If Facebook Google LinkedIn And LEYF Think Mervelee Myers Wasting Time With Their Terrorism I Won’t 30 July 2019

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1 year ago  Arian Murray is with Valdin Legister and 11 othersJuly 30, 2018 at 12:15 PM

Everyday with JESUS is sweeter than the day before. We all go through trials and tribulations but GOD allow our trials to be our testing points.
So if you’re feeling down out because of your situation remember you’re not denied. GOD closes some doors just to prevent our situation from getting worse.
Have a blessed day and put a SME on someone’s face ad go along.

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2 years ago   Mervelee Ratty Nembhard — feeling inspired in London, United KingdomJuly 30, 2017 at 11:09 PM

Memories of my son’s wedding when Valdin Legister put me on the spot to go #Dance in front of the world. But I done myself and my #Family Proud doing the Darrel Scott!
When they discover what I am doing I might get label as #GoldDigger, but all for a good cause… Therapy! Don’t you underestimate a #CleverBIRD!

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Utanmaz. This damat is making the rest of us look bad! #DamatTekkers

Speak 2 #BigBreda Mass Balis. More #Legacy creating in place. Even more reason 2 link EMIN! I’m not #CONFUSED_Girl after all, it’s You and Carl Nembhard. 6 Comments. Share

Thanks for sharing Jomeo Mcarthur. I don’t recognise the team, but I am so proud of Townhead. More #LEGISTER_NEMBHARD Family in the frame. We must create #Legacy

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2 years ago    Mervelee Ratty Nembhard — feeling hopeful in London, United Kingdom.  July 30, 2017 at 3:33 PM

Poor me, LEYF Nurseries take away my job… The #DWP making an Arse of themselves, or I would have gotten my ticket. Any kind Souls out there?

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READY… SET… GO! Jamaica House London 2017 is almost here coming to indigo at The O2 August 5 – 13. Be like Bolt and get your tickets fast! >>>> http://bit.ly/2vW7xUM

They got away in 2012..? So they trying it in 2017, prior to the 2018 #WorldCup. Come again Abusers…! Carl Nembhard and 2 others. 1 Comment. Share
2 years ago  Mervelee Ratty Nembhard added 12 new photos to the album: The Role of #Parents — with Valdin Legister and Kevin Murray.  July 30, 2017 at 3:02 PMLondon

#Parents are responsible 4 protection & guidance of our #Children_Birth2… Do they think I’m sitting waiting 4 them 2 #Destroy?

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2 years ago    Mervelee Ratty Nembhard — feeling motivated in London, United Kingdom.  July 30, 2017 at 12:52 PM

They need also to stop #CORRUPTION at the highest level of any#Establishment and #Systems. If the head of the stream DUTTY, it filters dung a bottom…?

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The Reggae Boyz will meet U.S. Soccer in the final. Check out the best moments from Selección Nacional de México 0 – 1 Jamaica Football Federation ( J.F.F )#GoldenMoment #MEXvJAM #GoldCup2017

I Find The Terrorist Paul Kernaghan Who Is Nothing More Than A Bigot 19/7/2019

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The Lord Chancellor, the Rt Hon #MichaelGove MP, is pleased to announce the appointment by Her Majesty the Queen of #PaulKernaghan as the Judicial Appointments and Conduct Ombudsman (JACO). Updates by Mervelee Ratty Nembhard in regards to the terrorism of LEYF Nurseries #LEYF. And the #conspiracy of the UK government in covering the #hatecrimes against #employees. Michael Gove was #keynote #speaker at LEYF Conference when the faith of my LEYF Careers was decided. I was only staff shortlisted but did not get the job. This led to a period of #depression after which I decided I would be working for my #pension. The psychopath #juneosullivan will pay me back for my intellectual property with interests.

This appointment will run for 5 years from 26 January 2016 and follows an open recruitment campaign, regulated by the Commission for Public Appointments.

The Ombudsman provides an independent ‘second tier’ #investigationfunction in the handling of #complaints involving judicial #discipline or #conduct, or the judicial appointments process (the Judicial Conduct and Investigation Office, and the Judicial Appointments Commission respectively, handle the ‘first tier’ investigations). The position is a statutory office established by the #ConstitutionalReformAct2005.

The JACO leads a small team of #caseworkers to research and #identifyissues in these cases, the majority considering questions of process and fact before producing final reports and recommendations. There is no formal right to appeal the Ombudsman’s decisions, which are #sanctioned by the Lord Chancellor and the Lord Chief Justice.

Mr Kernaghan is the House of Lord’s Commissioner for Standards and will stand down in May 2016. He is also an independent member of the Civil Nuclear #Police Authority and a member of the Armed Forces Pay Review Body. He has had a distinguished career in the Metropolitan Police police service, most recently as Chief Constable for Hampshire (1999-2008) during which he served as chair of the Association of Chief Police Officer’s International Affairs Committee.

In 2009 Mr Kernaghan led the European Union Co-ordinating Office for Palestinian Police Support mission to assist the Palestinian criminal justice system. He was awarded the Queen’s Police Medal for #distinguishedservice in 1998 and the CBE in 2005.

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We hope you enjoy looking back on your memories on Facebook, from the most recent memories to those long ago.
 2010 – 2017.  Ervin, Valdin and 16 others. 2 places
ON THIS DAY
2 years ago   Mervelee Ratty Nembhard is thinking about my future in London, United Kingdom.  July 17, 2017 at 10:03 PM

I wrote this post in 2011, and come 2017, it is as relevant as when I write it back then. However I am not really surprise about anything that another Human Being will do, just to get attention or hit out at another person. This is an indication of the type of people we are dealing with in the society that have people who are bitter against one another. The sad thing about it, it is due to jealousy.

