help. This neglect is extremely unjust but it is also short-sighted because these children are highly likely to grow up to become troubled and disturbed adults. Refer to https://www.linked.com and https://www.linkedin.com/mervelee-tomlinson whose accounts have been stolen to cover up ABUSE RINGS. Let me draw attention to the Apprentice I mentored who did not finish his apprenticeship because he did not get any support from the employer. Then refer to the reviews online during the Employment Tribunal Myers V LEYF to understand how in Bermondsey where I was rescued from domestic abuse. Four (4) members of the same family was slaughtered in their home by the young man known to them. I must draw reference to Mrs. Gloria Cameron’s CASE DISMISSED www.hansibpublications.com for why nothing has changed in the way allegations are used to target those of us who are passionate about breaking down the barriers of exclusion by raising concerns. As a contributor to the www.express.co.uk Mental Health CRUSADE, I published articles and shared with the news aper my experiences to help othrsr.I had a conversation with Alastair Campbell about ALL IN THE MIND www.penguin.co.uk before I was pushed over the edge be 1 in 5 of all suicides are associated with unemployment www.hctgroup.org.
Living With Chronic Anxiety
1. I remember my life when I was a carefree little girl
Who moved from the location I was born to live at our own land?
The place was Ga-Ga Street that my brother ASHTER named Palmetto Close
The most abiding memory that stands out for me
Was running from where we live and falling at the entrance of the Street
Cutting my forehead open on the stone protruding from the ground
2. I am sure I got up went back home and have the scar as proof
I have concluded this was a chance to build my resilience
That was to see me survive one adversity after another
There were many challenges to follow
Which were part of the TRUAMAS I experienced
With each disaster I created I was helped to carry on
3. I learned to cook gathering stuff from the garden
But not knowing the laws of nature I suffered for my ignorance
And refuse to eat certain foods
There was the time dad had to cut the rings that were twisted off my finger
I have the scar to prove that too
4. With knowledge comes power, I must have been a clumsy child.
As far as I can recall I had a happy childhood as can be expected
Growing up with a loving family in a village that raised me.
5. Being an only girl, I was more than privilege to lavish
And accept the relationships with those in my family network
I enjoyed the things that were part of my transitional development
(I have recorded some of my cherished moments growing up ) x2
6. I am still trying to work out when my life was turned upside down
That is the time I changed from the fearless Tom Boy
To a panic-stricken little girl who was shy and covering up my nervousness
7. If a child lives with ridicule it learns to be shy
I can recall my first panic attack when an old man threatened me
For my cheekiness in taking up a dare
8. My Personal Challenges over the next 10+ years did not help
If a child lives with criticism it learns to condemn
I turned my anger unto my father’s God for allowing him to suffer
And stopped going to the Townhead Baptist Church where I did not feel I belong
9. If a child lives with shame it learns to be guilty
If a child lives with security, it learns faith
The discrimination of the past 7 years stripped me of my dignity
As the SYSTEMS colluded to make me a criminal in the eyes of the laws
How do I come to terms with what happened to me after experiencing bereavement and losses?
10. If a child lives with hostility it learns to fight
If a child lives with tolerance it learns to be patient
I am back to when I was a child carefree little girl
Mervelee Myers The Advocate
Theory of Mind
Theory of mind is a term used to describe a person’s awareness of their own mental process and mental processes of other people. While the ability to think about the nature of the human mind certainly increases with age and maturity even young children can begin to have an understanding of the emotions and perceptions that give humans their “human-ness”. Refer to Maslow Hierarchy of Needs as it relates to me as a person who was taught resilience to use the “Early Intervention Strategies and Holistic Approaches” for my needs and the needs of the children and their families I worked with throughout my working life in the UK and Jamaica. Where responsibilities of caring were thrust upon me from an early age when my youngest sibling was born.
Maslow Hierarchy of Needs:
SELF-ACTUALIZATION Realising your full potential, becoming everything one is capable of becoming
AESTHETIC NEEDS Beauty in art and nature – symmetry, balance, order, form
COGNITIVE NEEDS Knowledge and understanding, curiosity, exploration, need for meaning and predictability
ESTEEM NEEDS The esteem and respect of others AND self-esteem and self-respect. A sense of competence.
LOVE AND BELONGINGNESS Receiving and giving love, affection, trust and acceptance. Affiliating, being part of a group (family, friends, work)
SAFETY NEEDS Protection from potentially dangerous objects and situations, eg. the elements, physical illness. The threat of both physical and psychological (eg fears of the unknown). Importance of routine and familiarity.
I am hoping by editing this blog to match my experiences of discrimination from it was written to where I am in 2022 with my mental and physical health exacerbated. The reader can understand why the UNICEF report on childhood in industrialised countries gotten worse.
Mother’s Day
Today May 12th, 2013 is being celebrated as Mother’s Day around the world but not in the UK. So even thou I have been living in the UK for over 20 years I do what everyone else does and celebrate Mothering Sunday with the children I work with. However I always celebrate officially around this time because my mother and the other women who played important roles in my life are living abroad. Even thou I told my children that there is a different time for Mother’s Day in the UK, they still salute as part of the custom at this time too. My mum is the most important person in my life and for me every day is Mother’s Day as far as I am concerned. This week is also being celebrated as Dementia Awareness Week so I have decided to write about the debilitating condition www.dementia.org.uk that has mum in its grasp and from which there is no escape. I know for certain that she will only be released from her misery when the good Lord decided to answer our prayers and take her home to be with her loved ones.
