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Still missing My Papa – 32 years later…
As the years add up there is nothing to relieve the Pain of losing my Papa Ivan Sandyman NEMBHARD on 9th February 1980. After all these years the hurt is still strong even thou I know God Almighty was gracious in answering OUR Prayers to release You from the pains and sufferings You had born without complaint over the ensuing years. I can recall as if only yesterday the last time I walked into the room to see You before taking my Baby Son Valdin Legister for a walk and You was trying to talk to me, but by that time the speech had gone. On my return I walked into the room and discovered You had taken Your long earned rest and was at Peace with Your GOD. When I called my Mama she did not believe it at first because Your eyes were still opened, and You never had a last drink of water.
The family came together and did what WE had to do. During Your long sickness I questioned Your faith in a GOD who’d allow one of His own to suffer the way You did, and to burden my Mother with having to care for 2 bedridden LOVED ones at the same time. Now that I’ve matured with the years I have become more tolerant, understanding and knowledgable about the Human Lifecycle in general and as a whole process. I can understand more clearly how and why You managed to stick to Your Faith in the one True GOD who passeth all understanding and although I will never be able to be the Standard Bearer You were I work hard to emulate You in my daily life.
I am asssured that You are at a safer Place, and is My Guiding Star in times like now when am going through Trials and Tribulations that are at times too much for me to bear alone. I am counting on YOU to keep me from commiting any of the Follies that You withstood throughout Your life here on Earth. This period and time of the year is very difficult for ME and I asks that You continue to assist Me in getting over safe and sound. THANK You Papa You were One in a Million and safe in the arms of GOD!!!
So https://www.gov.uk/employment-tribunal-decisions-ms-m… on the date my father died 42 years ago.
My Father.
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1 year ago
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The day my #father DIED I did not #cry because I shed the #tears for 10 years before his death. I had to #live with mum’s #anguish cries “HE CAN’T BE DEAD, HE DID NOT GET a #drink OF WATER”. I was at the end of the phone when MAMA LOU took her last breathe, knowing she had her drink of water and a #prayer surrounded by her FAMILY. I was the last one to see dad #alive and first to find him dead. He was trying to say something to me but could not, he lost his vocals like BYRON did. His #eyes were opened although he was dead. That means he was looking out for some one in our culture. The death of ASHTER in #prison on his own reminds me of my father. Because I had taken my #babyValdin Legister for a breathe of fresh air. My son Kevin Murray remembers his grandfather (IF HE STILL DOES?). VAL was too young. #KevinMurray got all the attention from Papa down to the time I thought he was dead when he turned BLACK. I was in pieces thinking my BABY was dying. It was Dostan Nembhard who told me a few years ago that it was Papa who put the mirror at his face and said he was breathing. So Townhead & Adjacent Districts Of Westmoreland PEOPLE don’t know my stories of SURVIVING after my FATHER was taken from me by Parkinson’s disease. I have published stories that I know must be shared to help others. There are stories I will take to my GRAVE because sharing will not benefit anyone. Therefore, I owe no one any OBLIGATIONS to accept GIVING up as an OPTION. My father was not defeated by Parkinson’s disease because he had his CHRISTAIN FAITH. So Ervin Nembhard it’s not a WEAKNESS to accept we need HELP. Sampson lost his STRENGTH for LOVE. I am a chip off the BLOCK of my FAMILY with all our DEFICITS and LIMITATIONS. I don’t take crap not even from GOD because He caused my FAMILY to suffer. I am coming to terms with my getting the SHITTIEST end of the stick and that’s why those that caused me to BREAK will pay the PENALTY by my PEN. So https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=taA14IVIm9g is £3000+ investments worth every PENNY as I empower myself to help others made VOICELESS VULNERABLE VICTIM. TIME TO RISE UP AND POOL OUR STRENGTHS instead of allowing others to TEAR US apart. GOOD DAY NIGHT in whichever NECK of the Woods you are.