Post of 2011: Can’t blieve that in dis time of Sexual Liberation & Empwerment Breddas & Sistas are still intent on DISSING 1 anether. Come on where is de LOVE…?

Post of 2017: Russell Grant Taurus: Someone who you thought is a friend has been talking behind your back. It’s best to stop confiding in them. Jealousy is the reason for their betrayal. Although you have always been generous with your time and attention, this has only made them angrier.
I am not pointing my fingers at anyone nor calling names, but the #CULPRITS know exactly who they are. I am not in the least bit bothered. I am used to this, this is the way some people treated me from I was little.
Even then they did not know how much I was struggling to survive.
I won’t let what anyone says to me, give them powers to hurt me anymore. I am happy enough in my own skin and I am trying not to rely on anyone too much either.
As I have said before I don’t #TRUST anyone living on the face of this earth. I don’t give a toss what anyone have to think or say about me either. My Parents are #DEAD, they were the only ones I owe any obligations to.
I owe obligations to my 2 Sons Kevin Murray and Valdin Legister, but only when they are in dire needs. Saying that I need to do my research to stop history repeating itself once too many times in my #Family.

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2 years ago   Roxanne Unruly Jones is feeling sad with Sam Coote and 8 others.

Banhan candle light this saturday at 6 starting frm frome school to burnt savannah see u there.
R.i.p mi g

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2 years ago  Mervelee Ratty Nembhard is thinking about friends and family with Mertie Bernard in London, United Kingdom.  July 17, 2017 at 8:17 PM

Tribute to Craig Damion Banhan – A Son of Townhead: From Cradle to Grave 17th June 2017 by Mervelee Myers.

Cotributions from The Jamaica Observer Source about the Accident…

A Westmoreland man died as result of injuries he sustained when the motor car he was driving overturned along the Bogue main road in St James on Friday evening….

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2 years ago    Mervelee Ratty Nembhard is feeling amused in London, United Kingdom.  July 17, 2017 at 5:11 PM

Russell Grant Taurus: Someone who you thought is a friend has been talking behind your back. It’s best to stop confiding in them. Jealousy is the reasons for their betrayal. Although you’ve always been generous with your time and attention, this has only made them angrier.
This is the story of my life. But my GOD has already strengthen me to overcome. The blessing of my #Parents are keeping me in good condition to go on.

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2 years ago   Mervelee Ratty Nembhard — feeling concerned with Valdin Legister and Kevin Murray in London, United Kingdom.  July 17, 2017 at 5:02 PM

Here’s another debate I want to get involved in. I want to look at all media and just don’t stop with social media.
I am going to have a ball with this one considering that it’s my#IntellectualProperties that’s use on this website.
I want to know why there’s one rule for me and my family, but a different rule for LEYF Nurseries and the #JFF?