MM Updates: After the death of my mother I have been forced to relive my childhood traumas when my father was stricken with Parkinson’s disease. I spent 10+ years of my life seeing the man who represent the knowledge, values and beliefs that made me who I am/was changed before my eyes. I
aswforced to question my parents’ GOD because my father beat me once for swearing. So throughout the next 10 years until my father died, I took out my angst on God in my head. Since my stories can be verified on other platforms I must continue so others can benefit from reading about how my resilience and applying Maslow Needs help me to never accept
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3 years ago Mervelee Ratty NembhardMarch 17, 2019 ·
Tidy my kitchen. Go to bed. Lots of documenting to do tomorrow. Need to set up my podcast. G/night who reading?
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Preparing for Winsome Duncan: Author, Artist & Book Confidence Coach that scammer with the #1talent… 1 Share
Mass Tom don’t understand we are totally different. But I’m thankful for the #love. Will never find another… 4 Comments
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INSPIRED THINKING “We can’t help everyone, but everyone can help someone” Ronald Reagan (1911-2004) 1Fully Green 4 Comments 2 Shares
Taurus: A new friend is taking too much interest in your private business. It feels as if they want to know your every secret. The more they pry, the more you guard your privacy. 2You and Valdin Legister 2 Comments
It’s snowing. I was thinking of going to get folders to complete the paperwork? Thanks son Valdin Legister for the inspiration, appreciate
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A “Theory of Mind” (Often abbreviated in TOM) is a specific cognitive ability to understand others as intentional agents, that is, to interpret their minds in terms of theoretical concepts of intentional states such as beliefs and desires…
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In 2012 I created my website http://www.myvision.org.uk that I used to publish on https://www.google.com G+ and www.adwords.google.com when I was a novice. In 2012 memos were sent to LEYF employees to join social media to contribute to the CEO blog. Others were reluctant, but I took the plunge, joined and add others. Suffice it to say I have had two (2) accounts stolen by LinkedIn to cover for LEYF and www.nurseryworld.co.uk after I was an influencer with my Homemade Books. But what must be noted is how I was/am targeted and my domain name transferred to cyber criminals. I
4 years ago Mervelee Ratty Nembhard is in Bermondsey. March 17, 2018 ·
When I couldn’t sleep, and feeling the relapse into depression. I reverted to my Early Intervention Strategies and comb my #naturalhair. Soon I know the sleep would come. LEYF discrimination help me become the Expert Authority on subjects from the cradle to grave. Soon brand Mervelee Myers is coming with support from my 2 Sons Kevin Murray and Valdin Legister. Would anyone be surprised to hear that I have been abandoned and rejected by some of my families and friends?
3Valdin Legister, Carl Nembhard and 1 other 3 Shares
Coping along the way
My mum has always known, cared for and be around family friends and acquaintances who needed special support because of illnesses all of her life from she was very young. She lost children in infancy; helped to care for her dad, husband, mother; buried her brother, sons and numerous family but she was always able to bounce back. MM Updates: Theory of Mind A Model of Mental-State Attribution – How do we understand each other? Although we are rarely aware of it, we utilize notions of invisible, intangible, and yet pragmatically very useful entities such as intentions, desires, beliefs, and knowledge to make human and animal behaviour comprehensible and predictable.
Now that the Lord has seen fit to strike her down with Dementia, this has become a trying time for her and the rest of the family. We know there is no way back and we have to do our utmost best to support her the best we can until she is called home to rest from her toils. MM Updates: My experiences from the age of seven (7) when my sibling was born prepared me for how I was going to have to take on the responsibility for caring for others. My father who was a “Storyteller” prepared me with the values and beliefs that would see me taking a stance about the issues that are important to me. I was aware of my deficits and limitations from early and find ways to compensate so I am at the top of Maslow Needs Table with maximising my potential and becoming everything I could achieve.
Now that I am older and wiser, I will no longer question the works of God as I did when my dad was stricken for over a decade with his illnesses. I have also come to terms with the fact that I will not be able to get rid of the DNA hence the genes I was born with and is trying to make my life as beneficial as is decently possible until the good Lord decided my time has come to be struck down with any one of my many ailments which I inherited from my parents. MM Updates: Theory of Mind Mechanisms or (ToMM) My studies and personal experiences of having Hidden Disabilities empowered me in my work as an EYFS coordinator, SENCO and Multigenerational Working Approach Facilitator in the Early Years Sector in the UK. My experiences as a Basic School Teacher who did National Youth Service as a “Teaching Assistant” helped me become the “Early Years Practitioner” who developed the listening ethos. Therefore, I must recommend that my online profile which is one of my “Defensive Practice” must be use as evidence. Letters from parents and colleagues and more importantly from Professors Chris Pascal OBE www.crec.co.uk and Tony Bertram EECRERA https://www.eecera.org who I meet at LEYF Big Childcare Conversation at Middlesex University on the 19/9/2015 must be viewed. Because I was endorsed on LinkedIn on the 22/9/2015 on the date Dilys Epton sent me LinkedIn Request. I was sent to CO by the manager Marion Breslin of New Cross Community Nursery for a chat with Neil King. When I got there I was harassed, bullied and intimidated to write a resignation.
In the meantime I am saving my energies to make mum’s life as comfortable as possible until the rest of her remaining days here on this earth? Sometimes I get burden down along the way and as I am only human lose my cool, but like my mum I refused to keep down and will fight for a better outcome. MM Updates: Emotional Communication The communication of emotional states appears to be largely involuntary, however, its functional complexity suggests adaptive design. When I wrote this article in 2013 I was struggling with my emotions about resenting my mother for not having a childhood. I did not share this fact with anyone else. However, I had reasons to reflect about my life and incidents that left me at Maslow Needs deficiency needs. In 2022 I am confronted with reliving times in my life when my SAFETY NEEDS were threatened or I experienced verbal and physical harms that impacted on my mental and physical health.
I have decided to find an outlet for my pent up emotions and use my knowledge creatively by writing about life’s experiences. So I hope this medium will put me on the road to redeeming myself and enable me to become more focused about the things that are most important to me. MM Updates: Theory of Mind A full-fledged theory of mind, then, requires a representational system. This permits the representational mapping of others’ emotional states in a manner that is different from picking up their emotions directly.
