I was just looking at Facebook when I saw Charity Meetup 10 years Challenge. I was about to add my little bit because I am not sure about this event. But I realise there was no sound and looking at the bottom it said what is above. I went and write a post and someone else commented. So that can only mean one thing. I am the target, this has been happening to me from the time I was excluded from the Nursery World FORUM on https://www.linkedin.com. Not to worry I am used to this by now. But this only smacks of the hypocrisy of why I was left doubting myself after joining Charity Meetup and couldn’t get a volunteering post.
I questioned lots of thinks about Charity Meetup, but I let it slip. I would just like to say that Dawn Newton is just another employee who was lucky to escape from http://www.leyf.org.uk. Like all those without any moral compass, Dawn has never one day suggested even given me a message of support that we worked for the same company. I was publishing my website on theirs, so maybe that’s why I am out in the cold? I am just coming to terms with the fact that some people will take the moral high ground when the shoe is on the other foot.
I will go back to my horoscope Taurus: You wil never be satisfied if you keep comparing yourself with others. Focus on what you have rather than what you doing without. Be grateful for your blessings and this will cause them to multiply. Adopting a positve outlook will attract opportunities. I refuse to let the actions of bigots like those who let LEYF cause them to become manipulative psychopaths dampen my new found confidence. I am worth more than that.
I will remind Charity Meetup that I will be greatful for my gains attending the events. Because I www.wslaw.co.uk about the GDPR – How to be ready and 20 GDPR myths debunked by Toni Vitale, Head of Regulation, Data & Information, Winckworth Sherwood.
Written by Mervelee Myers FD (Open). Cert WTC (Open). 17th January 2019.
A Daughter’s Tribute to Her Mother 5 Years after the Final
Goodbye On 22/01/2014
Written by Mervelee Myers aka Ratty Nembhard 16th
I have set myself this target of writing a tribute to my
mother about our life as a testimony to the woman she was. I am hoping that by
sharing my story about Mama this will help others not to take any of the
persons in their lives for granted. Every day I am living with this regret of
not knowing much about my mum until it was almost too late to do more than I
done. And that was using my passion for writing to tell her story so others
could get an understanding of who she was at her funeral. This was only a few
months of hearing about her struggles throughout life as a result of the
adversities and challenges. However, I am grateful for the way I was brought up
and the experiences that shape me into the person who I am. I must mention that
from February 2010, I would be at a loss to be creating legacies.
I will have to mention the two most influential persons who
shared Mama’s story with me. They are my elder brother Balis and one of Mama’s
best friend. Ms Connie Jordine-Legister and Mama were like sisters from the
time they meet as young women. Their link was falling in love with men from St
Elizabeth. I am therefore thinking that’s how their fate was sealed to become
lifelong friends. I will have to use Naheel
Julene Brown Legister updated status to say what I might not be
able to put into words? Facebook: “Sometimes
things happen to others which forces you to reflect on life. Sometimes people
do things which leave many questions unanswered. Though that may be the case be
comforted knowing you have an ever loyal, ever caring father (God) who will
take you through the storms of life. He may not use your methods but if you
have faith in him, he will deliver and that is what ultimately matters”.
After saying my final goodbye to Mama on the 22/01/2014, I know without a shadow of a doubt how much my life would change. However, nothing prepared me for what was to happen and coming up five (5) years, I am awaiting closure. In the meantime let me use some of my Facebook Memories in helping to share stories of my experiences. This is/was my entry for the post from my daughter-in-law. I am a very astute and perceptive person. I am positive I am gifted with a vision from God, however, I don’t know how to interpret. Facebook: “Words of #Comfort from a #Genuinely_Caring_Person! People come into your #Life4Many_REASONS. It was because my son made the decision to get married in 2014 and I went home on the #22ndDecember2013 when I met this #YoungLady. I have had nothing but #Joys added to my life since then. Long may this continue as there is a GOD, that is #Compassionate_Cares_Answers_Prayers!
“Was sat on the veranda talking to my friend Mr George Scott when I spotted one
(1) big Julie mango. Wonder if it will be ready? Sum luck then where the Scott
are concerned”. Strangely enough, I only meet Mr Scott by chance after talking
to his brother in the presence of Sonny Mitto. I know Sonny for years as he is
family of Balis wife. I know some of the Scott, and Ms Ena in particular. But
did not know either of the two brothers I meet by chance. I will describe
myself as a sociable person who is in tuned with most people from the
community. My interests in people goes
back to my childhood and I would say I am/was influenced by my upbringing in
the communities where everyone was responsible for teaching me about life in
Strangely enough I was talking to Joy earlier and the subject
of why I am unable to do the Family Reunion came up. Top of the agenda is the
house. The following is about the house back home. Basically it is on hold at
the moment because of what happened after the death of Mama. Facebook Memory: “Now I can better
understand Mamas ambition and I am more than happy to make it a Reality”. Only
someone who grew up in abject poverty after my Father was stricken with
Parkinson’s disease will be able to understand where I am coming from with my
arguments. I was affected in so many different ways by the change in fortune of
my family’s circumstances in life. On
reflection and after being advised to get Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, I can
see how much I was affected as an only girl.