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My Life 1992 To 2019

Mervelee Myers Reference Status 1992 to date
Dates                             Institutions                                 Outcomes
07/07/1992                 Jamaica – UK                           Arrived to the UK from Jamaica – Brixton
20/10/1992                Brixton Registrar Office            Got married
1992-2007                 Abbey National                           Cancelled
29/12/1992                 Woolwich Building Society     Now Barclays
1992-                           Contract Cleaners                      Worked where I provide IDs
1994                             Jamaica                                        Death of my Brother – age 37
1992-2007                   Victoria  Mutual                         Savings
1995-1997                   BBC News White City                 Cleaner – Decided to go College
1996                             Celeste Agency Service              Training – Care Assistant
1997-1999                    Lambeth College                        Graduate-Student of the Year
1999-2001                     William Wilberforce                 P45 – Room Leader
2001-2002                    Asquith Nurseries Schools Ltd    P45 –
2002                              Pre School Learning Alliance      Training
2002                              Lambeth Early Years                      Training
2002-2003                     Family Support Network              P45 – Pre School Leader
2002-2003                     Croydon Early Years                      Interview with Ofsted Inspector
24/2/2003                      Home Office                                     Certificate of Naturalisation
2003                               JACE Training & Assessment         Training
2003                               Kinderquest Support Services      Training
2003-2008                      King’s College Hospital NHS P45 – Group Supervisor
2003-                              Lambeth & Southwark LEA             Training
2004                              Barclays Bank                                     Defrauded by the Banks
28/5/2004                     South London Press                          Published after I made contact
2004                             Barclays Complained to Financial Ombudsman Service
2/11/2004                     Criminal Records Bureau                 Complaints re Manager at KINGS
2004-2010                    The Open University  Graduate –     Certificates FD & WTC (Open)
2004                             NHS                                                         Unclear Pap Smear
14/10/2005                  Adesemowo www.adelaw.com          Statutory Declaration (Deed Poll)
18/7/2006                    GP NHS                                                   Diagnosed Chronic Anxiety
2006                             USA                                                         Need to get away from Stress
2006                             #SouthwarkCouncil & LEA                Safeguarding Concerns
2006                             UNISON                                                  Raise Concerns Discrimination
2006                             KINGS HR                                               Raise Concerns
2007                             Environmental Health                         Food Hygiene
2007-2008                   Jamaica                                                   Death of my Brother – age 56
/11/2008                      KINGS/UNISON                                      Resigned Nervous Breakdown
2008-2009                   LEA/Local Safeguarding                     Blacklisted & Networking
2009                             The Peckham Settlement                    P45 – Group Supervisor
2009                             Open University Graduate –              FD (Open)
2009-                            Children Services                                 Training
2009                              Facebook – Jamaica                              Family Reunion
2009 -2010                  Fitzrovia Community Nursery            Transferred – WCSociety
2009-2010                    Camden Council Integrated EYS          Training
2010                            Nurseryworld Exhibition, London Design Centre  NW Show Training
2010                            Open University                                          Certificate – WTC (Open)
2010-2014                   Luton Street Community Nursery          Transferred- Empowerment
2010-2016                    Community Playthings UK                        Reference & Social Media
2010                             LSCN – LEYF Nurseries #LEYF                   Research for the CEO
2011-2014                    City of Westminster                                   Training
2011                               SkyNews                                                     Showcase Homemade Books
2011                               World Referee                                           Valdin Legister Bio
2011-2012                     LEYF – Shortlisted –Interview               Had a Crisis – Depression
2012                               BT Business Website – My Vision
2012                               LinkedIn                                                    Write Article re Tolerance
2012                      Penfold Street Home Stop               Disabilities – Mums Dementia Friends
2013                      Housing For Women – AGM                    Rev Rose Hudson-Wilkin at AGM
2013-2014              LEYF – Changes                                        Resignations by Employees
2013                       Jamaica                                                    Wedding & Final Goodbye to Mum
2014                      Active Matters – Dr Lala Manners        Training
2014                       LEYF Attend                                              1st New Year Staff Party
2014                       LEYF & NHS                                              Crisis – Signed off Sick
2014                       Jamaica                                                      Mum’s Funeral
2014                       LEYF                                                           Transfer to BIB
2014                       LEYF – Noah’s Ark                                    Cover
2014                      OFSTED                                                        Lead & Predicted the Outcome
2014                       LEYF CEO                                                    Long Service Award
2014-2015             LEYF                                                             Implementation of Ethos
2014-2015            LEYF & #StellaLouis                                   See ET Bundles –re Lynne Kelly
2015                      Rumi’s wedding                                          See ET Bundles
2015                      New Year’s Staff Party (MBE)                  Only BIB staff attended – Sanction
2015                      LEYF – HOC Transfer –                              Medical Suspension
2015                       Voice: The Union for Education Professionals              Allocated a Rep
2015                   Health Management Ltd Pass Fit – Advise to get CBT Maudsley Hospital
2015                   LEYF-                                                                    Transfer to New Cross
2015                   New Cross                                                            Allegations – Neil Best
2015                    Resources for Autism                                       Training
2015                   Child Protection CO                                            Online Training
2010-2015          #EduCare                                                             Online Training
2015                    Facebook Give LEYF                                        access to my account
2015                   Middlesex University                                        Meet #2Professors
2015                   LEYF CO – Meeting                                            Suspension
2015-2017          Bates Wells Braithwaite                                 See Fight4justice Advocacy
2015-                  Open University                                               Awards & Lecture
2015                   BWB, VOICE, PM, Daily Express Express     Open Letter & Correspondences
2015                   Department for Education                              Career Advice
2015                   Advising London                                               Another Stitch up
2015                   Employment Tribunal                                     ET Case
2015-                  UK government Departments                   Hate Crimes – Windrush70 Stories
2015-                   Google                                                            Blogger, Writer, Photographer
2016-2018          The Personnel Consultancy                       Refer to ET & EAT
2016                     HCT Group                                                    Training – Volunteering- Statics
2016-2019           STORM                                                            Training
2016                     London Learning Consortium                  Dyslexia Awareness
2016-2018             Morello Marketing Charity Meetup –      Breach GDPR
2016                       UNISON                                                          Re ET Law overturned
2016-2017             London South ET                                         Miscarriage of Justice x 2
2010-2019            Nursery World Show                                   Training
2017                     Facebook eLearning                                     Boost Your Post
2017-2019            Childcare Expo                                              Training
2017-2019            Pre-school Learning Alliance                     Conference
2017-2019             Winsome Duncan: Author, Artist & Book Confidence Coach Peaches Publications Scammed
2017-2019            Barrister Ryan Clement                               Scammed
2017-2019            Metropolitan Police                                       Hate Crimes
2017-2018             EAT Hate Crime                                              Escalated
2017                      Wandsworth Council CCG                             Expert Patients Programme
2018                      Rye Lane Chapel                                              Community Gospel Choir
2018                  The Alzheimer’s Show Alzheimers Society     Certificate CPD
2008-                   Charity Fundraising
2018                    Cloisters Chambers – Sally Robertson                 Representation at EAT
2018-2019           Judiciary Judiciary Of England & Wales             Corruption
2018-2019           Solicitors Regulation Authority                             What do they stand for?
2018-2019            Bar Standards Board                                  Investigation of #SamanthaJones
2019                       Santander & Financial Ombudsman            Investigations
2019                       Royal Court of Justice                                      Advocacy – Fight4justice
2019                        Caul Grant, NHS & Courts                              Advocacy

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Mama Lou Legacies Must Be Preserved For The Future Generation July 2019