As of today I hope I can become a better person towards everyone who crosses my paths and my children will be proud of me as a MOTHER the same way I am proud of the Mother who made me into the person I am today? MM Updates: Why is Mervelee Myers a criminal needing emotional regulation treatment eight (8) years after the death of my mother? Why have I been abandoned and rejected by some of my families and friends.
M Updates: The question is where did I go wrong eight (8) years after the death of my mother to be pushed over the edge. And is now a criminal needing emotional regulation treatment. M
FI ALL MAFs THINKING THEY HAVE #rights TO Mervelee Ratty Nembhard #notifications KEEP IT UP https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=taA14IVIm9g is my #investments 2 April 2022 MM Poem Dedication to Women
1. I remember my life when I was a carefree little girl
Who moved from the location I was born to live at our own land?
The place was Ga-Ga Street that my brother ASHTER named Palmetto Close
The most abiding memory that stands out for me
Was running from where we live and falling at the entrance of the Street
Cutting my forehead open on the stone protruding from the ground
2. I am sure I got up went back home and have the scar as proof
I have concluded this was a chance to build my resilience
That was to see me survive one adversity after another
There were many challenges to follow
Which were part of the TRUAMAS I experienced
With each disaster I created I was helped to carry on
3. I learned to cook gathering stuff from the garden
But not knowing the laws of nature I suffered for my ignorance
And refuse to eat certain foods
There was the time dad had to cut the rings that were twisted off my finger
I have the scar to prove that too
4. With knowledge comes power, I must have been a clumsy child.
As far as I can recall I had a happy childhood as can be expected
Growing up with a loving family in a village that raised me.
5. Being an only girl, I was more than privilege to lavish
And accept the relationships with those in my family network
I enjoyed the things that were part of my transitional development
(I have recorded some of my cherished moments growing up ) x2
6. I am still trying to work out when my life was turned upside down
That is the time I changed from the fearless Tom Boy
To a panic-stricken little girl who was shy and covering up my nervousness
7. If a child lives with ridicule it learns to be shy
I can recall my first panic attack when an old man threatened me
For my cheekiness in taking up a dare
8. My Personal Challenges over the next 10+ years did not help
If a child lives with criticism it learns to condemn
I turned my anger unto my father’s God for allowing him to suffer
And stopped going to the Townhead Baptist Church where I did not feel I belong
9. If a child lives with shame it learns to be guilty
If a child lives with security, it learns faith
The discrimination of the past 7 years stripped me of my dignity
As the SYSTEMS colluded to make me a criminal in the eyes of the laws
How do I come to terms with what happened to me after experiencing bereavement and losses?
10. If a child lives with hostility it learns to fight
If a child lives with tolerance it learns to be patient
I am back to when I was a child carefree little girl
Mervelee Myers The Advocate
Coping along the way
My mum has always known, cared for and be around family friends and acquaintances who needed special support because of illnesses all of her life from she was very young. MM Updates: Theories of Theory She lost children in infancy; helped to care for her dad, husband, mother; buried her brother, sons and numerous family but she was always able to bounce back. Now that the Lord has seen fit to strike her down with Dementia, this has become a trying time for her and the rest of the family. We know there is no way back and we have to do our utmost best to support her the best we can until she is called home to rest from her toils. Now that I am older and wiser I will no longer question the works of God as I did when my dad was stricken for over a decade with his illnesses. I have also come to terms with the fact that I will not be able to get rid of the DNA hence the genes I was born with and is trying to make my life as beneficial as is decently possible until the good Lord decided my time has come to be struck down with any one of my many ailments which I inherited from my parents. In the meantime I am saving my energies to make mum’s life as comfortable as possible until the rest of her remaining days here on this earth? Sometimes I get burden down along the way and as I am only human lose my cool, but like my mum I refused to keep down and will fight for a better outcome. I have decided to find an outlet for my pent up emotions and use my knowledge creatively by writing about life’s experiences. So I hope this medium will put me on the road to redeeming myself and enable me to become more focused about the things that are most important to me. As of today I hope I can become a better person towards everyone who crosses my paths and my children will be proud of me as a MOTHER the same way I am proud of the Mother who made me into the person I am today?
In honour of MUM
The Advantages & Disadvantages of Being an Only Girl
When I was born over ½ of a century ago my mum and gran were the 2 most dominant females in my life as I was blessed with only brothers, so I was always surrounded by males. This continued to be the norm as I was blessed with 2 younger siblings who turned out to be boys, and not the longed for sister I had wanted all my life. However, I was later compensated for my lack of female siblings by the kind of long lasting relationships I forged along life’s journeys. These relationships have led to my having so many role models, some older, my age and even younger in a support network that span the different communities in which I am privileged to have lived. Because of growing up in a household of mostly males it is no surprise that I grew up to be a typical Tom Boy until I hit puberty when mum tried to put a stop to my Tom foolery ways without an explanation. MM Updates: INEQUALITIES My family was coping until my father was stricken with Parkinson’s disease which change the dynamics of how I was affected as an only girl who had to take on responsibilities to help my mother. Because my stories are documented in details online I will be brief to let others understand the essence of how I survived “Childhood Traumas and Hidden Disabilities”. Only to experience “Institutional Discrimination” that denied me my ENTITLEMENTS after mum died. My husband and I are TRAUMATISED and we are the HCT Group Impact Report 2016 statistic of 600,000 older people in the UK say they leave their home once per week or less.