I want to paint a true and realistic picture of Mama for
others to realise that there is no need for anyone to be ashamed of who they
are. There was a time in my life when I was exactly the opposite of who I am
now. I would hate it when I am/was compared to my Mama or Granny. But the more
I am knowing about my family, the more I am getting to understand what makes me
tick. Therefore, I have no need to airbrush my life to suit any other person.
If anyone wants to airbrush me out of their life to suit another person, they
are welcome. I would recommend everyone to be true to themselves. That’s the
only way to gain peace of mind. I think both my Grandma and Mama might have
found some of that in the end?
The Man Who Mama
Loved After Papa
The other man I know in Mama’s life is/was Mass Victor.
There was no secret about that either. I am sure my Papa must have known about
him and given his blessings. The only drawback is/was Mass Victor was not the
marrying type. I know because I tried on a few occasions when I was home to get
them hitched. I promised to buy the ring and everything else. That’s why I
could take everything in my stride whilst spending the last month with her. She
had forgotten about her only daughter, but not Mass Victor. Love is too
complicated for me to even try to work out why this was so. So I find Mass
Victor. Facebook Memory: “So I
eventually found Mass Victor aka Clement Baker in Grange Hill. Then I went to
Kendal in Hanover to see my nephew Jevon Nembhard”.
More Family History
& Other Facts
I knew my Grandfather Claudius was from Grange Hill. Years
ago I meet my Grand Uncle who lived in Massachusetts. He used to write to Mama
and send her gifts. Mama talked about her rich Auntie who wanted her to come
and live with her to teach her to be a baker. But her Father objected and she
listened to him. I knew Raymond Hall for years before knowing he and Mama were
close family. Therefore I will have to revisit the class barriers and why Mama
was against me going out with anyone who she considers I was not on equal
footing with. Facebook Memory: “So I
went to Grange Hill yesterday and was in for some more Family history. There is/was
a Chambers Lane in Grange Hill and at one (1) time my Mum’s Family were land
Barons. They lived at the top of the Hill in Chambers Lane. They owned a
portion of land all the way to Sterling”.
Teaser: Why do sick person like my mum doesn’t like to drink Water? Went to
look for Ms Nicey’s mum over Truro and that was something she shared about her
mum. I am sure the answer don’t lie in the fact that they are called Louise.
Louise Grant and Chambers-Nembhard”. Update
17/01/2019: I am carer for my elderly husband and this is where my
knowledge and expertise as an expert authority on subjects from cradle to grave
is coming in handy. That’s why after the labelling by LEYF of me like Dr Maria
finding. Of uncooperative, unprofessional, rude, intimidating, confrontational,
aggressive, lacking empathy after the death of my mother. And months after
being given the CEO Long Service Awards, I am holding LEYF accountable.
FB 1 – Subject of Dementia: “Went to do my regular Mama check and she looks at me and asks… ‘a wonder if me daughter gone back yet, you did know her’? I look her in the eyes and say a me a you daughter, you nuh know Ratty? Got to be thankful for small Mercies”. FB 2 – Dementia: “Pleasant Good Morning. I am happy to be alive and in relatively good health. The days are getting nearer when I have to make my way back Home”. FB 3 – Subject of my Christian Upbringing: Finally my calling is being revealed. Might have to join up with my niece Ann Chambers in walking in my Papa’s footsteps. Top of Form 1Bottom of Form
FB 4 – Sharing my Thoughts: “Don’t necessarily
have any plans for tomorrow, but am sure supn a guh gwaan”. Top of Form
5 years ago. FB – 5: “Life getting a bit complicated. Me just a hole me cornas & tek een wat a guh dung”. FB 6 – Early Childhood Education: “Spent most of my day at the Townhead Basic School”. FB 7 – Basic School Teacher: “Suppose to get me lazy ass up to the Basic School to see what’s going on. Of course I have a vested interest in everything TOWNHEAD”. FB – 8 Education is Key: “The big boss man my son Valdin Legister ready to go to school. Friendship Strawberry and surroundings WE have been trodding those roads for ages. Keep your eyes out for the other son. My boys are following in the footsteps of some stalwarts”. FB 9: “After the day I had…? Imagine I’m still up fiddling with my New Machine (NM)…?” Top of Form
How my Christian Upbringing keep me going through the Years Top of Form
“Oh yes even SINNERS prayers are answered!!!! More A/L to be used to plan my
trip 2 JA… 1 by 1 everything is falling into place I exercised my final Ghost
today… Got rid of all the BAGGAGE that cluttered my LIFE… Have been
REBORN!!! Praises to JAH…” Updates
17/01/2019: Here’s why http://www.justice.gov.uk/tribunals/employment/claims/responding
will have to be accountable for why they were negligent about not acting on my
concerns about www.personnelconsultancy.com?