Dealing with Death of Loved Ones. Updated 3 June 2019

It is 5+ years since I returned from Jamaica after burying my mother. What I have been through these past years have taught me many things that have left me reticent about how I am able to go about doing the things I am passionate about. That’s why I have invested in https://https://fight4justiceadvocacy.business.site to get some sense of purpose for my life. Because www.leyf.org.uk  colluded with the www.gov.uk to ruin my career and destroying my life. And that’s another reason I will be naming all those involved in the hate crime in https://www.gov.uk/employment-tribunal-decisions/ms-m-myers-v-london-early-years-foundation-2300047-2016 which made me a target for the terrorist in the MURDER COUNTRY after my mother passed away with dementia. And why I decided to become a www.dementiafriends.org.uk to learn more and provide support.    1. 1st LinkedIn Publication 19th July 2017 Dealing with Death of Loved Ones updated – 2. 18 Agenda For Meeting With The Police 17 June 2019 (Autosaved) 3. 18 June 2019 Conclusion of Meeting at Southwark Police Station

 Mervelee Tomlinson aka Mervelee Myers & Mervelee Ratty Nembhard

Carer at Carer at Home.

In the space of 7 months, I have made 2 trips to my beloved country Jamaica for 2 momentous and poignant occasions in my life. I traveled to Jamaica on the 22.12.13, my son’s birthday to attend his wedding on new years day 01.01.14. I was privileged to spend 4 weeks establishing links with my elderly mum whose health was in steady decline. Mum who had dementia did not recognise her only daughter, but I was blessed in a variety of ways. Because my son was living at home with mum, he had become one of the familiar persons who represented consistency and continuity in her life. In a sense, he had taken my place in mum’s heart whilst I was away from the roost. I am no stranger to controversy as I have been defending myself and others from I was a child. So when I had to call on support www.icsouthlondon.co.uk was there for me in 2004.

During my 4 weeks at home, I was empowered to get some more insights into the aging processes that are parts of the transitions from birth to death. If I am lucky I might encounter some of the changes I have witnessed throughout my life as a parent, informal and formal carer. If I live to be anywhere near to my mum’s age of 90 years old, I will be blessed with wisdom beyond my age. Now I can honestly say I totally understand the age-old adage that my older folks used “once a man twice a child…” Mum went back to being a child who needed attention 24/7 near the end of her life here on earth. I also got a clearer picture of the person I will morph into as I get older. I am now proud to be compared to my mother www.ancestrydna.co.uk/privacy since I want to know my history better.

I am saying this because, at one stage, I’d be mortified if anyone had the gall to compare me to mum and my grandma. But as the years went by and I decided to delve into my family history, I was dumbfounded to make some discoveries. Whilst in Jamaica I took the opportunity to put some of my studies acc-gen@open.ac.uk that I had done about the young and elderly to good use. I pandered to mums every needs applying techniques www.open.ac.uk/ceremonies to revive her memories despite her dementia. I sang with her, talked about her loved ones who had gone on before and did all in my power to preserve her dignity. It was truly amazing to witness mum being so humble and grateful whenever anyone did her a good turn.

This reminded me so much of some of the vulnerable children with whom I worked over the years www.ofsted.gov.uk. The vulnerable children and adults are relying on the practitioners and other health care professionals to provide for their diverse and complex needs www.alzheimers.org.uk/getinvolved.  I felt a sense of purpose when I can implement early intervention strategies from studies and training to meet the needs of any vulnerable human being. I must confess that I had a few eye-opening experiences being with mum, before heading back to the UK where duty calls. That meant I could not stay with mum to celebrate her 90th birthday, but I left with the convictions that I would not be seeing her alive again.

Back in the UK, I was kept up to date with her progress as per usual. Then after doing Race for Life www.cruk.org in honour of my brother who died of Cancer in 2008, on the 30th May in Clapham. I had these strange feelings before going to bed and I just could not stop crying. I can say as part of my beliefs that my loved ones who had gone on before had reached out to prepare me about mum’s passing in advance. In the middle of the night, I was woken up by the telephone call I was dreading and was in tuned to the time when mum drew her last breathe. After getting the news I spent the following weeks making preparations for going home to bury mum. This was one of the hardest couples of weeks I had encountered, but I took things in my stride and carried on.

I drafted the eulogy and remembrance since I am the one responsible for documenting the family history during those couple of weeks. I continued working as hard as ever, burning the candle at both ends to meet my targeted outcomes. I went back to Jamaica to bury mum but decided with my siblings that this was a time for the family to celebrate a life well spent. I got home and took part in the preparations, said I was not going to cry, but on the day of the funeral it was a different story completely. I left home in good spirit, walked up to the casket, looked at mum lying there so quiet and lifeless, and touched her face and hands. I guess that’s when the reality that mum was gone hit home and I could not stop the tears from flowing. So I cried and paced up and down until there were no more tears. In hindsight, I guess dad’s long illness with www.parkinsons.org.uk which robbed me of my father at such an early age might have been uppermost in my mind.

I have been dealing with the death of my loved ones from I was in my teens with the murder of 2 uncles in their homes from both parents, 2 years apart. The gruesome death of my grandma’s only son totally destroyed her and she never recovered. She died 2 years later, a month after the death of my dad in 1980. From complications inclusive of www.diabestes.org.uk. This meant my family had to deal with death 2 folds over a period of time. Then in 1994, I lost my brother at the tender age of 37 years old. Strangely enough, he was present when our uncle was brutally murdered and escaped with a few bruises. I lost another brother to Cancer in 2008 after a short illness, he was only 56 years old. That’s why I am more than happy to be accepted as a www.volunteer.macmillan.org.uk. The other family I had lost were not that significant, because I knew absolutely nothing about the intricacies of death.