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7 years ago
Mervelee Ratty Nembhard
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Got home from Nursery World Show & Mass Tom asked me for the Claw Bar he bought here. In the end I heard about the story of the bloke who decided to call my Hubby “THE CUNT” for closing the outer door. From I moved here these Vermin have pestered & provoked me no ends? At all hours of the day or night my doorbell will be ringing & they’d think nutn of playing loud music all night. Then 1 morning when it was a different bloke, Tom simple said to the bloke that I have to get sum rest to go to work…. This set off a chain of events that I was not prepared for at all. The bloke leaned into my door way, pointed his finger in Tom’s faced & threatened him, claiming Tom kissed his teeth at him. Believe me that was the 1st time I was knowing that in the UK kissing Ur teeth was a Criminal Act? Yesterday the corrosion had started b4 day when they rang my bell to get in. B4 I left home these 2 blokes keep going out & leaving the door open, then come back ringing my bell as it can be heard in the other flat upstairs. Because Tom closed the door after they went out, the bloke came back in & made the remarks for T to hear. In the end T took out the battery out of the bell, so if any1 is coming to my house. Plz call to let me know b4 hand. I will now have to go put that CB out of reach of TOM because I have enough Worry on my plate to be worrying about what he might decide to get up to if he is PROVOKED? I told T we are Foreigners & no matter what we will remain Foreigners in their eyes. Despite what any1 says we don’t have any RIGHTS as I have proven time & time again. Therefore 4 a Peaceful Life I am more than willing to give up my Rights until I have the Power to Change the Outcomes. So in the meantime “I WILL BE KISSING ASS UNTIL I CAN KICK THEM” And when that little child with hardly any communications skills Looks at me with those cute eyes, then Cut her Eyes, Shrugs her Shoulders and Kiss her Teeth, I will put it down to her only way of trying to communicate with me? I have never come across a set of Intellectual Imbeciles b4 in my Life! The strangest thing is how they try to drag U dung to their levels of Idiocy? So since this lady was demonstrating how to take this piece of furniture apart in a few seconds, I will have to find sum ways to rise above the Provocations that I have been encountering in my Life over the years? Any1 have the answers?
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7 years ago
Mervelee Ratty Nembhard
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I went to the Nursery World Show yesterday to update some of my existing knowledge. Attended The Progress Check at Two: getting it right for the child and parents. Well the speaker Vicky Hutchin was vocal about her concerns re the dumbing down of training especially Child Development. And how practitioners are empowered to do their jobs. I have been raising these same concerns since b4 I graduated from the OU. And where did that get Me…? Labelled, stereotyped and branded as a Know It All, who knows nutn! Well time alone is the Master/Mistress in these changing times. I then attended Understanding and supporting Schemas and when I saw a different name from the 1 I’d registered with, I went to enquire ensuring I was in the right place. Julie Brierley had to replace Stella who contracted Chicken Pox. NurseryWorld Show was very educational & informative indeed. I was in a PS so used my camera to capture my Story.
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8 years ago
Mervelee Ratty Nembhard is with Employment Appeal Tribunal and LEYF Nurseries.
February 8, 2014 ·
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Have to take a SM break from this ting called WORK.
Still missing My Papa – 32 years later…
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MISSING MY #baby BROTHER #42years AFTER DAD #DIED ON 9/2/1980 MONTHS AFTER MY SON Valdin Legister WAS BORN
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2 years ago
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Tell #stoshie from GP #LovenaBrown Bench & Batty #DrRoyDavidson that this is just part of my #contributions now I see Mr #ErrolPinkney my #mother FAMILY getting accolades for Townhead & Adjacent Districts Of Westmoreland of MyJAMAICA!!! I don’t need to #brag nor #boast either. Reason why GOD #bless me
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5 years ago
Mervelee Ratty Nembhard is celebrating success in Bermondsey.
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My life is all over Social Media and I don’t leave out my #Husband. So anyone of you think you playing games, don’t try it with me, I don’t have fucking time for it.
I choose to live my life the way it suits me to live with my conscience, for me and my GOD. The GOD who is going to judge me for my deeds, whether they be good or bad.
So when you have your tired pumped up selves please don’t try come let off steam on me.
The first time was through my making. And I will end it after I tell the world what I am made of. So I leave that episode as a goodwill gestures for the support that was given to my MOTHER by this person over the years when my family struggle.
The second time through the makings of one idiot scammer gal name #JuliePowell. She set up her Turkish man to scam me. I have the little cheapos to prove my arguments, and I did wear them with pride. Except of course for the ear rings because I don’t have pierce ears. Then she and her sister get man from Jamaica for me. How her sister in the USA know about me? I never did tell her I am looking man still. She have moneys worth of goods that I have the receipts that were brought in her name. So I don’t have legs to stand on, so I am leaving it.