Now I’m baffled, why am I only seeing
adverts instead of my notifications? Mi nuh falla nobaddy helse trends. (Translate:
I don’t follow anybody else’s trends) I’m hinto Jackie M… Updates: This
was after Facebook allowed another person to troll me. After they give LEYF
access to my account on the 18/09/2015 to exploit my vulnerability of having
disabilities. Top of Form
We NEMBHARD are #nudist exhibitionist.
I grew up running around like one of my (bredas) brothers until I reached Puberty.
Then my Mama started locking down, but me being the rebel, have to do the
opposite of what I am told. But I got it wrong when Mama Lou say (mark
whore – sarcasms), don’t let any man touch you. And believe me, no man would
not get the chance to touch me. By the time I spot Mr Alverie Michael
Legister, a mi (dat), foot (wey) you (dey). Until he told me about the
birds and the bees. Like everything in my life, I take it one day at a
time Mr T…. But nothing stops me from being a nudist in my comfort
zones. Mama Lou always say to me “(wat mek dis gal) don’t stop show people
her pussy”? Pity Mama Lou don’t realise how I learned the hard way not to
show my #goldmine to
any and anyone?
Now those 3 Judges from the Employment
tribunal will understand what I mean when I said the contract I signed
on the 7th October 2009 was not reviewed and updated. But stranger still
after refusing to send me the link to renew my DBS, they stop me doing
duties… Then when they realised they were in the shit, asked me to bring my
DBS as volunteer from Resources
for Autism to copy. To put in my FILE. But you claim you don’t have a
FILE for me. It was with Bates
Wells & Braithwaite London for them to try make a case against me,
before I left Luton Street on the 22nd July 2014.
fi go dung a Jamaica mek Dostan
Nembhard cuss her until fly blow her… Like when her breda Papa Son
big hog fight each other and the loser DEAD. We know Jackie nuh like we,
and we nuh like her either. But tell di oddas keep dem cool, or old kaka a guh
tun up new?
We not only have brains and good body fi tek naked photos, we are very astute.
So it seems Jackie sit dung pon my Facebook Page
a look publicity? If she don’t leave voluntarily, she will be forcibly
removed….? Where are her friends who she be calling all over the world?
Building my Brand via
my Passion of Writing and Photography
I joined Facebook officially in February 2010, after first
using my AOL account in 2009. Facebook have been trying to close down my
account to deny me my entitlement of getting justice from the time they give
LEYF access on the 18/09/2015. Because of the trolling I experienced on
Facebook that exacerbated my disabilities, mental and physical, I am taking a
different approach about how I am engaging with Social Media platforms. As cab
be witnessed from my post, I am a trendsetter. I am responsible for linking
communities across the globe. Sharing stories that are/were of interests to
others. That’s until LEYF and Facebook joined forces to discriminate against
me. The following are some of the evidence of how I use myself to share
I have everyone on my Facebook.
Mr T, here is your #Family connection
via Gooden-McIntosh Land to GaGa Street to Mr Smith. I will leave you to work
out the rest. By the way you get the Ramcharran and Sinanan mixed up mate. My
Nembhard Sinanan is married to a Sinanan. And my nephew Gregory is/was
married to a Ramcharran. That’s enough family history for the day Mr Alfred
In case anyone is wondering, #sexiness runs
in the #Chambers_Nembhard
Family. The men are tall and the women are short, but wow, we can tek life. My
husband Mr AT can give you the bill and receipt. Oh my cuz will celebrate
her 95th birthday one day before my Mama’s on the 25th January. They call her
daughter the #BlackChinese because
she get my granny Features. Oh have to find time to go back to Ancestry to
finish sign up for my DNA. The Chambers family is from Sterling Grange
Hill, Westmoreland, Jamaica.
Here is why I will continue making my life an Open Book.
Otherwise I would not have any legs to stand on after the Employment Tribunal
make me a victim. After presiding over the second miscarriages of justice.
After using Subject Access Request – Data Protection Act – 117119. The Ministry
Of Justice confirm that the Employment Tribunal at London South no longer holds
the personal data in respect of my case against Kings College Hospital NHS
Foundation Trust. Is there any wonder that the Windrush Generation are being
treated like the Children of Israel? LEYF claim not to have any data of the
time I worked 01/09/2009 to 27/09/2015. No record of the CEO Long Service
Awards of 15/10/2014 is recorded either. Yet my CV is online for all to see.