Listening to current debates about euthanasia, the treatment of the vulnerable and the Bill being debated in Parliament… https://petition.parliament.uk/help/standards don’t have a clue about life in general. Parliament across the world is run by zombies and yes wo/men in some countries. I can’t help but reflect on some of my own experiences throughout the times when my dad and grandma were sick. Dad was sick for over a decade before he died and in the end, needed care around the clock. To compound matters, gran took sick and mum had to care for both, with help from her children. I recalled once hearing my brother saying that if it was left to him alone, he would give dad something for him to sleep. Although I was not home during my brother’s brief illness before his death, I have cause to believe he might have hastened his life.

All he did to hasten his life was to eat the things that the doctor told him that was not good for his health. I came to this conclusion after going back home and being given certain information and knowing what his thoughts were about suffering. I know I could not take that pathway if any of my loved ones or myself ever end up like my dad, because of my knowledge, values, and beliefs. But this will not take away from the fact that I can understand why some would decide to go that route. I have seen so much suffering in my lifetime www.slam-iapt.nhs.uk/southwark. I wished there was some way for people to avoid the indignity of depending on anyone else for their every need. Before I reached maturity and gain the knowledge I remonstrated with a God who would allow my dad to suffer so much. I was advised by www.healthmanltd.com to seek Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) to find out why I react to certain situations the way I do.

Suffice it to say that I am wiser about such matters and even though I have mellowed, I wish people did not have to suffer like my dad and become like my mum in the last lap of her journey. Although I knew mum would die of old age it was still hard to accept losing a loved one, in particular, my mother. She was the centre of our life because of the sacrifices she had made for her family when her husband took sick and died years later. I am proud to say that because I had dedicated my life to educating myself as an older www.ageuk.org.uk/update student. Because I never had the opportunity when younger. I was instrumental in diagnosing mum’s condition. Passing information to my family to help them provide mum with the care that she would not otherwise have gotten.

When I was still in Jamaica nothing was known about some of the conditions which affected the disabled and elderly. Therefore when these disabled and sick elderly people behaved a certain way, they were stereotyped and classed as mad, miserable or labeled with a variety of undignified names. In this age of enlightenment, I am glad to say that studying empowered me to address some of the imbalances which made my mum’s later days on this earth a more bearable time for her and her family. I am no prophet and will not claim to be brighter than anyone else. But I am proud of the way I have empowered www.aoug.org.uk/awards myself to enable me to cope with the challenges of life. By these tokens I am better equipped to handle my personal and professional life.

There are 2 things that are certain in the trilogy of humankind – birth and death, and after death the resurrection. I am praying even though I am not much of a Christian like my Father and Mother before me. But I wish I don’t have to suffer the indignity of having to rely on others to care for me like my parents before me. I guess this is why I take my health so important and have been making lifestyle changes www.heal-d.co.uk to keep healthy as long as is reasonably possible. These changes were put in place since I was diagnosed with a variety of illnesses, some of which is heredity. I intend to keep in tip-top shape for as long as I can. However there are certain matters over which we mere humans do not have the final say, so I am more than happy to leave such matters in the hands of the Almighty Father who knows everything best.

Mum has gone on to rest from her hard labours and toil and I am sure all my family is in agreement that mum is better off resting instead of staying on this earth suffering and having no memories of her family. I am more than confident mum has been reunited with all her loved ones who have gone on before? She has done a wonderful job throughout her time and I am more than grateful for the mother God gave me for the 55 years she spent here with me. My cyber footprints are to be found all over https://www.google.com and elsewhere.

Mervelee Tomlinson

Carer at Carer at Home

3y

Simon L

Billing Resolutions Manager at E.ON

What I’ve learned is that in the “Trilogy of Life”, one thing is uncertain and one thing is sure: life and death, respectively. May your lost loved ones rest in peace, Mervelee. This is just one of the persons I meet over the years because of the type of personality I possess. Therefore we connected on https://www.facebook.com and https://www.linkedin.com and in other spaces. However, since the death of my mother and what http://www.justice.gov.uk/tribunals/employment/claims/responding have done to me second time around, I prefer to stay my distance from most of those I know. I will keep my own counsel about how I move forward as of now.

Life is just too short to spend all this time living with regrets. I will count my blessings and move on. But at the same time, I will continue with my Figh4justice until the end. There is no way those who colluded to make my life the living hell it was the past 5 years are getting away. Unless my Mother was not Perline Louise Nembhard of Chambers and Saunders and Crooks clans from Westmoreland, Jamaica.

 

Taking Back Control Of My CPPDP 2019

  • 6 Months Volunteering Programme 22nd August 2015 –

Client:  Catherine A parent/mother of Theodora

Start Date: Friday 21st August 2015.

Mentor:  Meeting with mentor Vesna Glavas www.resourcesforautism.org.uk at the client’s home at 2.00pm for an assessment of Theodora’s needs.  

Brief Description of Child:

Theodora is a four (4) years old female child who is living with her parents and 3 older siblings at Roffo Court, Boundary Lane, SE17 2FP. Theodora is said to have reasonably good language and play skills. She likes going out and being in the playground. If she can’t get what she wants, she gets frustrated and can lash out. Her mother Catherine is her main carer and she struggles with giving enough attention to all the children. (This information was supplied to me via email from Resources for Autism).