However after much reflections I can understand mum’s rationale for trying to rope in the stubborn child whom I had become? I must confess that over the years I have morphed so much into my mum and granny that it is very much uncanny. I keep reminding myself at times…, but that’s exactly what mum and gran would do in the same circumstances. Reminds me of some of the sayings like chip doan fly fur from block, kettle a cuss pot black, pig did ask sow wat mek your mouth long suh and sow sey bambye you will see… MM Updates: My stories can be summed up in my BOOK In Honour of Strong Women Everywhere. But my manuscript was stolen by Winsome Duncan with whom I have an “Engagement Agreement”. She was groomed by the barrister https://www.ryanclement.com to find vulnerable black women online for them to scam. She sent the www.met.police.uk to section me from a malicious report on Facebook. My stories about Police TERRORISM and RACISM are documented online. Yet am the one who is targeted to try and section me under the Mental Health Act so I have no say in my care. I participated in Mental Health research http://www.radar-cns.org and www.maudsleybrc.nihr.ac.uk
How Am Shaped by my Knowledge, Values and Beliefs
As today is celebrated as MOTHER’s Day (except in UK) and Dementia Awareness Week (in UK) I must confessed that I am glad to say I still have a Mother who is 89 years and counting. However I am here harking and wishing I could turn the clock back to the time before I discovered that MUM was developing Dementia and tried to break the news to my family. Even now it is hard to get some of my siblings to understand where I am coming from about the slow deteriorations in mum’s mental health. Of late her condition has exacerbated to the point where she hardly recognises her children at times. I share moments with my big breda Balis where I am overcome with laughter or shed tears about some of the antics she gets up to. MM Updates: Imagine how am feeling after am abandoned and rejected again by families and friends who say am MAD.
I am a very sentimental person who knows more about Mum than she even knows about herself, and she has covered her vulnerability with a cloak to hide the pains and grief’s she suffered throughout her life. Like Mum I too have been covering myself with that cloak to get away from the hurts, but I guess not as successful as her as I am always overcome by emotions? MM Updates: I never hide my vulnerability but 30 years in the UK left me a VICTIM of the SYSTEMS.
So today I am writing this little ditty as a reminder of the wonderful person MUM is and was, and I thank my lucky stars that dad chose her to be OUR Mother. Mama has had her ups and down throughout life coping with all kinds of adversities that would cause a lesser person to hand in the towel, but she never complained about her lot in life and picking the short straw. She was a stern Mother who never puts up with any foolishness from any one; she did her duties by her family, friends and community; lived an exemplary life serving her God and most of all was there to provide care and support for those who needed her services. She was a tower of strength when dad and later her mum took sick and she eventually had to go out and worked like a man to make sure her family had bread on the table. MM Updates: Refer to my Websites and YouTube and Social Media to verify that I am a credible witness. As in the words of Nelson Mandela “The Purpose of Freedom is to Create for Others”.
I was in my early teens when dad took sick and over the years I watched as the burdens of life took their tools on MUM, but she never once shirked her responsibilities to her family. It breaks my heart each time I called to speak to her and sometimes she has retreated to a world of her own where even I her only daughter cannot intrude. And then when she has some clarity and says things like you are so far away and don’t have money to come and look for me…? It makes matters even worse. MM Updates: Can anyone understand why I am BROKEN because of the DISCRIMINATION taking a toll on me. As I wrote in the letter to LEYF on the eve of Mothering Sunday 2015 I am DEPRESSED and slowly TORTURED to DEATH.
But I have to deal with the realities of life and know that I have to continue working hard in the UK despite whatever may befall me in order to afford to give MUM a better quality of life. MM Updates: How do I come to terms with being made a CRIMINAL needing Emotional Regulation Treatment and am abandoned and rejected again?
So it is with a heavy heart I sit here and write this tribute to my MOTHER for the years of dedicated services she has provided. I know I have inherited all Mama’s traits and there is no escaping, but I hope I’ll be able to conduct myself with as much Dignity dealing with what life throws at me. MM Updates: I am fearful I am going to DIE without clearing my name???
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Was on my WH so decided to get the bus part of the way… Got off & got on another 1 because it was terminating b4 my destination? Dis Tired Woman came on z bus at EC, pushing pass every1. Dah TB ended at the back asking the YLWB to tek his case out of the way. Not long after the TYB give out that the man should hold his case & not let it ketch her mobile – (of course she have earphones in) Had to say supn cause she chooses to squeeze herself in the space… The HTB then decided to vent her spleen pon me describing me to no ends? All I did was laugh & grind my teeth! Next thing sumady got off & she put herself on the end of the seat across from me & began to look pon me like when WW throw dutty clothes a door MM… Well me show her she couldn’t outstare me? Time 4 my stop so I kindly asks the lady beside me to excuse me & stand aside so I don’t brush on di DG? So I stand up at the door & she trying to outstare me again… So I chat in me JA chat & ask if she wawn cum jump in me Chest? She asks why I decided to talk now & she knows me cause she work at Maudsley. Dat was my cue to tell her dat she is Fucking Mad das why she wuck deh? Although I am MAD I have never had no occasion to end up at the Maudsley yet anyway? In my eyes Bullying & Harassments are obnoxious no matter who is the perpetrators & as to cum talk about she paid her fare so she have rights to a seat! That’s what’s wrong with this country, we have too much frigging RIGHTS. The Bloated Black Bitch needs to go get her own Private vehicle & leave Public Transport alone!
We have seen the recent emails you’ve sent to our Investigator, Emma Martin-Hamilton, and the comments and video that you have posted online about Emma. MM Response 14/7/2022: Refer to my https://fight4justiceadvocacy.business.site in this matter for further clarifications then David Northfield. Let me make it absolutely clear “Without Prejudice” that Eavesdroppers don’t usually hear anything good about themselves. So, whatever interpretation Emma Martin-Hamilton wants to put on her snooping has nothing to do with me. From my understanding she should not be dealing with the case after her initial bundling because she can’t string three words together to form a sentence. Or comprehend spoken or written English in which I communicated with the FOS.