The following is my reflection of the home I grew up in. The house is on hold with regards to building work. I have not worked since I was forced to resign with a nervous breakdown. All my plans are on hold five (5) years after saying my final goodbye to my mother. The fact that I recorded my life on Facebook just making me sad about the way I have been treated by those individuals, the systems and establishments that set out using my vulnerability to exploit me for having disabilities. Facebook Memories: There is no sign of the old house, but I have my memories. So LEYF Nurseries and the Employment Tribunal Service have lots of catching up to do. At least my Townhead Primary School mate is making better progress than them. All anyone needs to do is mention #Ashter_Sister? Top of Form
2 St James’ Court, Friar Gate, Derby DE1 1BT. 15th January 2019
Dear Deborah Lawson
I refer to you response to my letter of the 9th
December 2018 re: Your Official Complaint dated 10th January 2019.
Since I clarified my position in prior correspondences up to the 09/12/2018, I will go ahead and seek justice in the form of compensation via the Small Claims Court. I will, therefore, be sending you a copy of the documents for your perusal. That way there is no ambiguity about my intentions. I noticed in your recent correspondence that you are dragging the time frame out. In that way I will lose my claim with you, stating the time ran out.
Let me address the
pertinent points in your response however, ensuring there is clarity.
Matter of the formal complaint dated 30/06/2015. Maybe it is in the union’s
best interest to go back through the correspondences leading up to my
complaint. For your information I have copies, but thanks anyway. This helps to
alleviate the stress of trying to find the documents.
Paragraph 2: The
matter of the deductions addressed by Solicitor Catherine Scrivens was an underhand and unprofessional way of
trying for me to sign away my Membership. For your information LEYF used
Facebook to breach their own Policy & Procedures, giving them access to my
account from the 18/09/2015. This was how LEYF used my data to breach the
contract I signed on 07/10/2009. Hence the reason they withheld my FILE before
my transfer from Luton Street. In this way the Union will then say they do not
I have experienced the way unions operate unscrupulously. Take a look at this response from UNISON. They claim the case is closed. After Subject Access Request – Data Protection Act – 117119, the Ministry Of Justice confirmed that the Employment Tribunal at South London no longer holds the personal data in respect of my case in which UNISON was involved. The mistake I made at the time was canceling my subscription with UNISON. In light of the GDPR can you advise me why you are trying to force me to stop my Membership, after your failure to act in my best interests? Since you mention Facebook, maybe it’s time for you to accept that you are party to the institutional discrimination and colluding with www.leyf.org.uk to destroy my life. (Refer to the website for parents and employees reviews in 2016 whilst the ET case was in progress).
Paragraph 3: I am
getting baptised in due course, I will ask God to save me from idiots at Voice.
Are you not hereby confirming that Arwen
Makin did advise me not to appeal? As for saying that Voice could not
support my claims at the Employment Tribunal, is this not admitting that I was
sold out to LEYF? This is why Darren
Mahon disappeared after accompanying me to the Disciplinary Hearing. Is it
not a fact that Voice contributed to triggering my traumas into PTSD. I was
advised to get CBT by the Doctor who LEYF send me to for Occupational Health
after the Medical Suspension. Arwen Makin advised me about contacting Dilys Epton and assigning Union Rep
Darren Mahon to representing me. When did Voice decide that my claims have no realistic prospect of success? Could
this be after the disappearance of Darren Mahon? (Refer to the Disciplinary
Outcome and my email of 14/03/2015 to Dilys Epton). In case you have destroyed
the paperwork, I was passed fit to return to work, morons.
Paragraph 4: Ok,
but you failed to provide me with the details for the higher Authority of the union to take my complaints to. Are you
therefore telling me that there is no such body? I was not asking for your
advice, it’s obvious that you are incapable of any such. Considering all those
who left LEYF and the disappearance of Darren Mahon, can I ask why Arwen Makin
left Voice? As you can see I have no money as Voice is party to the
discrimination leaving me without a job. Therefore, you can subscribe to my
for the latest updates.
Please refer to above paragraph of the ways I will be dealing with this
paragraph. Voice is party to destroying
the 26 years of my life in the UK. I am finding my voice exposing Modern
Slavery Practice thriving in the UK. We will have to agree to disagree about the
responsibility of my Membership. Are you going to say that Voice have no
knowledge of my transfer from BIB to HOC and then to New Cross? From where I
resigned with a nervous breakdown on the 27/09/2015. (Refer to the Small Claims
Court forms please).