Initial Visit:

From our initial visit – my mentor Vesna & I, Mervelee Myers the volunteer, it has been established that Theodora possessed many learning and developmental skills that has been stated from the above-mentioned statements. Throughout the assessments on Friday, Theodora showed interests in and participated in the activities that Vesna provided to stimulate her as part of the assessment.

Resources Introduced: Vesna introduced (1.) A coloured, sorting and matching shape set. Theodora immediately showed interests, she focused on engaging with Vesna in doing the activity and used a variety of communication skills as she initiated her own development and learning. (2.) The same level of focused attention was witnessed when Vesna introduced the sorting and matching puzzle pieces. (3.) The sensory book was also another source of interests for Theodora. (4.) Vesna introduced the microphone and Theodora shared her communication skills by using it to interact with Vesna. It turned out Theodora has her own microphone, which she plays with. However, she showed more interest in the new microphone and seems to want to keep it instead. She handed hers to me when I tried to exchange with her.

Catherine shared her concerns and some of her expectations from having the support from Resources for Autism. Mum is thankful for the support that has been provided by the practitioners at the nursery that Theodora attends.

Exchange of Information:  The client and I exchanged information before Vesna and I left the premises.

Day 1: Saturday 22nd August 2015

Arrived: 1.50 – 5.20

Programme of Activity:

  1. Getting to know Theodora and her family
  2. Where is Theodora in her development and learning
  3. How can I support and contribute to Theodora’s development and learning and her overall progress to reach her individual potentials
  4. Working in partnership with the family.

Initial Assessments – Consultations & Observations:

Theodora seems to be very attached to her mother and pays attention to her most of the time. She shows affection, kissing and cuddling up to her whenever mum initiates personal contacts. Theodora is observed carrying out instructions given to her by her mum. Although she seems capable of manipulating the iPad she was given, she tends to expect her sister Treasure to do it for her whenever she intervenes. She uses Treasure’s hands to put on hers as she manipulates the iPad. She makes sounds along with whatever she is listening to. Some of the sounds are audible and intelligible to understand. When I question her, she responds sometimes. She tries to sing “Row-Row-Row Your Boat” when mum prompted her. When I join in and introduce different animals in a sing-a-long example “lion and asks what sound the lion makes she roars”. Whenever she does anything special mum encourages her to praise herself and she applauds by clapping her hands.

Theodora carries out instructions and goes to get the TV remote control when mum asks her to. She uses the toilet independently. Eats independently, but seems to have a preference for certain foods. If mum doesn’t encourage her she will only eat those food that she likes. Mum shows that she is aware and knows how to provide for Theodora’s diverse and complex needs. Mum tries to get Theodora to engage with her siblings in a social situation when they are eating. She encourages her to sit at the table and do not wonder about as she seems to want to do. Theodora seems to thrive on praises and encouragements and mum supports her every effort.

Notices that when Theodora doesn’t get her own way, she shows some amount of frustrations and puts her hands over her ears. Other than that she seems to be very calm and seems clued into her mum who gives her lots of attention. Theodora does initiate her own learning some of the times, humming traditional nursery rhymes and songs. She seems to like when the adults join in…? She uses lots of repetitive languages most of the time and mum says she retains what she has heard for ages. She was given an icicle and kept saying “mum says no icicle” whilst eating. Mum explained that is as a result of her sister telling her no icicle when she keeps taking icicles out of the freezer. She does make an effort to talk, however, the language is not always clear for me to understand yet.

Away from the home environment:

Mum seems to be very protective of all the children, but more so Theodora. She decided to show me a shorter way to her home and accompanied me. She took Theodora and Treasure with her and gave her as much freedom on the back streets. However mum held her hand whenever we are crossing the road. Theodora seems to accept being out in the outdoors environment with her mum and sister and myself as the additional outsider. I am yet to find out how she would react if mum is not around her. On the way, Theodora is humming a rhyme I’d not heard for a long time 1, 2 buckle my shoe. She started saying “1, 2…” and paused seeming to be waiting for a response. When I joined in to supply the words “buckle my shoe” she carried on with the counting part as I supplied the words up to… “a big fat hen”.

Evaluation: Although this is my first day and I decided to get to know Theodora and her family as best as I can. I could identify the potential that Theodora has for progressing in her overall development and learning. Instinctively I started introducing the limited Makaton that I know. Although she did not respond, so I am not sure if Makaton is used in her nursery, she looked at me. I am looking forward to applying the knowledge and expertise I have gained via studies acc-gen@open.ac.uk after the www.open.ac.uk/ceremonies graduation in May 2009. I have done trainings and my own personal experiences to support, enhance and extend Theodora’s development and learning over the next 6 months.

The fact that Catherine is open and honest about her situation will enable and empower me to give of my best to provide Theodora with the support she needs to reach her individual potentials. She shows that she knows a lot and with the support and encouragement she will accomplish so much more.

Prepared by: Mervelee Myers FD (Open) & WTC (Open)

Status: Early Years Practitioner & Volunteer.

  Mental Health & SEND Advocate  October 2015 to

Student of the Year Lambeth College – 1998-1999 

 CEO Long Service Award 2014 – LEYF

EYFS Coordinator, SENCO & Multigenerational Working Approach Facilitator – 2009 – 2015 

Basic School Teacher – Jamaica 

 Teaching Assistant – National Youth Service

 Group Supervisor & Room Leader

 Preschool Leader

 Mentor

 Writer & Photographer

 Community Worker

Day 2:  Monday 24th August 2015

Start: 2.45 – 5.30

Parents Partnership:

Consulted with mum on Saturday about her needs and how I can support the family beyond the call of volunteering duties adhering to ethical guidelines and safeguarding procedures of the volunteering facilitator’s Resources for Autism. Arranged with mum about making up time for Saturday that is already booked re: work and other personal commitments.