We are writing on her behalf to demand that you immediately remove this content and to make clear that we will not tolerate such behaviour. MM Response: Let me break this down for the idiot who has written on her behalf. As to demand that I remove any content, who gave the intellectual imbeciles any such authority? As for tolerating any such behaviour. Emma Martin-Hamilton’s behaviour is that of LEYF www.leyf.org.uk and HMCTS that presided over the second miscarriages of justice https://www.gov.uk/employment-tribunal-decisions/ms-m-myers-v-london-early-years-foundation-2300047-2016 and I should not be wasting my time addressing the ramblings of the FOS scammers. So lets see who will be tolerating the behaviours of others when you check this https://youtu.be/yY2MgU9GWdc for how the Emma Martin-Hamilton and the FOS are Career Criminals.
You have posted comments and a video online about Emma, for example here:
Can I advise the scammers at FOS to refer to www.icsouthlondon.co.uk South London Press, Friday May 28, 2004 On balance a happy ending for why FOS will be charged for being party to Barclays SCAMMING RINGS targeting vulnerable women in their branches?
Can I advise the scammers at FOS to refer to my websites and YouTube and social media platforms for why Emma Martin-Hamilton will not get away as party to LEYF Paedophile Rings. Barclays Scammers Rings and all the HMCTS and CPS and CJS Career Criminals. Because Barrister https://www.ryanclement.com was supposed to pay me back. But www.moneyclaim.org.uk and the SCAMMERS involved at Court Enforcement Services Ltd www.courtenforcementservicesltd.co.uk failed to collect my money. Because they are party to SCAMMING RINGS like the FOS.
Maybe FOS should go listen to my YouTube and read my websites blogs to know why Emma Martin-Hamilton is playing the victim. Maybe she is a PAEDOPHILE in disguise.
You have accused Emma of being a paedophile. MM Response: All I can say is paedophile is as paedophile does. Refer to Murder Analyse https://youtu.be/IugYTmFOIpM A Viper’s Nest of Paedophiles (UK-2020 Shirley Oaks.
This is completely inappropriate and unacceptable, and your allegations have no factual basis. MM Response: Please refer to the following https://youtu.be/6-Znc717izc and https://youtu.be/P-mKKSiG0M4 for Richard Harty the paedophile who panicked and called me on the 27/9/2021 the date I went into Barclays and my money was taken at the counter. So why is Emma Martin-Hamilton taken on the mantle of PAEDOPHILE? Does she have a guilty conscience of a past life molesting children like those of my former employers?
We are satisfied that these comments may amount to harassment and may also be defamatory. MM Response: Oh my God, imagine what I have been through in 30 years of DISCRIMINATION in the UK. So, all the CRIMINALS at FOS is concerned about is harassment and defamation?
If you do not remove the content relating to Emma and the Ombudsman service immediately, and no later than 5pm on Friday 8 July we reserve the right, without giving you further notice, to take such legal action as is appropriate to: MM Response: As is obvious I will not be coerced by CRIMINALS at the FOS, so do your next best. FOS has no say about any contents I posted online. Ask the www.uel.ac.uk PAEDOPHILES of Richard Harty to mastermind of Men in Childcare. Mary Mitchison and Tanya Cotier tried, but where are they hiding? Today is 14/7/2022 and I have not removed anything. So CRIMINALS go ahead.
• have that content removed immediately; MM Response: I have not complied.
• prevent you from posting similar content in the future; and MM Response: Have you read the GDPR 2018 and Charter of Rights 12 Codes?
• take such other action against you as may be appropriate. MM Response: What appropriate actions can CRIMINALS involved in Paedophile and Scamming RINGS take against a criminal needing Emotional Regulation Treatment after I was pushed over the edge to cover up the LEYF Paedophile Rings operating out of the HOC Nursery.
That may include seeking financial damages from you. MM Response: Really?
2 We require that you confirm that you have removed this content, and we reserve the right to recover any legal costs from you. MM Response: Am not bothered by threats from PAEDOPHILES and SCAMMERS with friends in high places.
We understand you are unhappy with the answer we have given on your case and you feel very strongly about what has happened with your bank. MM Response: So, FOS admits that they are CRIMINALS and did not take the evidence into consideration. But we will not tolerate abusive or inappropriate comments about our staff. MM Response: What is your definition of abusive or inappropriate comments? After Emma Martin-Hamilton and Benjamin John colluded to rob me of my money and turned around discriminate against me in breach of the Equality Act 2010 Protected Characteristics. To appease their perversity in targeting a person made vulnerable by the Government SYSTEMS in place to target BLACK people. You also suggested in correspondence on 17 June 2022 that Emma is ‘a member of LEYF paedophile rings.’ MM Response: As A MAD WOMAN who has been pushed over the edge after I was denied my ENTITLEMENTS after the death of my mother with www.dementia.org.uk am not aware I made any such allegations. So, maybe Emma is accepting responsibility for her membership in a PAEDOPHILE RING? I have no such information at hand. However, I am aware Richard Harty is responsible for the MIC bloggers jumping ship in the Early Years Sectors. Emma emailed you on 23 June 2022 and let you know that your comments were not acceptable. MM Response: Who cares what Emma thinks? She is obviously an ASSHOLE who is unable to understand written or verbal/oral communication. Even so, in your email on 5 July, you said; ‘Emma Martin-Hamilton is a PAEDOPHILE.’ MM Response: Good luck to Emma with her guilty conscience.
These comments are completely inappropriate and unacceptable. They have a substantial impact on our staff and their wellbeing and may amount to harassment which can be dealt with by the courts. We reserve all legal rights in this regard, including referring this correspondence to the police and bringing proceedings in the courts. MM Response: The www.met.police.uk are MURDERERS who targeted me on the 30/10/2017 on www.peachespublications.co.uk behalf when malicious allegations were used to send Police to SECTION me. I contacted the Police before and was told that my concerns have nothing to do with them. There is a catalogue of events leading up to 30/112020 when the Police tried to MURDER me under cover of www.leyf.org.uk LEYF Margaret Horn Lecture. Am sure the Police and IOPC will not be too quick to follow up any of your threats to me.