The Winsome Duncan: Author & Public Speaker decided to introduce me to her scammer Employment Barrister. Result was to harm me at her 40th birthday party. When I was too sick to attend she send the Metropolitan Police Service and the London Ambulance Service NHS Trust to my house to section me. The rest is history because for some reason they claim #MerveleeMyers is MAD. But I have my GUNNO moments of course.
This time I was hunted down using GOD. But what gets my goat is someone can be so callous to come send me a message like this: “Ok nice knowing Ashta Sister Ratty by bye remember to add God in your life”. Really Deacon T, I expected better than that from you Church Servicing Sisters God Ram. Now how the MPT does he want me to add God in my life, like how he add me on Facebook? And get his Church Sisters and woman and friends and family to add me….?
I don’t give 3 fucks who you are, if you mess with me, I will mess with you. I don’t have any shame left, my #shametree died the day my life changed when my Father was struck down with Parkinson’s. I was practically left Fatherless and Motherless. Papa was too sick to be my Father and Mama was too busy doing Mama and Papa jobs to be Mother for me. Hoping you understand the relief there was for my Mother when my Father died on the 9th February 1980 and my Granny the 6th March 1980.
I don’t give a rat’s arse about any of you. My Mother and Father to whom I owe any obligations are dead.
All I have left is my Husband Arnold Ebenezer TOMLINSON. God has blessed me with a good man. Sometimes he is looking after me, instead of me being his CARER. I don’t need your help in any shape or fashion, thanks much?
On this day
5 years ago
Mervelee Ratty Nembhard is feeling in love with Valdin Legister and Careen Nembhard Sinanan in London.
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Taurus: Powerful desires will prompt you to take a fresh approach to romance. Your passionate overtures will be met with disbelief at first. Keep trying. You’ll eventually get the enthusiastic and heart-warming response you want.
Evaluation: All I’m saying is today is 38 years since the death of my Father. I have been looking for a #Special_Love….? My Papa #IS_NEMBHARD was buried on Valentine’s Day.
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5 years ago
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Good nite FB, mi Hubby jus ax wat mi doing? Time fi dis raspectable wife go to bed & stop fAntAsize bout di himpossible! Lots 2 d
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Patrick Arundell Taurus Apr 21 – May 21 The Sun and Mars forge a semi-sextile today. This combination could see you being more goal-orientated while balancing the ability to interact well with others. In fact, any ambitions you have can be boosted by networking.
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8 years ago
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Lori Reid Taurus Apr 21 – May 21 If you put your best efforts into your work this morning, you’ll move mountains. Later, your mind drifts to desires and affairs of the heart. Official matters, family and property come under good trends. Call me to hear what changes to expect from afar.
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On this day
9 years ago
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Contrary 2 popular beliefs I did not njoy the Sangria of SSS whilst on hols in JA! I told 1 of my son’s dad that I preferred to keep my distance from the Old Crowd – those of the Ginnals Dispositions because I didn’t wished to heed to Temptations & have 2 Grab up or Strangle any1! & then I have to tell the other 1 that I had no intentions to put any1 else’s Nose out of Joints? Or Ruffle any Feathers! So now am back on Terrafirma -UK Party Hot Spots. I have found 2 dates 4 my Social Calendar – Catford Broadway Theatre with Lovena Brown & Co. Then it will be 02 Brixton Academy in April. I’d love to go out 4 VD, but…? Any decent Bloke out there who would love to go out with me is welcome to make contact?
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10 years ago
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33 yrs ago my beloved Papa ISNEMBHARD aka Ripey was taken away from US to have his rest after years of Suffering… Thou U r gone & WE were happy to see U relieved from the Suffering, Papa will be forever in OUR thoughts!!! XXX NEMBHARD Clans…
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11 years ago
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Still missing My Papa – 32 years later…
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On this day
12 years ago
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Blinking Heck mi have de BLUES on this day… So mi haffi go wok pon mi early intervention strategies fi build up mi RESILIENCE b4 Sunday!!! TOM says am an addict – FB…
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12 years ago
Jasmine HyltonMervelee Ratty Nembhard · I see ur nephew, Veraldin is dating my cousin Sharyan , her mom is my aunt. small world hmmm.18On this day12 years agoAndre Pnut Brown is with Jasmine Hylton and 12 others. · Further on in the news!All reactions:16Jasmine Hylton and 15 others304ShareYou’re All Caught UpCheck back tomorrow to see more of your memories!
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