Day’s Actions:

On arrival Theodora and her sister are asleep on the sofa and mum explained they had a day out for an appointment. The children are tired and needed to rest. Mum shared some discussions between her and her husband about Theodora. Mum said she’d allow Theodora to sleep until 4.00 o’clock then wake her. At one stage Theodora opened her eyes, looked out, pulls the cover over her head and went back to sleep. At 4.00 o’clock Theodora opens her eyes, pulls the cover back over her head and is looking around without mum waking her up. Mum encourages her to stand up and she does, repeating “stand up”. I tried saying hello to her once she is fully awake, but she did not respond.

Mum encourages her to go to the toilet, but she does not seem to be interested and seems to be getting frustrated. She is making sounds and covering her ears with her hands. (Covering her ears and make sounds seems to be her way of showing her frustrations when she doesn’t wish to do something she is asked to).  Theodora is standing in the passage, before walking off to go upstairs. Mum asks her not to go up because she wants her to come to eat rice. I went and tried encouraging her to go use the bathroom. She stands in there then comes back out without using it, so I gave her, her privacy.

She comes back into the living room and mum asks if she wants to eat rice. Theodora says “yes”, and I ask if she wants to eat chicken and she responds “yes”. Mum allows her to sit with her on the sofa and is trying to get her to eat. Mum starts off feeding her before putting the rice on the spoon and encouraging her to feed herself. However she takes mum’s hand and holding it puts the rice in her mouth (Can identify hand over hand strategies used in Picture Exchange Communication Skills – PECS). Mum perseveres with putting rice on the spoon, leaving it on the side until she starts feeding herself independent of mum’s support.

Theodora eats most of her rice and all of her chicken but gets up dropping the chicken bone on the carpet. Mum encourages her to pick it up and put it in the bin and she did. I encourage her to go wash her hands (using Makaton) and her sister helped her in the bathroom. Mum tells me about how her sister Treasure supports her all the time in and out of the home environment. When they were traveling on the bus and passing the River Thames, the sister talks with her about the water and swimming. As Theodora sits watching the TV, she mentions “water and swimming” and her mum says see she remembers from her sister telling her.

I waited for them to finish, then asks (Theodora if she knows any songs about water and swimming). I introduce 5 Little Ducks and as before Theodora joins in at the intervals. Mum is surprised that she knows the song and can join in. She relates some stories about what happens at nursery and the practitioner’s response. Although Theodora does not always participate actively at nursery, she comes home and shares her learning with her mum most of the times. Theodora goes to the kitchen and comes back with 3 coloured cups. She is holding the cups to her ear and making sounds. I am trying to engage, socialise and interact with her, showing interests in what she is doing.

When she continues holding the cups to her ear, I ask what you are doing with the cups, Theodora…? Pausing and giving her time to respond, before saying is it your telephone? Mum demonstrated telling and showing me that she knows her colours. Theodora only started to focus once she lost interests in what she is looking at on the TV and join in the activity with her mum. Mum added another cup to the 3 Theodora brings from the kitchen to prove her argument to me about her knowing her colours.

Early Intervention Strategies:

Once Theodora and her mum finished and she was otherwise engaged, I applied knowledge and expertise from studies and training giving mum tips. I advised mum about some of the strategies she can use to support, enhance and extend Theodora’s development and learning across the EYFS areas.

  1. Common Household Objects:
  2. Theodora’s Interests
  3. Repetitions
  4. Other Communities of Practice

Common Household Objects: Prime and Specific areas of the EYFS:

Mathematics: – counting, stacking, sorting, matching, add/subtract, compare, size, shapes.

Knowledge of the World: – iPad, water play – full/empty, pour, measure.

Expressive Arts & Designs: Recycling Resources for modeling – playdough, drawing, writing – crayons, pencils.

Literature: Scraps of paper, pencils, crayons. Use of language to describe what we are doing. Naming the objects.

Personal Social Emotional: Taking turns.

Physical: Encourage doing things for herself.

Communication and Language: Lots of repetition, singing, increasing Vocabulary/Language adding 1-word example red + cup + is big, Theodora uses repetition to make sense of her world in how she is processing information of language.

Recommendations: Waiting to get the resources from Resources for Autism and other resources from the school to be able to work in partnership with the parents, Resource for Autism and other Team around the Child – (TAC) for the next 6 months.

Time to Leave – Theodora’s Response: As I am about to leave I am trying to get Theodora to say bye. Instead, she says to her mum “shoes) and is trying to get her mum to get up from the sofa. She puts her arms around mum trying to lift her and when mum gets up heads towards the door. Mum helps her to get her slippers and both of them accompany me to the door. Although Theodora did not say bye, she “waves her hands” as I left and waited for me to go through the gate. She seems to accept me being in her home and did not seem worried that I was invading her space.

Continuing Personal Professional Development Plan – (CPPDP):

Informed mum, I might not have time to do a detailed report once I am back at work. But I will try depending on my workload.