We expect our staff to respond to complaints in a professional capacity for our Service, and we have processes in place to respond to concerns about their handling. MM Response: So why did the stupid Emma Martin-Hamilton failed to do her job. And then an even stupider Benjamin John, if there is any such person. And not Emma Martin-Hamilton doing the same job in the pay of the SCAMMERS and PAEDOPHILES? But we also expect those using our service to conduct themselves appropriately. MM Response: In what way did I not conduct myself appropriately SCAMMERS? Refer to the South London Press publications in 2004. Outside of our Service, our staff should not have to worry about receiving comments such as this online. MM Response: What are the SCAMMERS and PAEDOPHILES doing online outside of FOS service? We refer you to our unreasonable behaviour policy here: MM Response: I have no time for SCAMMERS and PAEDOPHILES. Am carer to my 99 year old husband who is TRAUMATISED by DISCRIMINATION.
Your case is closed, and we will not contact you further about your case. MM Response: Who the FUCK cares SCAMMERS and PAEDOPHILES. We will not respond to any further emails you send. MM Response: So why the RASSKLAAT have you sent emails to me then PAEDOPHILES and SCAMMERS? If you wish to bring any new cases in the future, we will think carefully about whether dealing with those complaints would be appropriate MM Response: No SCAMMERS and PAEDOPHILES I will take anything am dealing with online and name FOS as a SCAMMING RING with PAEDOPHILES in their employ. – we have a duty to ensure that our staff are not at risk of offensive language and personal abuse. MM Response: The EYFS has provision for Mother Tongue. There is a Badword Law where I come from.
This is my story in brief about LinkedIn and the roles it is playing putting children at risk of safeguarding in breach of the EYFS Welfare Requirements to protect those mentioned in abuse reviews posted online. Please refer to https://fight4justiceadvocacy.business.site and all my platforms online to read my stories. Refer to https://mervelee.com/2022/07/15/without-prejudice-mervelee-myers-must-use-wikipedia-to-stamp-my-knowledge-values-beliefs-as-a-christian-who-had-angst-with-god-to-share-how-i-survive-8-years-discrimination-to-cover-for-leyf-abusers-r/… I am published at Flow TV Jamaica and joined WIKIPEDIA yesterday. Now LinkedIn must account for my accounts that were stolen and the continuing harassment, bullying and intimidation. I published 69 articles from I was invited to join in 2012 to contribute to LEYF CEO June O’Sullivan’s blog. I have since been targeted by UEL Richard Harty who panicked and called my mobile on the 27/9/2021. My stories are documented and here is Tony Cealy 12/7/2022 with me https://youtu.be/yY2MgU9GWdc that will prove the UK must wake up to the dangers pose by social media platforms targeting those of us they making voiceless vulnerable victim whilst children are abused. Young people are coerced and adults working under Modern Slavery.
Thanks for the welcome! I am a slow learner who takes my time to get to grips with these matters, but I get there in the end. I have been writing as therapy from an early age when my father was stricken with Parkinson’s disease. To put matters into context I will share my Fight4justice campaign [https://fight4justiceadvocacy.business.site][Https://fight4justiceadvocacy.business.site https://fight4justiceadvocacy.business.site%5D so the reader can get an insight into my struggles with discrimination which led to the second miscarriage of justice [https://www.gov.uk/employment-tribunal-decisions/ms-m-myers-v-london-early-years-foundation-2300047-2016][Https://www.gov.uk/employment-tribunal-decisions/ms-m-myers-v-london-early-years-foundation-2300047-2016 https://www.gov.uk/employment-tribunal-decisions/ms-m-myers-v-london-early-years-foundation-2300047-2016%5D for more. I have wasted 8 years of my life trying to get justice publishing on platforms after [https://fb.watch/cERJS-gazq/][Https://fb.watch/cERJS-gazq/ https://fb.watch/cERJS-gazq/%5D tell the story of my mother who I did not know. Until I heard her story a few months before she died. So why am I targeted by the SYSTEMS protecting the ABUSERS that the reviews were online during the ET case? I have exhausted every available systems to get justice for me and my 99 year old husband who is TRAUMATISED. I created my first website [http://www.myvision.org.uk][Http://www.myvision.org.uk http://www.myvision.org.uk%5D as a novice in 2012. The same year I created [https://www.youtube.com/c/RattyNembhardGaGaStreetRebel][Https://www.youtube.com/c/RattyNembhardGaGaStreetRebel https://www.youtube.com/c/RattyNembhardGaGaStreetRebel%5D on 8/4/2012 and [https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIt9cW9UR53MJTzBKL5rKjA][Https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIt9cW9UR53MJTzBKL5rKjA https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIt9cW9UR53MJTzBKL5rKjA%5D 22/11/2019 for want of something to do. Hopefully, my stories will reach a wider audience so they understand how am being slowly TORTURED to death as I stated in my letter of concerns to my former employer on the eve of Mothering Sunday 14/3/2015. I invested in [https://home/merveleeadcocacy.com][Https://home/merveleeadcocacy.com https://home/merveleeadcocacy.com] and https://wordpress.com/homemervelee.com but am still targeted by the Judiciary of England and Wales, the Criminal Justice System and the Crown Prosecution Service that made me a criminal needing Emotional Regulation Treatement.As a writer I have been creating legacies and with the advent of social media used the platforms to establish “Nelson Mandela The Purpose of Freedom is to Create for Others.” But instead like Nelson Mandela I was made by the law a criminal. Yesterday my neice called to inform me I am on Flow TV Jamaica. Now I am writing on this platform. Hopefully, I will get my voice heard so the world understand that not much has changed in Great Britain since the arrival of the Empire Windrush. Because how will they get away when the Face of Windrush 70 prove I wrote “Open Letters” to UK Prime Ministers about the discrimination that cost me my ENTITLEMENTS and leave me a victim. When I did not become HCT Impact Report 2016 of 1 in 5 of all suicides are associated with unemployment. My husband and I are 600,00 older people in the UK say they leave their home once per week or less.