Prepared by: Mervelee Myers FD (Open)

Status: Early Years Practitioner & Volunteer

 

Day 3

Saturday 29th August 2015 Time: 2.15 – 6.30

Establishing Boundaries & Set Rules for Theodora: On arrival Theodora just eaten, but seems upset and mum explains she wants to eat bread but she wants her to stick to a routine. Mum takes the bread from her again and reassures her.

PSE: I ask her to give mum a kiss and she does.

Mum & Son goes shopping:   Mum asks me to stay with the other children whilst she takes one child with her to do the shopping.

Identified Fears: After mum leaves Theodora is running around in the living room so I ask her to stop and encourages her to sit on the sofa. She obeys sitting then saying “sorry” and when I ask ‘are you ok,” she says “yeah”. Theodora is visibly upset covering her eyes and making sounds whilst looking at the TV, moving from the living room to the kitchen area. Her sister explains that she is upset about the new programme on TV.

Early Intervention Strategies: I explain to Treasure that I will take Theodora in the kitchen and find an activity for her to do. I got the coloured cups out and puts them on the table. I allow Theodora to initiate her own development and learning with the cups. She puts them in order, holds 4 cups between her fingers in 1 hand and lifts them up, she gets more cups, picks a little object from the floor and is throwing it from 1 cup to the other. I put 2 bigger cups on the table and is encouraging her to count. But she is not showing much interests.

Additional Activities: EYFS –

Physical: I ask for plain paper and got scissors from the cupboard and is cutting. Theodora says “paper and scissors” so I reinforce her communication skills by asking ‘do you want to do cutting”? Her sister says ‘maybe she is not allowed scissors, so I tell her I’ll supervise her’. Theodora holds the scissors between her thumb and pointer finger and cuts the paper the long way down the middle. She spends a long period cutting the paper into tiny pieces.

Outcomes: Theodora handles tools competently focusing on the activity she is interested in doing. She continues talking to herself. When I use the camera to take the photos (Ethical & Safeguarding Guidelines EYFS Welfare Requirements – children are not included in photographs and I explained to Treasure)

Theodora says “cheese” on hearing the click of the camera. Theodora chooses another sheet of paper and is cutting it, but because it’s wet the scissors not cutting through. I tell her the paper is wet, she feels it with her hand, tries to cut and gives up after a while and pushes the paper away when she reaches the wet area. I give her the bits I’d gathered up from the floor and she cuts until she tears off the edge and carries on cutting.

Time: 3.00 pm Focused Activity:

I decided to set Theodora an activity so started drawing shapes on a piece of paper. Theodora names the shapes as I draw them. I ask if she would like to cut around the shapes. She says “yes” and is trying as she cuts the triangle and rectangle but not around the circle. Instead, it came out like a square. I draw more shapes and asks if she wants to cut, and she carries on cutting out each shape naming them. She, however, did not seem able to cut around the bigger circle either. Realising she is losing focus I ask her to give me the scissors. She once more wonders off again to the living room.  

Time: 3.15 Theodora stops showing interests and wonders back to the living room to watch TV. I share the cutouts with Theodora’s siblings and Treasure is surprised that she could cut out the shapes. Treasure asks to keep the shapes.

PSE: Treasure is putting lip gloss on when Theodora comes back to the table and her sister shares with her. Theodora puts the lip gloss on and says “lipstick on”. She goes to get the packet with the lip gloss and her sister takes it away and she cries. The sister gives it back to her but asks if she wants bread. I encourage her to say ‘thank you, using Makaton’ and she says “thank you”. Treasure says children should not eat butter bread in the living room and Theodora goes to sit at the table in the kitchen.

Mentor & Role Model: Theodora has her sister Treasure to model learning and mentors her in reaching her potentials when she is in the home environment.

Extending Activity:

CL & Maths: I folded the scraps of paper and is encouraging Theodora to count. Treasure writes 1 – 18 on a strip of paper and says to me ‘let me show you, then says Theodora count’. Theodora identifies 1 -12 before “saying 3 when she reaches 13”. I tried matching numbers to objects.

PSE: Theodora goes to use the toilet and her sister says she will go with her and I reminds her to wash her hands.

Time 3.55: and Theodora goes back to the living room.

Time 4.00 pm: Theodora comes over to the kitchen and says “time to go home” so I explain I have to wait until her mum comes back.  Her sister says ‘the lady has to wait until mama comes’. She has been wanting to go upstairs and I keep telling her mum says she is to stay with us.

Time 4.10 pm: Trying to keep her occupied to stop her going upstairs.

& L & EAD: Get more paper and writes her name on it and gives her to scribble on. She draws a line down the paper and cross it at the top, made a big circle and a little circle before making marks all over the paper, transferring the pencil from hand to hand. Sister gives her cup to draw around and she still transfers pencil from hand to hand to draw around the cup, but the right seems to be her preferred hand for managing the pencil. She holds the pencil in a pincer grasp.

Time 4.25 pm: She goes back to watching TV. She is repeating some of what she hears. She is looking at the pictures on the book, so I start singing ABC song and she joins in. I point at the letters on the pocket of sweets and her names each letter.

Emergent & Established Knowledge Identified: After 3 visits I realised Theodora has accomplished to the end of the EYFS curriculum across Prime and Specific areas. There are some communication delays, however, they are embedded and she will join in when others support, enhance and extend her development and learning. She shows interests, can maintain focus for long periods and will persevere with an activity of interests until she achieves an outcome.

Prepared by: Mervelee Myers FD (Open)

Status: Early Years Practitioner & Volunteer.