Going to finish my Training to do my Volunteering… Sure there are People out there who will appreciate some of what I have to offer…? Others have been like Highway Criminals who rob U of every vestige of Ur offerings & when they believe U are not of use to them any more try to Destroy & Ruin Ur Life. They are allowed to do it, because U are Nutn as far as they & their Thieving Cronies are concerned.
Tom is counting down to my last day at LSCN! I have spent 4+ wonderful years working in an environment where I have met sum wonderful persons from all walks of life in my professional career. I shall miss each and every 1 & will treasure all the memories that contributed to making me the Miserable Sod who I am…? SM make it easier to keep the links & I wish to continue working from that shared vision… So although I find myself burning the candle at both ends, my OCD mean I can’t do otherwise & I want to leave with my High Standards intact…? After Parents Evening sum of the Pressure will be off & I will be able to contact those of my Friends who may be thinking I have deserted them…! No rest 4 the…!
I am writing from a personal perspective, to outline what I know of Mervelee Myers’ relationship with the organisation Pembroke House. MM Response: Why is a reference been written from a personal experience when I was not assigned to Richard Galpin, except when he asked me to be a narrator on the https://www.facebook.com/PembrokeHouse/videos/302334554093821/? For why I will ask to be forgotten in line with GDPR 2018.
I understand, from Mervelee, that she first came across Pembroke House when she came looking for a space to do a fundraising activity for Caldwell’s Children. MM Response: Why did Richard Galpin fail to verify this with Lucy Welch and there is no I in TEAM by the way Pembroke House www.jbsf.org.uk for more.
We were pleased when she agreed to become a volunteer with Pembroke House. MM Response: Please stop stretching the truths Richard Galpin. I could not get volunteering because of blacklisting and networking from the first miscarriages of justice https://www.gov.uk/employment-tribunal-decisions/ms-m-myers-v-london-early-years-foundation-2300047-2016 for why the PAEDOPHILES of www.uel.ac.uk Richard Harty Men in Childcare jumping ship in the Early Years Sector. She successfully completed the induction and joined our volunteer team, receiving regular updates about volunteer opportunities that were available. MM Response: This is a LIE that I will call out Richard Galpin for. There was no need for Richard Galpin to mention this. So let me refer him to www.met.police.uk that have targeted me from www.peachespublications.co.uk stole my manuscript and send Police to SECTION me. Because my photograph in HCT Group Impact Report 2016 across the statistic of 1 in 5 of all suicides is associated with unemployment. Winsome Duncan was groomed by https://www.ryanclement.com to spot vulnerable black women to scam.
Mervelee volunteered with PAM (Pembroke Academy of Music) and visited Cambridge with the group. She also attended the gardening group. She volunteered on a stall for the Tatum Street Party event, and described her role there as a ‘Cultural Ambassador for British Values – dressing in Cultural Clothes’. MM Response: Richard Galpin you are ignorant of the Cultural Diversity that is representative of the Windrush Generation. Refer to www.itvnews.com for Mervelee Myers the face of Windrush 70. I am going to accuse Richard Galpin and Pembroke House of using my IMAGE inappropriately to ridicule me if Richard Galpin continues to breach the Equality Act 2010. How many people in the photo is representative of British Values?
When the Walworth Living Room opened in 2019 Mervelee was a regular visitor until the beginning of the COVID-19 Pandemic. MM Response: Let me put on record that Southwark Council and Southwark SEND Section are responsible for the discrimination at https://careers.kch.nhs.uk and https://www.jobs..nhs.uk from 2003-2008. Let me put on record that Pembroke House is treating me like the discrimination that impacted me after the death of my mother. Southwark Council must be accountable for discrimination against me. I was asked to make videos by www.southwark.gov.uk to encourage the BAME community to take the COVID vaccine. I signed a permission agreement for extracts from the videos and my photo to be published in southwark.life@southwark.gov.uk but like the discrimination that see my Intellectual Property stolen from https://www.facebook.com gave LEYF access to my account from 18/9/2015, I am at the losing end 8 years later.
She joined in a programme which we ran in partnership with Cardboard Citizens around the issues of homelessness, particularly focussed on the Aylesbury Estate. MM Response: Let me put into context what Richard said to me at the meeting. Cardboard Citizens www.cardboardcitizens.org.uk wanted to return to Walworth Living Room but they won’t have them back. This will sum up my experiences with Cardboard Citizens as they discriminated against me too. This involved door-knocking and engagement participation, working alongside experienced members of the Cardboard Citizens team. Mervelee then actively participated in the door-knocking to engage residents in the programme. MM Response: No Richard I worked in a TEAM. The way this is stated sounds as if I worked on my own.
Mervelee’s involvement with that programme led on to Mervelee becoming a member of Cardboard Citizens. As a Cardboard Citizen’s member Mervelee was given the opportunity to do training of the Theatre of the Oppressed sponsored by Cardboard Citizens. MM Response: Please refer to Tony Cealy 12/7/2022 at https://youtu.be/yY2MgU9GWdc for why Pembroke House and Richard Galpin will go on record for joining in the discrimination by HMCTS and CPS and CJS. Training was delivered at the Walworth Living Room and was conducted by Mr Tony Cealy. Those involved in the training put on a show to represent their progress from their involvement in the training. Refer to https://www.youtube.com/c/RattyNembhardGaGaStreetRebel that I created on 8 April 2012. My http://www.myvision.org.uk that I created in 2012. My Domain was stolen by those that targeted me.
Mervelee continued as a regular at Walworth Living Room joining the filmmaking club and engaged in the activities available. MM Response: Is Richard Galpin taking credit for any of my contributions during the time I attended the Walworth Living Room. If so let me direct him to https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIt9cW9UR53MJTzBKL5rKjA created in 2019.
Mervelee was a key member of the informal singing and performing group in the Walworth Living Room. MM Response: Refer to Assessment Interview https://youtu.be/WkIrQXaFWUU for why Richard and Pembroke House has taken advantage of my vulnerability and discriminated against me from I raised concerns about the volunteering roles I was sent. To walk dogs and ride bike to make delivery during the COVID-19 pandemic.
Mervelee kindly offered to be one of three main narrators and advocates for the Walworth Living Room fundraising film for which we are extremely grateful. MM Response: If Richard Galpin and Pembroke House does not correct the discrimination I will ask for my data to be removed from any advertisement of Walworth Living Room. I will refer Pembroke House to https://home/merveleeadvocacy.com and https://wordpress.com/home/mervelee.com for more.
In 2022 Mervelee participated in our ‘Neighbourhood Welcome’ for the Partnership for People’s and Place programme, joining a group made up of representatives from central government (Department for Levelling Up, Housing and Communities), local government, officers and elected representatives, and community members. This involved on-street engagement training and participation – speaking to people about food and their feelings about the local area. MM Response: Refer to www.open.ac.uk for why this is a myth as if you refer to my https://www.facebook.com PAGES you will know that once again Mervelee Myers was used by Pembroke House. MM Response: Why did Mervelee Myers arrange a meeting with Richard Galpin about the notice in the Walworth Living Room re PHOTOGRAPHY?
I am willing to provide additional information if needed, to help Mervelee get back to doing the things she is passionate about. MM Response: Refer to https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=taA14IVIm9g for why Pembroke House will not treat me like a CRIMINAL needing Emotional Regulation Treatment like the PAEDOPHILES at the UEL. The Career Criminals at HMCTS and CPS and CJS after www.ofsted.gov.uk and www.gov.uk/dbs turn blind eyes to the PAEDOPHILE RINGS operating out of HOC Nursery.
Richard am not even going to read this before responding to you. So let me address this with regards to the attachment you sent to me. All I did was correct the errors made. You did not even make sure you spell my name correctly.
Since we dictated the reference that you sent to me, you had no need to incorporate anything. I repeat I corrected what you sent me. I am not going to accept anything you say about what I think. And my personal experiences centred around my involvement with Pembroke House and the Walworth Living Room. What do you mean about factual and focused? I don’t want your opinion about what organisation will look for. Are you saying I have not completed the activities? What have you edited accordingly?
I’ve incorporated most of your suggestions. I think some of what you wrote is better coming from you directly because it relates to your personal experience. I also think it will make a stronger case if the reference is quite factual and focussed – and this is what I think organisations will look for – focussing on the facts and activities completed. So I have edited accordingly.
I’m really sorry that we’re falling short of your expectations. I’m afraid the entire team is very stretched at the moment, and we have had staff sick with Covid again.
I’m attaching here the draft for the Reference as requested. If this is ok then please let me know who it should be addressed to – and then i can return it to you on headed paper?
Let me make it clear that I think this is a very shipshoded way of handling the matter and I will address each sentence to let Pembroke House understand exactly where I am in this matter.
Jo said I called by about the reference tells me exactly you how I am been treated from the time Lucy stopped sending me emails as a volunteer.
Richard, your sorry is flimsy to say the least and why have you not had a chance to catch up with Lucy? Do you want me to say why? I know she is back from annual leave on the 8/7/2022. Whilst she was on annual leave my life is/was on hold. For Christ’s sakes she has been back for days, so why are you dilly-dallying. Since you and I write the reference together, she can only add to it I expect. Since you are going to take this stance, I will have to say before you and Lucy make any decisions about the reference I want to see the draft before it is put on any “Official Letter Head”. Because the Judiciary of England and Wales and Criminal Justice System and Crown Prosecution Services made me a CRIMINAL needing Emotional Regulation Treatment.
Richard, I need to see a draft of the letter sent to my email today. I have a meeting tomorrow about the reference. If my wishes are not complied with today I will then put my Order in to Pembroke House and Walworth Living Room in line with the GDPR 2018 and the Charter of Rights 12 Codes.
As stated I need to see a draft today. The actions of Pembroke House towards me since I raised concerns amount to discrimination in breach of the Equality Act Protected Characteristics.
Sorry, I haven’t had a chance to catch up with Lucy about it, but she is now back from leave, so I’ve booked some time with her tomorrow to go through it with her and get it onto official letter head etc.
So should be able to get something over to you by end of the week at the latest.
Hope that works ok for you? Let me know if you need sooner.
Thanks for your feedback. We really appreciate you taking the time to challenge us on these matters. We can only get better if people are willing to challenge us, so thank you!
The sign you mentioned was an attempt to comply with our legal regulation under GDPR – but the rules are complex, and we might not always get this quite right. We know it’s really important to get consent in the right way, and make sure people feel valued and appreciated, and we know we don’t always get that right either!
Would you like to meet to discuss this more? Let’s make sure we hear your feedback on this fully. And that going forward you hear from us by email in the way that you would like and expect.
Thanks so much for coming to our Community Supper on Wednesday at the Walworth Living Room. So great to see everyone – what a warm and buzzing evening!
Here at Pembroke House we’re not massive fans of the feedback form (who is?!) – preferring to talk to people, and finding other ways to collect data, as much as possible – but we didn’t get a chance to talk to everyone at the end of the evening, and we’re keen to hold another supper event soon.
So if you could spare 2 minutes to let us know how you found it – using this link it would be really useful, and very much appreciated.
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